Give specific suggestions! Tell mom directly where it's not delicious, and tell her family that this dish is a little salty today. Put less salt next time and let mom improve it next time! After tasting a chopstick, I said it was terrible, and I didn't say which one really made people angry. ! Just pick the worst shortcoming of 1, and don't come to balabala at once, which makes people so depressed and angry, or praise and compare more (compared with what mom did herself)! Once you make a delicious dish, you will immediately praise it, "Well, this dish is delicious today, much more delicious than the last XXXX". How did you do it this time? "This can not only gently remind the harm caused by a dark dish, but also won't hurt the mother's adult's heart, and it will make her happier because of comparative praise. She will pay attention to progress herself, yes, it really works!