1, always have an appreciation attitude towards children.

Appreciation is not unrealistic praise and encouragement, but a kind of silent support from the heart, a kind of tacit power. Parents of excellent children have an inexhaustible appreciation for their children from beginning to end.

2, strong principles, will not easily change their views because of people and things.

Parents clearly know what their children should and should not do, and make rules. Respect parents, don't lie, be honest, and offenders will never be soft. This is the bottom line of being a man.

3. Be good at running your own family.

A good family atmosphere is the foundation of children's growth. The atmosphere is harmonious and warm, and there are few disputes between parents. In such a family, children can feel warmth.

Mothers often play a vital role in the family, not wearing expensive clothes or using expensive things, but dressing up children and adults.

4. Reasonable, steady, simple and low-key.

Parents are very reasonable and considerate. Views on problems are often very eclectic, not extreme and stubborn, with steady manners and elegant speech, which will not give people the feeling of arrogance, and rarely boast about their family and income in front of others.

5. Care but never spoil children.

I care about my children very much, but I can categorically reject their unreasonable troubles, never regret or tolerate their mistakes.

6. Parents cooperate tacitly

On the issue of educating children, there is a tacit understanding that one should be a good policeman and the other a bad policeman. Parents should not undermine each other and blame each other.

7. Work hard and seek truth from facts

Parents' attitudes towards life and work will exert a subtle influence on their children. Excellent parents are not only successful in educating their children, but also conscientious and conscientious in their work.

8. Pay regular attention to children's learning.

Smart parents spend a certain amount of time paying attention to their children every day, and they can fix them regularly. Have time to study with your child, even if you don't study, you will stay with your child. I have my own desk at home, so I can't do my homework and study for a while every day.

I don't spend much time on the Internet.

Sometimes, children love to play games, which is influenced by their parents. All parents should set an example and set a good example for their children.

10, pay attention to children's diet health

Excellent parents pay great attention to their children's diet health, make reasonable and healthy diet recipes for their children, and know what additives are and what is not good for their children.

1 1, not complaining.

Parents have their own opinions, rarely complain about anything, can understand others, and maintain a healthy and upward attitude, which can naturally drive children to be positive.

12, strict with children

Strictly speaking, it is not about beating and cursing, but about controlling children's behaviors and habits. "Diligence without pleasure" is the unchanging creed of educating children.

13, get to know the children, and don't expect too much of them.

Objectively evaluate children, don't give too high expectations, don't be pessimistic, and set goals according to their actual abilities. The focus of efforts is the process, not the result.

14, make friends with children and listen to their voices.

These parents respect their children very much, and they will listen to their voices. Even if what children say is trivial, it is an important part of life in their hearts. When parents learn to listen, children will feel valued and will be more willing to communicate with their parents.