Humble maternal love

When a child is beaten, his mother is a humble image in his heart.

at the age of five, my father couldn't get well and spent all his family savings, but he didn't get well in the end. After his father left, his mother became his only support.

During the day, his mother took him to work in the fields. At night, the humble kang became their mother and son's comfort zone. He likes to lie in his mother's warm arms and listen to her stories that have been repeated many times. He thought that such a happy life would last forever.

But when he was seven years old, his mother sent him to a closed primary school in a township, and then he left in spite of his wailing.

from then on, he can only be taken home by his uncle once every half a month. But every time I go home, I never see my mother again. Whenever he cries and asks my uncle for his mother, he always tells him that your mother has gone to earn money and has no money. How can she support you?

gradually, he stopped crying and making trouble, but he hated his mother from the bottom of his heart.

a year later, my mother finally came back. When his mother squatted in front of him in tears and opened her arms with ecstasy, he stubbornly turned away.

The next day, he was taken on a long-distance bus by his mother and drove into a strange city. It turned out that the 32-year-old illiterate mother learned to have a haircut in the city for half a year, and raised money everywhere to open a barber shop. After a little profit, she took him to her side. Mother said that everything she did was because of him, and the temporary separation was to give him a better living environment and stay together for a long time.

Later, he was sent to a private primary school by his mother. Just as the relationship between him and his mother had just improved, an accidental bump into her completely collapsed her image in his eyes.

After school that day, as soon as he entered the store, he saw his mother standing up from the sofa in a panic. A man was still sitting there, then he glanced at him with a very impatient expression and left angrily. Many times later, he came across different men touching his mother in the shop, but her mother never made any resistance except instinctively dodging and pleasing her embarrassed smile, which seemed so humble and helpless. Every time I saw his eyes burning and his fists clenched, but every time, my mother would signal him to do his homework in the house with a nervous look. He is full of contempt and disgust for his mother's cowardice. I even shouted to my mother several times fiercely: "If you do this again in the future, I will leave home!" My mother's eyes were filled with tears in an instant, and it took her a long time to say, "Son, we have to live!" "

at that time, he didn't understand what the mother's humbleness had to do with them living. Is it necessary to live without dignity? From then on, he began to fear and even hate going home. He made a determined effort in his heart, and must study hard to escape from this home early.

at the age of 18, he was admitted to a university far away from home as he wished, and left without looking back in the lonely and worried eyes of his mother. After graduating from college, he chose a city farther from home to develop, where he married and had children. I only went home to see my mother symbolically several times in a few years. And every time my mother sees him come back, her face smiles like a flower.

A mother who is over 6 years old looks very old, so old that her hair is white. He was very touched when he saw it, but he couldn't make out with his mother. That long-standing identity has pulled him far away from his mother. In fact, since he became a father, his bad feelings towards his mother have been gradually resolved, especially as his son grows up, his attitude towards his mother is gradually changing.

The other day, while he was hesitating whether to take his mother from his hometown, he unexpectedly received a phone call from his cousin, who told him that his mother was terminally ill and was dying, hoping that he could go back and see her for the last time. When he rushed back to his hometown in a hurry, his mother on his deathbed was as thin as a bone, and even the strength to speak was gone. His cousin told him that his mother had been diagnosed with esophageal cancer six months ago, but she wouldn't let anyone tell him. She said she couldn't make trouble for her son.

On his deathbed, his mother gave him a passbook of 6, yuan. She said that this was all her savings, and she knew that he was going to buy a house now, so she refused to go to the hospital for treatment. Later, his mother took his hand and said with all her strength, "son, I know you have been blaming your mother all these years, but do you know?" We have to survive. What does it depend on? Isn't that the store mom opened? If I offend my clients, what can I do to support you? For you, mom can endure anything, but mom has never done anything out of line ... "Say that finish, mother closed her eyes forever.

Only then did he finally realize that his mother's humbleness was only to raise him!

In an instant, he burst into tears and cried, "Mom, I'm sorry ..."

Just remember your kindness

He met her on the Internet.

At that time, she had just finished a relationship and was at the lowest point. On a rainy afternoon, a man named "Hero's True Color" sent a friend application. Originally, she rarely added people, but when she looked at the masculine screen name, she couldn't help but accept it, and they met each other like this. However, to her surprise, it was this gentle touch that pointed out an unforgettable online love.

