Those parents who are still holding dolls that can't walk in their hands say enviously, "Oh, great. When our home is as big as yours, things will be easy. "
In fact, if I look at parents with babies under one year old, it will probably be a pot of cold water. I can only wish you more and more strength on the road of practice.
I personally took care of the baby for ten months since it was born. For me, the biggest pain in my memory is chapped nipples while feeding, and the work of feeding or sucking milk every three hours. To sum up, it is because of fragmented sleep that my blood is weak, and so is my grandmother who helps me with my baby.
Later, most of my work was taken care of by my grandmother. I don't know what her grandmother went through during this period, because I saw a lovely daughter, and I took it for granted that this was a smooth process.
Until.
Until the Spring Festival this year, I made a decision: to take care of the baby full-time for one month. During this period, I took care of myself day and night for two weeks (pipa worked overtime until the baby fell asleep), and finally learned the horror of being two years old completely.
At this time, the child is gradually forming an independent consciousness, and an intuitive performance is: disobedience.
Me: "Baby, can you put on your socks? It's cold on the ground. "
Eva: "How about no socks?" Keep running barefoot.
Finally, I coaxed myself into wearing home shoes with tiger patterns.
Eva: "Mom, wear a bunny (wearing shoes outside)"
"Ok, mom will change it for you."
Just put it on, Eva came running with a household shoe: "Mom, wear a cerebellar tiger."
Me: "Good."
Just about to put it on, Eva: "Uh-huh ~ no shoes, no shoes!" " ""Then wear socks? Eva: "No socks!" " ……
Eva stood on the dining chair while eating.
Me: "Baby, sit down and eat."
Eva: "Don't sit down and eat!" "
Me: "Then let's go for a ride."
Eva: "Don't take the bib!"
I just took two bites and began to pour the soup from this bowl into that bowl, and then naturally spilled it all over the table. I squeezed the food in the bowl crazily and aimlessly, but I enjoyed it. When you are interested, you will silently push the chopsticks, spoons and bowls to the edge of the dining chair countertop, and you will be very happy when you listen to the jingle. Her grandmother and I, the mother, basically do our homework before going to bed every day and decide the menu for lunch and dinner the next day. Not only to ensure a balanced nutrition, but also to ensure that the two meals are completely different. At the same time, because the baby's eating habits are unpredictable, she may not like it this week. Basic meals should have AB set meal, which can be changed at any time.
If she can't go out to play, she wants to leave and never go home (just bring it back at 1 am). Coaxing is ineffective, being tough is even more ineffective, and it will only bring greater confrontation (cry, I will show you).
When you do housework at home, it is the best time for your baby to ask you for a hug. Mom, are you doing housework? That baby will definitely make your work more difficult. Everything about her height has been moved, even in unexpected places.
Every day, rain or shine, I ask you to go out for a walk. Don't listen to the explanation, don't go out.
..... All the above, there are still unlisted matters. If you fully cooperate with her, then I'm sorry, you have to learn to kill all the housework in her limited sleep time, and she will return to the state of just waking up. You have to get up early to prepare side dishes for her all day. If you want to go out, you should prepare lunch, because once you go out, you will get high and refuse to come back at the right time, but when you come back, you will cry (she obviously refused to come back, but she cried like being abused and refused to eat).
Perhaps the most troublesome thing is to teach her how to start social life while playing with children of the same age, but at the same time, I can't wait to take her home to protect her when other children bully her. She should learn not only to be brave, but also to recognize cowardice, to be polite and generous, and to defend her rights. ...
She is gradually building her own small universe, and needs the multi-dimensional energy support of the guardian more than when she was a little older. This is difficult and important. It is as important for her to learn to eat, drink, pull, sleep, speak, climb and walk within one year, or even more difficult.
Our family does not advocate the natural advantages of adults' responsiveness (especially for baby fathers who take care of their babies no more than three times and no more than three hours at a time). It is easy to stand and talk). When I suppress the impulse to yell at her (mainly because I refuse to listen to advice and communicate, just playing hooligans), I can't help but sigh that it is not easy to be a full-time mother without the help of the elderly (although I need it, I can always be young). Speaking of this, I still want to thank Eve's grandmother. Frankly speaking, if someone really yelled at her in the world, I would probably forgive the person who gave her the most. What's more, she can't bear to yell ~