The "seven-year itch" comes from the fact that human cells complete the whole metabolism every seven years on average. In other words, in seven years, you have become another self. But your daily life is still repeating the past and has not changed, so there is a conflict between the two.
Now the pace of life is so fast that it will be boring if you can't wait for seven years, but seven years is the most crucial.
As Teacher Li Xiaolai said, "We believe that seven years is a lifetime, and there can be many times in a lifetime-we can do many things and lead many different lives ..."
Therefore, how to make your little life interesting has become a very important issue. Life should be different, interesting, fresh and progressive.
Then the problem is coming. Who will be responsible for such an important task? My answer is-women.
Women play many roles in family life. For husbands, they are wives, partners and lovers. For children, they are mothers, friends and teachers; For the family, it is the nanny, the backbone and the helmsman.
So, I want to say, girls, how to live your xiaosheng to the extreme is a subject that you will study and study all your life. Whether you are single, in love, married or having children, you must live a wonderful life.
Many small "bad things" in life can be turned into "good things" if viewed from another angle.
What should I do if the sweet potato I forgot to eat in the corner germinates?
-Make a small potted plant.
Does it look like jelly pudding made with a spoon?
Doing so extends its life from another angle.
It will really grow up!
The same is true of Chinese cabbage. I just wanted to see if I could live in the water, but I didn't expect it to bloom. I have never seen it before.
It's a pity to throw away the extra washbasins which occupy space under the bed. Is it tangled? What should we do?
-Picture book.
Inspired by the picture below, I turned out the useless washbasin piled under the bed.
The edge of the washbasin is smooth and has no edges and corners. It's okay for children to fall on it, so don't worry about hitting it. Its circle and the square of the picture book just create a gap for easy viewing; It can also add freshness. My daughter prefers it to the storage basket.
There is always a special feeling when you do something yourself, or use it or look at it.
If a thing can be turned into treasure by simple hands, why not?
Milk box → picture book storage box:
Four boxes are neatly and inappropriately arranged in a row:
Surplus cloth → tissue box:
Coffee box → plastic bag collection box:
Tempered film packaging → manual material storage clip:
Beverage box → stationery storage box
This thing can make my daughter play for half an hour at a time.
Be sure to read more books while you are young.
But it's never too late to start reading.
Reading can't make you rich and beautiful at once, but it can make you confident and energetic.
If the method is right, you can change your life by reading, because the era of knowledge payment has arrived.
Teacher Cheng Jia pointed out how to "jump out of the trap of low-level diligence" in the book "Study hard: A guide to personal knowledge management". It is necessary to connect the knowledge in the book with the existing knowledge, build new and old knowledge into a network, internalize knowledge and form new behaviors.
There are inputs and outputs. Only in this way can you learn the contents of the book, otherwise you will feel that you have forgotten after reading it and read it for nothing.
At least one person in the family must have the habit of reading in order to create a reading environment for children.
We have invited the TV out of the living room and moved to the master bedroom. If you want to poison it, poison her father.
We built the living room into a good study, with picture books as the main part and no TV.
At first, after dinner, my daughter and I were reading in the living room, and her father was watching TV in the room. He ran out to have a look from time to time. When no one pays attention to him, he looks at a loss. Now I sometimes read a book.
After dinner, it's good for a family of three to sit on the floor, read their own books and communicate from time to time.
Even in an ordinary family, there are still many things worth remembering and remembering in life.
Write it down and read it from time to time, and you will feel that life is not wasted.
I started recording when I was pregnant. At that time, I saw a report on the Internet that a prospective father took photos of his wife who was pregnant with twins every day. I thought, wow, I should do the same. Although I can't make one every day, we can record it in a few weeks. Then there is the content of this text: How does a novice mother record her daughter's growth?
After that, he jumped into the pocket: read notes and put the little days in the pocket.
Gradually form your own system.
Those books I have read:
The growth of children:
Been to IKEA:
* * * Spring Festival:
Have a little luck every day. ......
Writing whatever you want will make you feel good.
If you can have your own study, it will be very happy.
If not, a small desk and a small bench will be enough.
This is my little world:
My daughter often comes here to rummage and looks very interested.
Don't worry, your little world is your beautiful picture book now.
I will have my own room in the future.
Mom envies you very much.
In our family, nothing is "delicious" because all three people are foodies.
But some time ago, on weekends, a family of three went to the vegetable market, but they didn't know what to buy. They just fry those vegetables, cucumbers, potatoes and tomatoes over and over again. They have enough food and cooking.
What should I do? Learn to cook new dishes!
Record the ingredients every week, then go to the "kitchen" to check the menu, try something that has never been tried before, stir-fry
First, the dishes are still those dishes. Let's change the way.
Lotus root used to be cold or fried with lotus root slices. Now try glutinous rice lotus root or fried lotus root box.
Chicken wings that used to be braised in brown sauce can now be roasted and eaten.
Sort out the new dishes and add them slowly later.
Second, try something that has never been done before.
There are too many things to do to buy an oven. Cookies, cakes, bread, chicken wings, mutton kebabs, potato chips, French fries, baked sweet potatoes.
Cookies, the simplest, are stirred, shaped and baked.
The cake is to be sent away.
Bread is fermented, just like steamed bread and flour.
Wonton, flower rolls and bean paste buns can all be made by yourself now.
In fact, these things are not so difficult to do, especially the process of doing it is very happy, and let the daughter participate. She likes it very much.
I was a veteran (lazy) before having children. I can't tell things apart when I go out.
Now, I can also take my children by plane for four days and three nights.
Travel can bring happiness to children far beyond our imagination.
Most importantly, traveling can greatly enhance the affection between family members.
After all, for maintaining a family, feelings are the most basic and important.
To make those ordinary little days different is to be responsible for yourself and your family.
I am coffee, and I like reading. I hope today's text is useful to you.