Can I invite you to dinner immediately after the funeral?
People are doomed to misfortune, life and death, and death is something that everyone will eventually face. When you receive the obituaries from your relatives and friends, you must know a lot of details in advance when you go to the funeral to mourn the dead and their families. It is more particular to attend the funeral. First, it expresses respect for the deceased. Second, in folk parlance, avoid touching things with bad luck. So what are the details of attending the funeral? 1. Wear: Don't wear colorful clothes, sportswear or casual clothes when attending the funeral. Both men and women should choose simple dark clothes such as black, gray and blue. Women should avoid heavy makeup and try to wear plain jewelry. 2. Look and behave: When attending the funeral, don't make noise, laugh and play. Whether out of curiosity or other reasons, don't look at the families of the deceased. Don't cry loudly, the funeral should be the last journey to send the dead away calmly and solemnly. 3. White rice: After the relatives of the deceased attend the funeral, they usually arrange white rice to thank the guests. If there are no special circumstances, try to attend. First, funerals are usually held in the early hours of the morning, and they are already hungry after the funeral. Second, eat and drink for nothing, get rid of your bad luck and avoid "nothing for nothing". 4. Funeral car: Generally, the other party will give the car fare to help relatives and friends go to the funeral. The folk saying is "spend money to buy roads." If the other person doesn't understand, you can ask for a cigarette to avoid "working in vain" and get rid of bad luck. Be sure to wash the car when you come back. 5. Cemetery burial: When sending the ashes of the deceased from the funeral home to the cemetery for burial, try not to stand in the shade. Secondly, according to the folk saying, don't let your shadow be mapped on the grave to prevent being buried with the dead and affecting your luck. 6. Come back from the funeral: come back from the funeral, take off your clothes, wash them, take a bath and ward off evil spirits. Funeral is a solemn and serious matter. When attending a funeral, you should remember a lot of things, so as not to ruin the atmosphere of the funeral, disturb the deceased, and affect the mood of the deceased's family and their luck. Every life is great. It is our proper attitude to fear life and respect the dead.