She seldom chats online, but she has endless words with him. He is not only humorous, witty and wise, but also considerate, and he can always give her the warmth and understanding she needs just right. His care has just become her special dependence. As a result, he naturally became the most beautiful expectation in her network, and even the overbearing inadvertently revealed in his chat was a unique charm in her eyes. I remember one time, while chatting with him, she was chatting with another person online. When he knew, he said angrily, "In the future, you must talk to me alone when I am online, and you can talk to others for a while when I am away, but only for a while!" His bullying actually made her feel happy in an instant, because in her view, such a bullying is clearly a kind of care. Later, they naturally fell in love online.

She is a woman who likes words. Since online dating, she will write some happy mood words in her space, and the first thing he does when he goes online every morning is to go to her space to read the diary. He said that her diary can make him feel the happiness of being loved. If she doesn't update every day, he will ask her why she doesn't write. It is precisely because of his urging that she insists on writing a diary every day.

They are so happily in love online. He will wake her up with QQ every morning: "Lazy girl, it's time to get up. "He will go online at work and tell her," I just want to come up and see you! " He will send her a good night message every night ... Love makes her sunny again, and he also enjoys this feeling very much. He says that she gives him a feeling like first love, but it is better than first love.

However, such happiness only lasted for three months. Later, she found that he went online less and less, and the time was getting shorter and shorter, and sometimes he didn't go online for a few days. His change made her fidgety, and the explanation he gave was that the unit had recently been adjusted and the system was strict, and he was not as free as before, so he seldom surfed the Internet. She really wants to believe every word he says, but she can't control her emotions, can't restrain her grievances, and always finds fault with him. She says that her requirements are not high, just that she hopes to see his head light up every day. Why can't he be satisfied? However, he said that such a request is too high for him now, because he is a man with a career and a circle of friends, and he can't satisfy her. His answer made her feel extremely wronged, and the number of quarrels with him naturally increased.

Finally, one day, he left her a message saying, "I'm tired. "After that, no matter how she apologized and made peace, the avatar over there never lit up again. She panicked and called him, but the mobile phone reminded him that his phone had stopped. Since then, he has completely disappeared from her world. However, I don't know why, since he left, she has never hated him. On the contrary, every time she thinks about the little things that two people love each other, she will have a kind of sweetness to relive happiness. She still insisted on writing a diary every day, but it changed from happy words to sad words. Later, she found that her diary was reprinted by many space friends, and the recognition of netizens made her literary dream in her youth begin to recover. As a result, she began to publish to the website. After being recognized by many stations, she boldly tried to take the paper media. In the end, with her persistence, she turned her articles into type. She didn't expect that his departure shattered her love dream, but turned a corner and made her dream of writing come true.

Now, whenever I think of him again and the online love that once impressed her deeply, her heart is only warm and grateful. She thinks, if it weren't for him, she really doesn't know how to spend that hard gray time. If it weren't for him, she wouldn't have such a warm and happy memory. If it weren't for him, she wouldn't have achieved today's results. In a word, he changed himself and made himself, so whenever she thinks of him, she will have a warm touch in her heart.

Yes, when love is a thing of the past, let's forget all the unhappiness and bitterness and only remember each other's goodness. Then, no matter when it comes, this relationship will bring you a unique warmth and beauty!

Interpretation of love

His marriage with her is the product of the words of a typical parents' matchmaker, which is still very common in rural areas in the 199s.

The married life is dull and happy. He earns money to support his family, and she teaches her husband and children. This kind of marriage is also what she wants. The only fly in the ointment is that he never coaxes her or praises her. At the dinner table, she likes to ask him: Is the food delicious today? Every time he doesn't look up, it's not that this dish tastes less, that is, that dish is not tender enough, as if the food she cooked is hard to his liking. Every time she listens to it, she will be very angry, and she will even say a few words to him in anger. Why can't he understand her heart? She just wants to hear him praise himself, so that all the hard work will turn into a kind of happiness for her, and it is her happiness to satisfy him! However, in more than ten years, he never said that her cooking was delicious, and a "not bad" was the highest praise for her! She doesn't know whether her cooking is really bad or whether his requirements are too high.

what bothers her even more is that he doesn't know anything about romance. Every time I see her friends and husband and wife show their love together, she has an indescribable envy and loss. They never celebrate their wedding anniversary, let alone foreign solar terms such as "Valentine's Day". Sometimes she will deliberately tease him and say, "Hey, honey, it's Valentine's Day, and others are sending flowers to their wives!" " He would pick up the crop inexplicably: "That's all about young people. What does it have to do with us?" A word choked her to silence.

