You have three plans.

The first plan: perseverance

Men rarely succeed in chasing girls, especially when there is a big gap between two people in all aspects and men are at a disadvantage. If men want to get the love of girls, they can only use this scheme. Jianghu says: thick-skinned, full; Thin skin, can't eat. If you give up as soon as a girl refuses, there is no chance.

At this time, men will use this plan. They are not afraid of shame, humiliation, fatigue, spending money or wasting time. Men know that men are afraid of pestering women to grind. As long as they persevere and never give up, victory must belong to them. This is also the fundamental reason why the hero has no good wife and Lai Hanzhan is a flower branch.

Plan 2: Play hard to get.

Such people are very cunning. He is obviously drooling over girls, but he always keeps a certain distance from them. Men play hard to get, despise girls strategically and attach importance to girls tactically. He knows this girl, this prey, the tighter she chases, the faster she may run. On the surface, he pretends that he doesn't care about girls, and his attitude is lukewarm, neither salty nor light, just to let girls relax their vigilance against him, so that it is easier to observe girls' weaknesses and not expose their own shortcomings.

He never talks about feelings in front of girls, and always shows that he is excellent at the right opportunity. The purpose of his doing this is to let the girls know that he is not in the same class as those flies. As long as the opportunity is ripe, take care of the girl in one fell swoop.

The third measure: slow stew.

As the ancients said, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient, but your feelings are self-cultivation. Men have a thorough understanding of these two ancient sayings of China. Chasing girls is like cooking. It's definitely not possible to stir-fry with strong fire. You have to stir-fry slowly with slow fire to enjoy cooking.

Their specific approach is to find opportunities to approach girls and put them in their own prepared pots in the name of friends. Seasoning is often inviting girls to dinner, outings, movies, parties, etc. As long as the girl doesn't refuse, she will fry slowly, and one day she will stew the girl's raw beef, which will become his snack.

How to pursue girls

From a girl's point of view, I know more about girls' psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.

When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. And when you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may be regretting, regretting! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

It is often said that a girl's mood is like the weather. It's sunny and cloudy with occasional showers, and her mood ups and downs are really unpredictable. Hey! This sentence really hits the nail on the head If you think about it from another angle, it certainly shows the helplessness of many boys if you don't make any progress. ......