A. "Don't trust the words of the matchmaker, and don't trust the words of an unfamiliar matchmaker"-remember this sentence, the matchmaker can't help exaggerating because of the psychological drive of "matchmaking". So, if the matchmaker says he is a handsome guy, he is also an ordinary person. If he says he is more than 1.75 meters, he is probably 1.75 meters. Especially those matchmakers who take many turns to realize that their words are not credible. As for those who have interests with you, forget it.

Be sure to find out when the matchmaker last saw this person. If it was 10 years ago, then ...10 years would be enough to turn a handsome guy into a fat man, not to mention people have changed.

C. I'd rather introduce my relatives to my friends than my parents. The understanding between generations is too different. Most old people just want to give you stability. As for whether their hobbies are right or not, they are rarely considered.

D. just have a cup of coffee first, and continue to eat if it looks good; Nuo Nuo, it's not him, then get out. It's best to make an appointment on non-weekends. In case the other person doesn't like you, "I have to get up early for work tomorrow." Is a good reason to end it.

E. you'd better not wear high heels. If you meet a miser who refuses to invite you to dinner and only takes you shopping, you will die.

F. the more detailed the situation of that person, the better. If she is a rural cadre and you happen to be engaged in fashion work, or her weight exceeds your psychological bottom line, it is better not to go.

Different coping styles, different coping styles

In the scene, no matter what happens, we should calmly deal with it, be well informed and calmly deal with it.

Scene 1: All the references appear.

Since the revolutionary era, the elders and bosses of revolutionary youth have always been keen to bring young girls and boys together for blind date activities. This fine revolutionary tradition has continued to this day.

If you are lucky enough to have a pair of parents with strange temperament, and their parents happen to have many old friends who are equally classical, it is inevitable to be taken out by aunts to meet revolutionary youth who are also taken out by aunts.

Advantages:

Dress up: Even if you love punk or hip-hop, you should give adults face at this time. Now that you're out, pretend to be a lady. Black nail polish is wiped off, small tattoos are covered, and the explosive head of the little lion is flattened.

Topic: It's never wrong to talk about your childhood. Adults like to talk about childhood as if they were all involved in everything. Another advantage, of course, is that old people always talk about it, which leads to introducers chatting. You can have a good rest and eat more delicious food.

Where to go: Where else to go? Is this a park? Find a place where it won't freeze, of course. Such as a teahouse or a restaurant. But don't go to the cafe, where the atmosphere is elegant. First, the aunt who is not suitable for the crowd speaks loudly. Second, if the aunts are quiet, you will face terrible silence and helplessness.

Scene 2: Friends gathering for blind date

The opportunity to meet men comes from ancient matchmakers and sisters. Married sisters always pull their sisters, but now they are introduced to all kinds of men by their sisters.

The embarrassment of insiders: this is the most annoying. You said you all knew this was a chance for sisters to hook up. Is it not good to be an insider silently? I'm determined to be overly enthusiastic, watching, laughing and winking. How can you be associated with this?

Countermeasures: At this time, mentality is extremely important. First of all, think frankly: this is my blind date. What, you won't let me perform? Secondly, you should pretend not to see, all the secretly sent eyes (from women) are all isolated, just discharge yourself. Thirdly, if you happen to meet a man you don't like, there are at least a bunch of girls and a party as psychological compensation, so everything won't be too bad. Isn't it?

In what position? Well, it all depends on your requirements. If you want a man to see all your faces at once, in front of your sisters, nature is the truest side. Whether to let men know this side so quickly needs to be measured. It is estimated that most men will like to play dice and drink beer with the girl who smokes and drinks freely, but their eyes are still fixed on the young lady who is still low-key, calm and virtuous.

Scene 3: Go to the meeting alone but seek self-protection.

We modern people have never seen anything, even the netizens have seen it, but are we still afraid to meet the blind date? What reference materials do you need, ladies? Forget it. Why don't we have dinner and meet? Let's go by ourselves.

Why are you going? Generally speaking, of course, we should have a meal and a cup of coffee first and briefly introduce the situation of both sides. In order to avoid too long time and no topic, MISS is specially introduced. When you don't want to talk to this person more, but you have to perfunctory him, watching movies is an excellent way to kill time. In the dark cinema, the plot is ups and downs, so you can devote yourself to the theatre without considering how to deal with the men around you. If you have to wander in the street, or stroll home after the play, it is better to discuss the plot of the movie than to get cold all the way.

How to escape? Both men and women will have a simple truth before dating, threatening the introducer: if the other person doesn't look good, I will leave. Now, here are some tips to get you started:

A. Self-mutilation: When eating and drinking coffee, you accidentally spilled a large piece on your clothes, and then declared in a panic that this is your favorite clothes, in order to save it. You must hurry home and change. Sure, please remember to wear cheap clothes. You know some stains won't come off.

B. howard the duck: This method has been useful since ancient times. Tell your sister the place and time of the date in advance. If the blind date is not suitable for you, send a message for help immediately. Fairy elder sister drifted in, crying and arguing with her boyfriend was very sad, so you had to say sorry goodbye to the blind date and be your bosom sister.

