In fact, stingy and frugality are similar in behavior, but in the sense, one is a derogatory term that is spurned and the other is a commendatory term that is tall. Many women tend to confuse these two words. For example, you will be rejected by your stingy husband when you buy anything, but you still praise him for being frugal outside. The family is financially strapped, and the thrifty husband gives you all the meat and vegetables, and you still complain that he is stingy. This misunderstanding exists in many families and is also the root of family conflicts. In order to prevent conflicts, we must understand the difference between meanness and frugality in order to excuse our husbands.
The words "stingy" and "frugal" both mean saving money, but you can understand that one is saving money on the daughter-in-law and the other is saving money on the husband. For example, I also went to the noodle restaurant to eat a bowl of noodles, and the stingy man ordered you a bowl of1Lamian Noodles in 5 yuan, because I had to save some money to buy cigarettes and drink; The thrifty man also ordered a bowl for you1Lamian Noodles in 5 yuan, ready to go home and make a bowl of instant noodles.
Another example is that you want to buy a favorite cosmetic for your birthday. Although a stingy man has money in his hand, he tries all kinds of unreasonable reasons not to buy it for you, so he will be happy if he has money in his hand. A thrifty man reminds you that your skin is sensitive and you are afraid of allergies. He buys you a try-on suit, tries it on first, and then cooks a delicious dinner for your birthday.
Mr. Li also asked his daughter-in-law this question, "am I stingy?" The daughter-in-law said that sometimes she felt stingy. Mr. Li asked, "What was the feeling at that time?" Daughter-in-law said, at that time, I will think that you don't love me and don't want to spend money for me.
Mr. Li also had to "sophistry" for himself. Mr. Li thinks this feeling may be because with the growth of age, men's life pressure is getting bigger and bigger. He spent a lot of money chasing girls when he was young, but as an adult, he wanted to do the biggest thing with the least money. Because men want to save more money for this family to improve the quality of life of their wives and children, they are becoming more and more cautious when spending money.
A stingy man will make many female compatriots dislike him, but before you dislike him, think about whether this man is a miser or a thrifty man. If he is a miser, help him change his shortcomings. If he is a thrifty person, please be kind and tolerant.