Everyone’s life is full of sunshine and ups and downs.

The famous female writer Wilcox once said this:

"When life flows as easily and smoothly as a song, it is easy to smile; Only those who can still smile when everything goes wrong will live a valuable life. ”

Happiness is the ultimate goal that everyone pursues in life, but on the road to pursuing happiness, they face various pressures and pressures. Frustration, few people can smile from the bottom of their hearts.

Many people think that I will only be happy when I am happy.

Do you need to be happy first before you smile? Or should you smile first before you can be happy?

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Smile forward, happiness is just around the corner

"Look at the problem from another angle, and life will show another kind of beauty." This is France A word said by the sculpture artist Rodin.

When my cousin was 33 years old, a fortune teller told him that he would not live to be 35. My cousin, who was not well educated, believed it and gave up on life from then on, living in fear of "death" every day.

My cousin resolutely shouldered the burden of the family.

In order to send her son to school, my aunt opened up wasteland and grew vegetables to sell at the market. When she saved a little money, she would buy land that others did not want. At that time, people in the village laughed at her as "stupid."

However, no matter how many difficulties and ridicules she faced, my aunt was always cheerful every day. < /p>

Later, my cousin’s village wanted to engage in tourism because it was surrounded by mountains and rivers with beautiful scenery. The land my aunt bought happened to be in the center of building a five-star hotel, so my aunt instantly became the richest man in the local area.

My cousin is still alive, and I realized that I was deceived.

When the pressure of the family's survival fell on my cousin like a mountain, my cousin did not give up. Instead, she smiled at life and became the driving force for the family to move forward.

French writer Thackeray said, "Life is like a mirror. If you smile at it, it will smile at you. If you cry at it, it will cry at you."

Tears Smiling in the middle is the real life. No matter how many setbacks you encounter in life, you have to believe that there is sunshine behind the dark clouds. Face the mirror and try to give yourself a smile, and your mood will become sunny in an instant.

Smile is like a happy note, which can play the music of life. Please smile as much as you can, raise your head, hold your chest up, and take brisk steps.

Happiness is waiting for you at the corner ahead. Go forward with a smile. If you smile, you will be happy.

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Deliver happiness, and happiness will dance with the sunshine

Some time ago, I saw a super healing public welfare short film.

At the beginning of the short film, there is a smiling girl sitting on the street corner reading a book and an old man cleaning the street.

A man in a hurry with a frown dropped a piece of paper on the ground and left.

The old man was very angry and was about to pick it up. The girl had already picked it up first. She quickly drew a few strokes on the back of the paper and handed it to the old man with a smile.

The old man smiled after opening it. It turned out that the girl had drawn a smiling face on it.

Next, the old man passed the smiling face paper to a man, the man passed it to his wife, the wife passed it to the angry driver, and the driver passed it to his sad son.

Smiling is contagious. Everyone in the video burst into laughter when they saw the smiling face on the piece of paper.

Even those of us who watch the video can’t help but raise the corners of our mouths.

Some netizens left a message saying:

"Sometimes when you encounter a sweet smile or a heart-warming gesture on the road, it is enough to make you happy for the whole day."

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Yes, smile is the messenger of happiness. When you smile from the bottom of your heart to others, maybe the other person has a haze hanging over his heart, and your smile will give him the power to heal.

A parent’s smile will give children a sense of security; a close friend’s smile will encourage each other better than words; a doctor’s smile will give patients the courage to overcome the disease; a teacher’s smile will give Students have unlimited motivation.

I especially agree with what Charles Scoble said: "The real value in this world is a smile that doesn't cost a penny."

A smile is the one that dispels the darkness. Light.

Greet the sun every day with a smile, pass on warmth and enthusiasm to the people around you, and you will sow the seeds of happiness in their hearts.

You will also encounter happiness unexpectedly!

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Cherish the present, happiness is what you have now

The song "You Look So Beautiful When You Smile" has been particularly popular recently.

Everyone can’t help but turn up the corners of their mouths and smile during the melody of the music, as if the whole world is shining brightly.

Many people lament that life is not easy, but when listening to this song, when a smile blooms on their face, almost everyone will say to themselves in their hearts:

"Live." , is the greatest happiness!”

Bi Shumin was once stationed on the Northern Tibetan Plateau at an altitude of 5,000 meters. As a military doctor, faced with the extremely severe cold and hypoxia, and the endless glaciers and snow ridges, he would be at risk at any time. Death encounter.

A young man once asked Bi Shumin: "Have you ever felt tired of life?"

Bi Shumin replied like this:

"As long as you don't plan to end yourself immediately, you have to continue living. The life that is miserable and timid is the life, and the life that is high-spirited, happy and enthusiastic is also the life. I thought about it, weighed the pros and cons, and felt that the latter way of living is more appropriate."

How can life be smooth sailing? When you see someone behind the scenes, they may be experiencing or have already experienced the baptism of wind and rain.

What we lack is not happiness, but a pair of eyes to discover happiness.

Life is a process of constantly moving forward and constantly losing.

Cherish the people who are with you at this moment, and don’t let the future be empty with regrets, because some people will be separated as they walk away. Looking back suddenly, you have missed the happiness of being with him.

In fact, happiness lies in the present moment. Cherish what you have in front of you. A porridge and a meal are also the source of happiness.

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Ending

"Life is not about smiling when you are happy, but you are happy when you smile."

This is what an etiquette expert at the Winter Olympics often says to students.

In life, some people will be obsessed with the pain of the past and ignore the happiness in front of them.

Just as Bi Shumin said in "Reminding Happiness": "When the golden carriage of happiness has passed by for a long time, I picked up the golden mane on the ground and said, I have seen it before." And then live in infinite regret.

Love yourself well and cherish what you have now. When you smile, the sunshine will dance with you.

Let go of your worries and keep a smile on your face. Happiness is like a beautiful girl walking across the corridor and "walking" toward you.

About the author: Mo Chen, a 70-song "young man" who shines brightly when given a little sunshine. For the rest of his life, he aspires to be the best wife, write the most "bad" articles, and leave some mark on his life with words. , if it happens to give you some light, that is the greatest happiness.