Talk well and don't get angry.
Bao Shu's mother asked: The baby is almost 2 years old, and his personality is impatient. He loses his temper when he feels dissatisfied. How can he not listen until he gets what he wants? What should I do?
Editor-in-Chief Mika: In fact, it is very normal for children to become less docile and grumpy at this stage. This is the first time in a child's life to awaken self-awareness, begin to have self-awareness and begin to express self-emotion. This is the progress of his baby's emotional development, so parents don't have to worry. When children say they are fighting, parents need to reflect on themselves. When they make mistakes, do parents teach their children this way? Many times, children's behavior is a reflection and imitation of parents' behavior. Cold treatment is also not advisable when the child has a bad temper, which will make the child feel lonely and helpless. Parents can pick up the child and gently tell her: "The baby is sad, and the mother knows." When your emotions are accepted, the child will gradually calm down. When the child slowly calms down, parents can start to reason, and the child is more acceptable. In view of the growth characteristics of children at this stage, we specially produced the theme of "I don't lose my temper" for 2~3 years old in Mika's Growing World; There is also the theme of "Speak well and don't get angry" for 3-4 years old. I believe that telling children how to deal with these situations through the life story of the little dinosaur Mika will also play a guiding role for the baby.
I love kindergarten.
The baby is 2 years old and 8 months old, and is going to enter the park in September. How can children adapt better? What preparations should be made?
Editor-in-Chief Mika: If we want to classify the preparation for entering the park, it mainly includes psychological preparation and material preparation. Statistics show that among the babies who have just entered the kindergarten, those who are prepared for entering the kindergarten are obviously more adaptable than those who are not prepared. Of course, parents' preparation is the work for the baby, and more psychological preparation needs the baby to do it himself. For example, if you have established a preliminary understanding of kindergartens and get rid of strangeness, you can take your baby around kindergartens and tell him what kindergartens have. Usually, the baby is interested in kindergarten before going to kindergarten, but after going to kindergarten, it will be more or less uncomfortable. The most prominent thing is separation anxiety. Reducing separation anxiety is something that parents and children should work hard to do. On the one hand, parents should encourage their children to be brave, on the other hand, they should be brave and not be influenced by their baby's anxiety. When it comes to how to prepare the baby psychologically, we have to mention Mika's August issue of Growing World, which is the first issue before the baby enters the park in September. This is a special edition of all-round preparation for entering the park to help the baby enter the park smoothly. Among them, the most distinctive program is Mika's first day in kindergarten, which is divided into three sections, showing the moment of entering kindergarten, kindergarten life, kindergarten activities and so on. The most important thing is that these three paragraphs are all real shots. Yes, Mika really went to kindergarten like a baby! The baby will follow Mika's sight, step by step into the kindergarten, get to know the teachers and children, know those beautiful little tables and chairs, see so many toys, draw pictures, sing songs and listen to stories with the teacher. In addition, we want the baby to know that all children have to go to kindergarten, which is very interesting. We also launched a picture book "Kindergarten Everywhere", which shows through imagination that there are kindergartens in every corner of the earth, and every small animal has to go to kindergarten. We pay attention to the baby's psychological preparation as well as material preparation. We not only give tips on many aspects of material preparation, but also give our baby a useful school supplies-magic painting set, which is a very practical erasable painting tool. With it, the baby's confidence in kindergarten will increase a lot.
I was fine when I was sick.
Every time a child is sick, it is the most worrying thing. Taking medicine is not delicious, let alone an injection, which makes him cry and make trouble. But if you are sick, you have to take medicine! Excuse me, is there any good way for children to take medicine and have injections?
Editor-in-chief Mika replied: Babies usually refuse bitter, astringent and smelly drugs after eating a spoonful. In order to avoid the influence of drug taste, it is best to choose children with good taste, such as syrup, chewable tablets or fruit buccal tablets. In addition, it should be noted that the dosage should not be too large, and no fixed rules should be formed when feeding the medicine, so as to avoid the baby refusing to take it again after discovering it. I remember that Mika 1-2 years old had a theme called "I wish I were sick" in the product in April, and told a short story that Mika was afraid of injections with her mother's encouragement and cooperated with the doctor to take her temperature and take medicine. I believe that after reading it, the baby will take Mika as his little role model and bravely face the injection and medicine.
