A woman, if her family is well off, still has money at home. Although I am not married, my mother said to give me a house and give me money to marry, but in Shandong, if boys are preferred to girls, women may not have a house! Even for men, the man should write his own name. In this case, if the woman decorates household appliances or something, she can't do it without adding her name. The house where the woman got married also belongs to the woman. As you said, your family has three houses, which are also your own personal property. I also asked my family to give me a house for future protection. Under normal circumstances, powerful families will conduct business transactions like selling their daughters. Normally, that's not the case. If the daughter is getting married, give everything at home. On my side, the better the ration, the more status women have, otherwise they will be looked down upon by men. It depends on the family, of course. If there are many children at home, it is impossible to pay only as much as the other party pays. This is too powerful!