C. Don't forget the future trouble: If you are too beautiful and good-looking, even if you use two unique skills, you can't stop the blind date man from loving you, but you don't feel for him and don't want to drag others down, so you have to use invincible tricks and don't forget the future trouble. In fact, there are many ways: for example, in the low-level version, you can find a boy to pretend to be your boyfriend, while in the advanced version, you can find a girl to pretend to be your boyfriend; You can also scare him away by ordering a large table of food at one breath, or completely destroy the image by smoking and drinking and picking your nose ... As long as you are not as good as he thinks, he will naturally run away.

Scene 4: Dinner for 6 people

Losers will never lose the battle. In the end, dinner for six people is just a war between three women. Even if you hook up with the opposite man, it is an extra reward. In order to win, please prepare the following magic weapons.

1. Sense of humor: What attracts men more than a woman with a sense of humor? Vulgar jokes are not good, and you don't need turkey laughter. Please remember to read more books. You can learn sense of humor, but you can't imitate it.

2. Calm down: A calm woman has an atmosphere, so it is better to slow down and calm down. Now the little girl who jumped off the building is not fashionable at any time. In case you drop your chopsticks while eating, be sure to ask the waiter to get you a new pair calmly and quietly, and then continue eating as if nothing had happened.

3. Low-key: Only stars rely on gossip, and women in reality are still low-key and calm, making them approachable and making you have temperament.

4. Rest assured: Of course, if you don't have any hope of participating in this activity, then enjoy the meal with peace of mind. Maybe the red wine is too sour and the curry is too weak, but eating well and making a perfect curtain call is our tolerance.

Scene 5: Three-minute date

The fashionable three-minute date is very similar to the current fast-food love. It's a long time since we met each other, so if you feel right, you should seize it, and if you feel wrong, you should change it quickly.

People who meet mistakes-

1. Put on shoes with shoelaces and clothes with bows in advance, pretend to tie your shoelaces and tidy up the collar of your clothes, and it will be done in one minute.

2. Introduce yourself slowly, interspersed with countless meaningless pronunciations: Oh, er, er, another minute has passed.

After listening to each other's introduction, he immediately brought up a topic that he didn't understand at all, such as cosmetics, to show his great love for clothes and makeup, and made the other person dizzy, and a minute passed.

Meet the man you like-

1. Grasp his mobile phone, MSN, QQ and blog address as soon as possible, so as to study his life track after returning to China and facilitate further communication in the future.

2. Seize every opportunity to express yourself, listen carefully to each other's self-introduction, find someone who has the same preferences as him, and narrow the distance between them.

Don't be too aggressive. Anyway, the contact information can be taken slowly. But the first impression is not so much how bad you are, but how little you are remembered.

Different men have different countermeasures.

What kind of coping strategies are there for girls to take out all kinds of weapons, such as swords, swords, halberds, laughter and tears, when they meet all kinds of magical men?

Meet a nagging man

From how his mother gave birth to him in heavy snow and rain, the kindergarten teacher loved to twist his big fat face bag and say it was a big ass. When the girl he secretly loved in high school went abroad, he was full of longing for that beautiful country ... and so on. A nagging person can give a speech about his and his family's history. So you know everything about him and the family behind him.

Countermeasures: When ordering, order more dishes that need to be kept squatting to cope with chewing slowly, such as crabs or overcooked steaks. You can immerse yourself in the world of fighting food and occasionally look up at simple words such as: really, really? Oh, then ... Wait till you agree with this man. Anyway, he can play alone. At best, you are just a court boy. Don't care too much about your performance. A nagging man can't tell at all. So, order something delicious and enjoy it.

Meet an arrogant person

A successful contract will amuse all the girls and aunts aged 65 to 25 in the company. How does the boss appreciate it? What books does he buy every month to enrich his cultural knowledge? Arrogant men love to show off. What should you do?

Countermeasure: of course, it is to help him, so it is rare to have a meal together, which is always embarrassing for everyone. It is rare to be an audience. I can read Sister Furong's photo diary online, but I can't stand a meal. Always look up adoringly to express your feelings and admiration, and say, Oh, I didn't know it was like this. You are really knowledgeable and know a lot. Absolutely make arrogant men complacent, and you can also spend it safely in such a small universe. After returning to the real world, how to become a topic with your sisters is your own business.

Meet a particularly ugly man

This is the nightmare of all blind date. So what should we do? There should be no other way but to ask for reinforcements. If you want to endure it to the end, the first thing you do when you go home is to give the introducer a good scolding. You know, this mental loss is so great.

Meet a pervert

Don't forget to bring the wolf guard in your bag when you are dating. Who knows when it will be used? Wear sneakers, run fast, high heels, aggressive, if you can catch something, hit it and kill people!

Meet a timid person

Dare not say more, dare not eat indiscriminately, and say wherever you go. At this time, please act like a big sister and enjoy making decisions. I have filled the space myself. If it is too cold, invite a bunch of friends to play with me. You know, this is not only for you, but also for everyone's good.

Blind date always makes people feel helpless. You can't make it interesting, at least not too bad. The Book of Blind Date is only written for girls who may not expect to meet the only thrill on a blind date. If you think blind date can save lives, please don't open it. If you have read it, forget it.