I don't bother my mother. My baby is 3 years old and 4 months old. Recently, the teacher responded that he was inattentive in class, talkative, naughty and inattentive. It belongs to slow ripening type. I was a little rusty at first, but the process only lasted three or four minutes. After it is done, it is particularly enjoyable. Recently, I have been particularly irritable, irritable and impatient. What should I do?
Editor-in-Chief Mika: Maybe everyone has this experience. As they get older, they will become more and more stable, which means more and more patient. The baby's psychological development will also have such a process. Impatience and impatience stem from ignorance of things, for example, your baby is in a hurry to draw pictures and doesn't understand the process of teachers' preparatory activities in class. This requires us to give guidance and tell the baby what kind of process this should be. In addition, encourage him to learn to wait, wait a little time, learn to understand others, and be a patient baby. Speaking of it, there is a cartoon called "I don't quarrel with my mother" in the June issue of Mika's Growth. This story is about Mika's impatience, and she always looks for her mother. After watching this cartoon, many babies learned patience, understood their mothers and didn't quarrel when their mothers were busy. Cultivating the baby's patience is a long-term process, and it also tests the patience of mom and dad.
I'm not afraid of separation. I am an office worker. My baby 1 6 months old. Every morning when I go out, the children will cry and won't let me go. Now I can only leave home quietly when she sleeps every day. When I come home from work, the children will stick to me and leave in one step. What should I do? Editor-in-Chief Mika: Many working mothers are faced with this situation. When going out in the morning, the baby will cry and don't want his mother to leave. Watching mom come home at night will always stick to mom. When encountering a clingy baby, the most important thing a mother should do is to be honest and not leave secretly, which will make the baby feel insecure and cause more and more serious separation anxiety. Tell the baby that mom is going to work and away for a while. This can't be changed, but mom will come back. And when I come home from work, I will hug the baby for the first time and comfort him, so that he will gradually realize that his mother will definitely come home every day. Of course, the initial stage is not easy. It's normal for babies to cry and not listen to adults. "Mika Growing Up" 1-2 years old August issue "I am not afraid of separation" said so. Mom can watch with the baby, see what Mika does and sing children's songs together. I believe it will help.
I am a polite baby.
My baby seems to be very scared when he meets his neighbors and acquaintances when he goes out, and he doesn't like to say hello no matter how to guide him. The same is true when guests come home. They always hide and don't care about others. How do children greet people and be more outgoing?
Editor-in-chief Mika replied: Children's personality is diverse, influenced by family environment, genetic factors and acquired learning factors. Babies have a lot to say about their families, but they don't like to talk when they have guests or meet strangers. There are many such babies, and it is normal. The baby doesn't talk to the guests. On the one hand, influenced by my own consciousness, I didn't realize whether it was interesting to talk to guests. On the other hand, influenced by the family environment, they lack the opportunity to imitate and don't know how to do it. Even if his parents once told him to "greet people when they meet", he would not remember or learn if there was a lack of imitation opportunities suitable for him, and even he was unwilling to learn because of the influence of rebellious psychology at this stage. Thirdly, the interaction between the guest and the baby will also affect the baby's behavior. Whether the guest shows interest in the child, whether the communication method is in line with the baby's mind, whether he can become a person that the baby likes, and so on. It will affect the interaction between the baby and the guests. We advise mom and dad not to worry about it, and don't think it is impolite for the baby not to talk to the guests, which will make him lose face, let alone force the baby to say hello to the guests. However, we can guide them in an appropriate way. For example, when talking with guests, parents gradually turn their eyes to their babies, so that they can feel that everyone is interested in themselves and gradually engage in dialogue and interaction. In addition, in daily life, parents should do more demonstrations in this respect, or use other methods-for example, Micari's chapter "I am a polite baby" is to teach children how to greet others and learn how to communicate with others. This kind of communication and learning is not achieved overnight, so parents must be patient.
Everyone has dinner together, and recently found that the baby has become "selfish". When I go out to play with children, I always bully my toys and don't play with other children. I always say this is mine and that is mine. I'm really worried! How to let children learn to share?