Later, his unit closed down. After he lost his job, he searched for a job all over the world, worked as a salesman, a temporary worker, and even tried to set up a stall to do a small business ... Anyway, he did everything that could make money, but he worked hard every day, and the tickets he got were still difficult to make a living. She is not a vain person, and she doesn't like to compare with others. However, when she can't make ends meet, she will inevitably have some bitterness from time to time. When things go wrong, these bitterness will naturally turn into sharp and mean language, and she will be swept over and hit him regardless. Every time he listened to her taunts, he either smoked sullenly or worked silently, never contradicting her, and his forbearance made her angry.

One day, when he came back from outside, he told her excitedly that he had found a new job and would be able to support his family more than enough in the future. She asked him in surprise what he did, and he said, courier. She is a little puzzled. I don't know what the courier is all about. He explained to her that express delivery is to send express mail to others at home every day. This is a well-paid industry. If you do well, you can earn more than 3, yuan a month, that is, work hard and have no rest days. Looking at him who is nearly 4 years old, she feels a little distressed: "Can you eat it?" "He looks calm and confident:" Why can't he stand it? I have enough strength to support this family! "His words, unexpectedly made her instantly tears wet eyes.

From then on, he got up before dawn every day, rode an electric tricycle to a courier company 2 miles away to distribute goods, and then delivered express mail to people all over the city, and also received emails from customers, so he didn't go home until dark. After a hasty dinner, I have to sit down and sort out the delivery documents for the whole day. I have to scan, take photos and upload them one by one, and I have been busy until late at night. She sees it in her eyes and hurts in her heart, but she can't help him anything. The only thing she can do is to take the initiative to undertake all the housework.

under his hard work, the days are getting better day by day, but he is getting thinner day by day. Looking at his weather-beaten face and his black hands cracked by the wind, she said with distress many times, if not, let's change to a lighter job. It doesn't matter if we have less money, as long as people don't suffer. He smiled very sunny: "I'm not afraid, as long as I can make you feel comfortable, I'm willing to work hard!" " His words actually made her burst into tears, and when she looked at her pear blossom with rain, he suddenly became at a loss. Looking at his silly appearance, she burst into tears in an instant, because she finally understood his love and said, "As long as you live comfortably, I am willing to work hard". Isn't that the best interpretation of his love for her?

So, she understood that there is another kind of love called-I will work hard for you in this life!

When you don't want to love yourself

When she met him, she was already a powerful woman in the shopping mall, but he was just a teenager who just graduated from college. He admired her shrewdness and her simplicity and loveliness. Although there was a 9-year-old age gap between them and she was a single mother, all the obstacles were so insignificant in the face of love, so they resolutely walked into the wedding hall hand in hand in the eyes of everyone.

After marriage, he took care of her in every way, and she felt that she was the happiest woman in the world: her career was booming, her husband was considerate, her daughter was intelligent and lovely, and she was like a darling of fate, envious of everyone around her.

However, in the third year after marriage, an unexpected car accident brought all the happiness around her to an abrupt end. She lay in the hospital bed for a whole year. After she was discharged from the hospital, not only did she lose her career, but her former beauty and health no longer existed. The sequelae made her have to take a lot of medicine every day, which led to her body being seriously deformed. From the former strong woman to the present, her self-confidence plummeted. As a result, she is unhappy all day long, and she is more critical of her husband. She always creates troubles of one kind or another in her family life to vent her emotions.

The husband understands her feelings and cares more about her feelings. He hopes that his love can help her regain her confidence! Therefore, for her unreasonable troubles, he mostly chooses forbearance and tolerance. However, his tolerance did not give her enough sense of security, on the contrary, it would bring her more and more torture. <