After the incident, the hostess (Xiaoling) was two years older than her boyfriend (Xiao Zhang). They have been dating for several years, and in a flash Xiaoling is 33 years old. Instead, Xiaoling is older than her husband. Xiaoling is in no hurry. She is busy at work, every day, but her family is very anxious. So the two naturally got married.
Xiaoling's husband just started a business and has no money to buy a house. After getting married, they moved into the house that Xiaoling bought before marriage, which was bought with the money that Xiaoling had saved hard before marriage. Xiaoling thought at that time that her husband's parents' family was not very rich, and she worked hard for her husband and sister-in-law to go to school, so she didn't ask for much bride price at that time and asked for more than 30 thousand banquets.
Husband Xiao Zhang is a very filial person and often takes Xiaoling back to her parents' home for dinner. During the dinner, Xiaoling's mother-in-law said half jokingly, "People outside asked if my son was a small boss, and I didn't know what to say."
Now that you say this, everyone knows what it means. After returning home, my husband will discuss with Xiaoling and give her mother-in-law 3000 yuan for living expenses every month. Xiaoling agrees. After all, she should be a filial elder, especially her husband's parents. Besides, their income is not low.
Xiaoling wants to treat her mother-in-law and mother-in-law sincerely. But I didn't expect Xiaoling to be completely disappointed this time. Xiaoling really didn't expect her nephew to say such a thing. My nephew would say such a thing, but it is conceivable that an adult was whispering in his ear and the children heard him.
Xiaoling has done her filial piety. She worked hard to make money to make her family live better and reduce the burden on her family. I didn't expect to get such an evaluation in the end.
What is behind "children's words are unscrupulous"? In fact, there are often big articles behind children's words. Think about it. For a 6-year-old child, if he thinks the food is not delicious, he just says the food is not delicious. How did he know about the short story about his parents? He can also know that his aunt can't be a good wife and will only give money.
This is why some people often say these words in his ear, so the child remembers them. Many times, adults will feel that it doesn't matter to say something short and gossip in front of children, and that children don't understand children.
Although the child doesn't understand, in fact, he knows both good and bad, especially these things, which he remembers and inadvertently says one day.
Children's "childlike innocence" is closely related to parents' usual education and many other things, which is also a manifestation of no tutor. As parents, we should pay more attention to our words and deeds and be good friends with our children.
Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been very complicated. We always hear a saying, sincerely change our hearts. As long as we treat others sincerely, we will be treated sincerely by others. Actually, it's not. Many times when we indulge each other blindly, it will make them think that we are soft persimmons, and persimmons are very soft to pinch. Sincere to sincere, in fact, this sentence is really only suitable for your family.
Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been very complicated and complicated, and it is not so simple to solve it by exchanging sincerity for sincerity. Everyone's living environment, growth experience and thoughts are different, so it is actually very difficult for you to agree with your own views alone.
It is also possible that your sincerity is taken for granted by your mother-in-law, perhaps not only for granted, but also that your mother-in-law may think that you have not done enough.
Xiaoling doesn't have to indulge blindly. In fact, Xiaoling and her husband are very independent, especially Xiaoling basically does not need to rely on her mother-in-law and has never lived with her mother-in-law.
If you don't live with your mother-in-law, there will be fewer problems. Just be yourself and don't care so much about what your mother-in-law says. The most important thing is that your little family life is good.
Conclusion Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also have an intersection because of a man they love. For the mother-in-law, it is actually an elder. Just do what you have to do and give her enough respect.
The concept of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is too different. In fact, it's hard to accept each other and get along with each other. Isn't this a sin for yourself?
Don't even think about exchanging your sincerity for your mother-in-law's acceptance, and leave your sincerity to those who are sincere to you. It is enough for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to respect each other and give each other free space, but they should also keep their own bottom line.