Editor-in-Chief Mika: At this stage, children's self-awareness is gradually enhanced, and they have a little idea of where things belong. This is not selfishness. Parents should patiently guide their children to learn to share and get a pleasant feeling in sharing; When the baby is willing to share, parents should give encouragement and praise in time; Don't blame the baby when he doesn't want to share. You can guide your baby to think about what will happen if he doesn't share it with him. Help the baby gradually understand and be willing to share. There are many stories about sharing in our Mika Growing World products, such as 1-2-year-old "Let's eat together" and 3-4-year-old "Sharing together is very happy". Might as well take the baby to have a look, it will definitely help you and your baby. Sleeping is really comfortable. Recently, children go to bed after 10 every day, and they always toss and play before going to bed. Very worrying. I don't know what to do to make the child sleep well.
Editor-in-Chief Mika: Before the baby is 2 years old, it is the best time to cultivate good living habits, and the good habits developed during this period will benefit for life. Usually parents will encounter such confusion, such as the baby can't eat well, can't sleep well, don't want to wash their hands, don't like brushing their teeth, and so on. At this time, the baby needs a role model, as the object of her imitation, and will not be rigidly educated, but participate in the baby's life through interesting forms. 1-2-year-old version of Mika grew up with a special content about sleeping-taking a good bath, telling bedtime stories and turning off the lights. It's bedtime. You must concentrate on doing it. Family atmosphere is also very important and needs the cooperation of the whole family. If the baby is still watching TV at home during bedtime, the baby will not sleep well. The story "Sleeping Really Comfortable", 1-2-year-old baby version grew up in Mika's world, which is a short story taking Mika, a little dinosaur, as an example to teach the baby to sleep well. I believe Mika will drive the baby to improve and imitate slowly and gradually develop good living habits.
Concentrate on eating, I won't play.
My baby 1.5 years old. He is very naughty. He runs around while eating. He just wants to eat his favorite toy. He has formed a bad habit since childhood. Now he is used to it. He doesn't eat when someone plays with him. Is there any way to correct it?
Editor-in-Chief Mika: It takes a process to develop eating habits. First of all, you can't let your baby get into the habit of watching cartoons while eating. Turn off the TV when eating and tell the baby to concentrate on eating. In addition, I wonder if the baby usually eats more snacks? Let them give priority to food and get enough nutrition. If the baby prefers to eat snacks, but doesn't like to eat them, snacks will be the main meal, and it will not taste good when eating. You can also use the role of an example: Mika grows up in the world. There is a cartoon called "Concentrate on eating, I don't play" in the children's edition of 2-3 years old. Let the baby see: when it's time to eat, Mika will stutter, make no noise and don't play. After the baby is infected by Mika, he will also try to eat well. Try it if you don't believe me.
Brushing your teeth is really comfortable.
1 year-old, the child has teeth and has chewed two toothbrushes. I guess he made a mistake and talked too much. Now he doesn't like brushing his teeth. I brushed it for him, but he just kept his mouth shut and refused to open it. How sad!
Editor-in-Chief Mika: The baby's habit of brushing teeth is cultivated step by step. Generally speaking, it is more appropriate to start teaching children to brush their teeth when they are over two years old and 20 primary teeth have erupted. First, let him know why he brushes his teeth. For example, he eats a lot of food every day. If he doesn't clean his teeth, food will stay in the middle of his teeth, which will give birth to many bugs, bite his teeth and cause toothache. This is the truth, not a scare. Of course, there are also some skills to make your baby love to brush his teeth. For example, let the baby choose his favorite dental appliance like a toy, and let him brush his teeth as a game; You can also brush with your baby, which will affect your baby. Another way is to tell stories and watch cartoons, so that babies can realize the importance of brushing their teeth and fall in love with it. In the products of Mika Growing World 1-2 years old, there is the content of "It's really comfortable to brush your teeth", which demonstrates the dental care for children who are teething; In the products of 2-3 years old, give all-round guidance to the baby's brushing problems. In the cartoon "I can brush my teeth by myself", Mika knows the importance of brushing my teeth, and has also developed a good habit of brushing my teeth in the morning and evening and gargling after meals. After watching this cartoon, the baby will have a desire to learn when he sees that Mika of the same age has learned to brush her teeth. In this product package, there is a set of toys called "Mika Lifestyle Group", which contains supporting dental appliances and towels, as well as a small bib, which many babies like to use. Under such an all-round influence, the baby will love to brush his teeth.