He also looked puzzled and said, I don't know. I think it's done well, but she's not satisfied.
Out of the curiosity of the introducer, I went to verify the girl again, and then conveyed the real reason to Xiaolin, so I got the following two different versions.
At first, both of them were quite satisfied. After each date, Kobayashi will send the girl home safely, and even reluctantly chat at the girl's door for a while. Both of them feel very congenial.
Yes, Xiao Lin likes to invite girls to his house to cook and eat. Kobayashi's parents bought him a house long ago, decorated it briefly, and said they would clean it up after he got married. Xiao Lin lives alone at ordinary times.
The girl said, "In love, which girl doesn't want to go out shopping, watch movies and have a meal with her boyfriend?" But he always asks me to go to his house. He cooks. If two people go shopping and cook together, he can be good. When I got to his house after work, I jumped into the living room and worked in the kitchen. "
Xiao Lin can be wronged: "I didn't cook before, but I ate out." I've had enough. Now I finally have someone to eat with me. I went to buy food and made it according to the recipe. She can eat it when she comes back from work. " I don't need her to work, just stay with me. What's wrong with me cooking whatever she wants? "
The girl said, "let me go to his house for dinner at noon that day." On such a hot day, let aunt ride an electric car. He obviously has a car and didn't even say that he came to pick me up. "
Kobayashi said, "She didn't ask me to pick it up either? If she said it, I would definitely pick it up. "
The girl said, "I sent flowers early on Valentine's Day. Not until after work. Don't people all spend Valentine's Day together? "
Kobayashi said, "I never knew there was a Valentine's Day before. This is the first time to buy flowers for girls. I thought flowers would do. I did have something that night. "
The girl said, "A few days ago, he said he wanted me to register something for him with my mobile phone. I wanted to use his ID card, and he quickly said forget it. He can do it by himself when he is free. Are you hiding something from me? Don't even dare to show me your ID card. Whose house is this? I have known him for so long and I don't want to take me to his house. "
Kobayashi shouted grievances: "I couldn't get away at that time, how could I want to hide it from her?" If you want to see your ID card and real estate license, please tell me. I didn't take her home because I was afraid she wouldn't agree. Besides, what I brought home before didn't work. I'll tell my parents when I think about it. "
Xiao Lin added: "Sister, you don't know how much I have paid for her. I went to the market to buy food for the first time, cooked for the first time, and found recipes online for the first time ... I paid so much for her, but she was still not satisfied. "
I told him that this is a communication problem between you. Girls are thoughtful, and some things are hard to avoid thinking too much, and they like romance. You live before people talk about love enough. You are too impatient.
As the saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient. Love is a process that girls want. As for the result, it is a matter of course. This may be a common problem of blind date. Too eager for the result, you ignore the process, and the result is counterproductive.