First, pay too much attention to money, love money like life, and have short knowledge.
Relatively speaking, children raised by poor people are frugal and even stingy. When it comes to money, you usually give in to one side. Because I was afraid of being poor when I was a child, or I was taught that I shouldn't buy too expensive things when I was a child, this concept is deeply rooted in children's hearts. Even when I grow up and earn money myself, I dare not buy expensive things, and even enter high-end stores with fear. Only by constantly going out to see the world, children's knowledge will continue to grow, which requires strong economic support. Those children who grow up in poverty are hindered from learning, so it is difficult for them to have far-reaching knowledge.
Second, poor taste, low requirements for themselves.
The so-called taste is actually based on extensive knowledge. Only by seeing the best and experiencing the worst can children's taste gradually improve in this contrast between good and bad. And if children's knowledge can't keep up, it's hard to improve their taste. In this way, children are easily looked down upon by others and feel inferior. After a long time, you may be self-enclosed and unwilling to communicate with others. After losing friends, children living in their own small world will have lower and lower requirements for themselves.
Third, the inner inferiority is sensitive and insecure.
Material shortage caused by poor support will inevitably lead to children's inferiority, and inferiority and sensitivity are usually accompanied by each other. If children's needs are not met for a long time, their inner inferiority and sensitivity will be even stronger. And this inferiority and sensitivity may aggravate their pursuit and yearning for material things, thinking that only adequate material life can bring them a sense of security. At the same time, they grew up in poverty and developed the habit of being timid and afraid to pursue and express what they want. Such a vicious circle will be a lifelong disaster for their children.
Fourth, children like to be greedy and cheap, which makes them look smart.
Some children have shown particularly shrewd computing skills since childhood, such as exchanging their worthless stationery with their classmates for more expensive things, or like to ask others for things, and they will be particularly satisfied after getting them. The cleverness of a child is not a sign of cleverness, but likes to take advantage. I like to take advantage when I am young, and it will probably be more difficult to communicate with people when I grow up. After all, no one wants to be friends with such people.
Children haggle over every penny as long as they spend money.
Children should buy what they like, and generally don't care too much about the price, because many children don't have a strong concept of money. However, some children have been taught by their parents the importance of money since childhood, and they will be very sensitive when it comes to spending money.
Some children know how to choose discounted goods in the mall at a few years old. It seems that they have more brains, but in fact they have been instilled with too many "saving" ideas.
Conclusion: Therefore, I think parents should have a correct understanding of "poor support" and "rich support" before they can talk about their own choices. In fact, the two are not contradictory. If "poor support" has caused children's lifelong inferiority, it can only be said that parents misunderstood "poor support" or that there is something wrong with the education method. In this case, even if they give their children treasure, they will still think that parents need to study hard and educate their children, and don't make decisions based on subjective imagination.