But it's not so strict now.
If you still miss your mother and want to be filial, don't hang up.
If you think your love for your mother is from the heart, I think it's just a matter of form.
If it were me, I wouldn't hang up. My mother has raised me for decades and paid so much. I can't even pay for these three years? Besides, it's not a lack of arms and legs. I know.
As for the year, it is generally calculated according to the date of death. From June 2008 10 to June 2009 10, it was 1 year. And so on. It's only three years since 1 1 year1month. By 12 Spring Festival, you can hang red. When you are three years old, you will worship your mother again. Work hard and you will finish what you started.