I am an introverted person, who has developed the ability of active social interaction that extroverts have, but it is a bit sad to say it.

In fact, this society is not friendly to introverts. Only crying children can have milk to eat, and introverted children who can't cry can only starve.

At the family level, the child who used to eat the most fragrant and favored is always the one who can coquetry, speak well and has a particularly sweet mouth.

The people who are scolded the most are those who don't like to talk and reply. More fierce parents will also curse: "Did I give birth to a mute? I can't fart for long. "

Fortunately, my family is a bowl of water for me and my sister, and I am not wronged.

But at the company level, it is different. Those who are praised, paid attention to and given more resources are extroverts, or salespeople who talk back, or workplace fritters who talk nonsense.

Introverts may get a sentence, well, this employee is honest and practical, but there is nothing more. You are a dispensable existence, and good things will never think of you. Even some bosses can't remember you.

Because of my introversion, I received a lot of uncomfortable treatment in my first job.

For example, a company's large-scale activities, work arrangements, forget me, except me, everyone has a job, only I did not appear on the agenda.

For example, my immediate leader is cynical from time to time, assigning more jobs and giving others the treatment that should belong to me. She thinks I don't like to talk and won't complain.

For example, when I left my job, the big boss said to me, "I really didn't expect you to leave." I always know that you are doing well and being practical, but I seldom think of you. I never even thought that you would leave. " In the future, you can't just bury yourself in the farmland, but also look up at the road. "

In fact, how did the boss know that I didn't look up at the road? It's just that I didn't have a positive communication with him.

In this way, my first job ended sadly, and then I began to change myself. I don't like to actively communicate with others, so I force myself to actively greet others and exchange information.

If you don't like to associate with leaders, you force yourself to associate, take the initiative to pour tea and water for the leaders, look at the boss affectionately during the meeting, and take the initiative to pour wine for the boss when eating.

If you don't like being the center of attention in public, then force yourself to be the center of attention, speak at meetings, preach on PPT, and go out to talk about plans, so that you can get everything.

That's it. After working for six years, I turned an introvert into an extrovert with super powers.

Now such an extrovert pretends to be a little tired, resigns and goes home, ready to do something he can do quietly.

It gives me the feeling that what I do under the pressure of the environment is successful, so that I can transcend the environment and be myself.