I went to the attic and sat down in an elegantly furnished room. Before and after 8 people, except one or two unfamiliar friends, the rest are friends who often get together. Although they are all in the same city, they are usually busy with their own affairs. There are also many opportunities to meet. Friends get together, especially affectionate. Together, we recalled 10 years ago when a group of students visited Mount Emei, Dujiangyan, Qingcheng Mountain and Susan Temple in Chengdu, Sichuan. Think about the scene where a group of our friends had a good time in Chongqing at night. I can't help feeling endless. I wasted it. Everyone feels happy to get together and miss the past years. Time flies, time is like a dream. More importantly, cherish today and seize the time.
During the dinner, my friends told me about the life of Director Lu of the textile company. Let us feel that life is too short, and it is even more difficult to be kind to our partners and cherish our families. This friend and his wife care about each other, and the wave of market economy is also impacting everyone's life. The couple finally brought up their two beautiful daughters. His wife suffers from all kinds of serious diseases. Lao Lu just gritted his teeth, took his wife everywhere for medical treatment, tried to cure her, and looked forward to going through the rest of his life together. However, his wife is terminally ill. There are not many days left. Old miss looked at her thin wife and was heartbroken. In the next few years, the wife could not go to bed, but lay in a chair. With perseverance and deep affection for his wife, Lao Lu served carefully and poured water into his urine; Because his wife was seriously ill and grumpy, Lao Lu never bothered and always tried to take good care of his conscience. Even after what his wife wants to eat, Lao Lu lists the recipes in advance every day, allowing his wife to pick vegetables at will and then elaborate them. Let the wife get the greatest enjoyment. When my wife is going to have an operation in the hospital. It is meaningless to hear the doctor introduce the operation, and it is impossible to save the wife's life. Old miss gritted her teeth and took her wife home. Take good care of your wife. Let colleagues feel deeply. Later, the unit manager saw that Lao Lu had to go to work, take care of his seriously ill wife and raise two daughters. It's really not easy, so he specially approved Lao Lu to go home to look after her wife at any time when her work is in urgent need of care. As the saying goes, there is no dutiful son before a long bed. However, it is not easy for Lao Lu to take care of his wife for several years! In the last days of his wife's death, Lao Lu touched all his friends and colleagues with a rare care and a golden heart.
The stories of my friends make my mood more and more humid in the quiet rainy night. This reminds me of attending a friend's wife's memorial service not long ago. We talked about the fragility and brevity of life. Some high officials and dignitaries eat, drink, and be merry. The popular concept and pursuit of these people in society is actually "being an official and getting rich and dying his wife", and even the married wife wants to be replaced. Compared with these people. Lao Lu is really a good person in this society! The contrast between this real life is too great!
During the dinner, we also talked about: A friend of mine, a leader of a company, is struggling to save the living space for employees despite the loss of personal career and political destiny when the assets of the company are about to be distributed by superiors and the livelihood of employees is at stake. Two different men, one is a strong man in life and the other is a strong man in leadership, all roads lead to the same goal, which gives us the best interpretation of "what is a good man".
All good things must come to an end. Late at night, we said goodbye. A friend's party made me understand the standard of a good man more deeply and truly. Feel the true feelings of the world. Although I can't reach the realm of Lao Lu. But I was thinking: Did you get more inspiration from good men? I hope all men in the world will not be confused by worldly material desires, but should rely on their own conscience and at least human nature to be a man. Be a good person!