We have attended many weddings, and there are many ceremonies at the wedding. Some ceremonies are solemn and grand, but some aspects are very vulgar. I feel it is better to just remove these aspects, such as the following ones. A vulgar link.

1. Vulgar marriage troubles.

In many places, there are vulgar weddings. We went to a wedding at that time. There is a local custom that the groom needs to be tied to a tree. The groom will be tied to a tree first with tape or rope. They were tied to a tree, and then everyone tried their best to mess with the groom. Some threw rotten eggs and rotten vegetables on the groom, and some took out small sticks to beat the groom. The scene was very vulgar and unbearable.

In addition to this, there was also the quarrel between the best man and the bridesmaid, treating the bridesmaid as a child, and all kinds of vulgar scenes. We saw a bridesmaid’s boyfriend at that time, and he directly started talking to her. A group of people who came to have a wedding party got into a fight, so these vulgar wedding events were worse than none at all.

2. Vulgar etiquette for getting off the sedan chair, etiquette for getting off the sedan chair, etc.

We went to a friend’s wedding. There is a custom there where a child will sit on the bride’s sedan first, and then wait until he arrives at the bride’s home. , the child needs to come down, but the child needs to be given money or other items so that the child will be willing to come down. Because of this, many children take advantage of this opportunity to ask for a lot of money, or deliberately embarrass the groom. The situation was very unbearable.

3. Making trouble with grandpa and grandma.

As elders, grandpa and grandma want to be funny. In some places, weddings require grandpa and grandma to make trouble. The gentler method is to rub a little black substance on the faces of grandpa and grandma. The more extreme ones are to make fun of the two elderly people directly, such as wrapping them in clothes. The heads of the two old men even knocked them down. The two old people were not in good health and should not have to endure such hardship, so I felt that for grandpa and grandma, it would be enough for the bride and groom to propose a cup of tea.