The courtship video released by Tsinghua University of Technology caused a heated discussion. Why is it more difficult for highly educated people to find a partner? The higher the education, the harder it is to find a partner. There are many specific internal reasons. There is nothing wrong with attaching importance to education in modern society. At the same time, people enrich their lives while upgrading themselves, and have different views on various societies. The pursuit of life is different from the yearning for understanding nature. When looking for someone, it is easier to communicate with someone who has a common language or ideal. However, different cultural levels will inevitably form mutual exchanges and obstacles. Then people with high academic qualifications will definitely consider each other's academic level when looking for a partner, and can only find the same level or higher. Unless there is a special reason.

But it does not rule out that there are individuals who are lower than themselves. Among them, the proportion of men is greater than that of women. There are even fewer women, for example, the woman is a master student and wants to marry a high school student. I think that if so, my hard-earned education will be in vain. Will waste your life. But in this respect, men seem to have a larger proportion. Therefore, it will cause many phenomena that the higher the educational level, the harder it is to find an object. I once responded to this idiom: neither high nor low. People with high academic qualifications have higher horizons, so they are more demanding and picky about the object, so it is difficult to find an object.

With an average education, I feel that I look down on others psychologically and it is difficult to get along with. You can only find students with the same education or higher education, that is, classmates or seniors. Some of them can be partners, and the rest are what you call leftover men and women. People with high academic qualifications have higher requirements for their other half, especially those with high academic qualifications, whose income and cognition are different from others. They are often self-centered and it is difficult to tolerate others. This is also related to a person's personality. Then many people have limited social circles and are busy, so they ignore the matter of finding an object. Even girls who have a secret crush don't want to spend time in love. Being single for a while is always cool. This should be the loneliness and indifference of highly educated people.