What did you talk about when you first met your girlfriend's parents? Some boys may be nervous when they think about it. They are afraid that there will be a generation gap in chatting and they will be embarrassed. In fact, today's parents are not old-fashioned, so it is better to come and communicate normally. However, here are some chat tips!
How do parents chat when they meet their girlfriends for the first time?
The first time I went to my girlfriend's house to meet her parents, I was really nervous, especially if I didn't know her parents' personality, which would increase my nervousness, for fear that mistakes would affect my normal communication with my girlfriend. In fact, it is good to be nervous, but you should also know that being too nervous will only make your performance worse. Knowing this, we must first control our emotions in a stable state.
If you don't know the character of your girlfriend's parents in advance, you can learn from your girlfriend. Even if you are a person who is particularly confident in your communication, you should know a thing or two in advance. As the saying goes, know yourself and know yourself. Then do some homework according to the personality characteristics, hobbies and occupations of your girlfriend's parents, because these can be topics for your future chat. In fact, it is often enough to prepare these for you to talk with your parents-in-law, but here is another suggestion, which is to talk about your own (eight-character marriage-ideal, work, and some sweet memories with your girlfriend. I think that's what my girlfriend's parents want to know.
When a boy goes to the woman's parents' house for the first time, he doesn't want a tall hat. It will make the chat atmosphere awkward. He is already with his girlfriend. When he meets each other's parents, he should not be a stranger himself. He sincerely regards himself as a member of her family, and they will certainly welcome you.
Generally speaking, when I go to the woman's parents' house for the first time, I suggest that I should talk less and do more, or listen more appropriately and safely. Of course, if some parents don't like to talk more, you can talk more, but you should pay attention to being polite and decent on the basis of talking about the topic, and it would be better if you add some humorous colors that your elders can understand. In addition, in the process of speaking, in order to avoid mistakes, remember to observe the words at any time, adjust your chat direction in time, or reduce the conversation time. For example, help with housework and distract them.