Life still needs a sense of ceremony, rich or poor, or it will be boring to repeat it every day.
So next, I will give some opinions on how to establish a sense of ritual in life:
1. Establish a theme: Finding some themes is a good way to establish a sense of ceremony. For example, we haven't been with our girlfriends for a long time, so let's get together. When we consciously arrange the party and find a theme for the party, the sense of ceremony is established.
2. Less online communication: I don't know when our communication mode has moved from reality to the network. Husband and wife don't communicate face to face, but they have a good time chatting with others on their mobile phones. Even couples like each other but don't communicate. So I want to enhance the sense of ceremony and have less online communication.
3. Remember every important day: Fill your calendar with the contents of every important day, such as whose birthday or anniversary, etc. And make preparations for the day to improve the sense of ceremony.
4. Cherish feelings: In the final analysis, people who cherish feelings will have a stronger sense of ceremony, because even if they feel that the ceremony is so unnecessary, they will change their behavior and thoughts because of the people they love, so they want to improve their sense of ceremony in life and learn to cherish feelings.
Step 5 prepare gifts
We can prepare a gift for colleagues on every ordinary day, a gift for promotion and salary increase, a small meeting gift for colleagues on the first day of employment, and an unforgettable handwritten letter for friends on the trip.
Gifts for others need not be expensive. People live in this world, and giving gifts to others means that we pay attention to this person and give others a sense of existence. China has a saying: People who can't see their fingers, that's the truth.
6. Keep a diary and make a manual.
Some people have the habit of keeping a diary every day. In fact, this is their daily ritual. The handbook can be said to be an upgraded version of the diary, with some small patterns and richer colors. When a few years have passed, I will look through my previous diaries and see my dark history and happy and unforgettable events, and then I will know where I grew up and gained.
I hope my answer is helpful to you! ?