Chen said, for example, on some anniversaries, your lover will think about preparing exquisite gifts for you, and on Mother's Day, you will think about buying things for your mother. This is called a sense of ceremony.
? I simply think that only special festivals will emphasize the sense of ceremony, and it is based on many materials, such as wearing noble dresses, putting on exquisite makeup, carefully lighting a bunch of flowers and eating a romantic candlelight dinner. ...
Recently, I read the uncle's "I like you, like the wind has gone eight thousand miles", and then read Li Siyuan's "Life needs a sense of ceremony", so I have a deeper understanding and understanding of the sense of ceremony. What is a sense of ceremony? The real sense of ceremony is a kind of care for yourself and life, which makes you actively and optimistically look for the warmth and beauty of life in this cool thin world.
Finally, if you are unhappy, you might as well go to the vegetable market. Visiting the vegetable market is a very important sense of ritual in life.
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? On the way to buy food, I often see many couples walking hand in hand, such as Ling, Minister Xia, Wang Jing, Gao, Zhong Ji, Liu Tingming, Zhao Xin and Teacher Chai. The couple walked side by side by the long river, looking at the colorful roadside, discussing the recipes for today or tomorrow, chatting about the little luck in life, enjoying this rare time safely and with a happy face …
? Walking into the vegetable market, the bustling scene can make me feel good at once. My uncle who sells fruit always chooses the freshest fruit for me. If it is not fresh, he will ask me to buy fresh goods again. Villagers who sell pancakes and bean sprouts always give money. If you give him all the money, he will order more. Bought eggs, paid the money and left. I remembered it when I put it away at school at night. When I went the next day, my boss stopped me from a distance: "Hello! Teacher, you didn't take the eggs you bought yesterday, haha ... "; Every time I buy meat, my boss always asks me whether to slice or shred it. Because I told him that the knife at home was too blunt; Every time I buy a roast duck, the boss will say, "A whole one, not spicy, a little pepper and cumin. Is the child eating right? "
? In this fireworks-flavored vegetable market, everyone is trying to manage their own lives. The grocer bargained with the boss to make the food cheaper. That stall is cheaper than you, and the boss gives you several cents. Ok, I'll give you some onions. Some people buy more food, and the boss will give it as a gift. Someone buys food from a dry stall and takes a dried pepper without paying. The noise in the market is full of vitality. As the last one said, the joy of life can give us the desire to live forever.
? I often don't know what to buy, but I often walk around it and then go home with a full load. In the process of choosing dishes, I will see that all the dishes my family likes are on the market. Those fresh ingredients will make you conceive many dishes and plan to eat more fish when your children grow up. Is it steamed, braised or fried with garlic? Lettuce salad, soup or stir-fry Although I am very busy at work, I still insist on cooking three meals carefully. I watched them happily finish my carefully prepared meal and said, "I am?" Full! "Nothing can be happier than this.
? Chen's stupidity at this point is a model. She often designs her meals carefully. At the end of a busy day, she must treat herself to a favorite meal, sometimes a big crab with a glass of red wine, a goblet with exquisite glasses and a very exquisite wine rack on the small dining table. She also practices yoga and reads books every night. She often reminds me: "woman, you should learn to love yourself and never treat yourself badly."
I send a circle of friends, mostly to commemorate a special moment, or to record the mood at a certain moment, or to share the beautiful scenery of the four seasons with friends. Every time I send a picture, I will think of the right words, so although I may accidentally send the same picture as others, it is relatively durable. The same blue sky and white clouds, flowers and trees look particularly interesting because of my "sense of ceremony", which avoids the aesthetic fatigue of my friends.
I like birthdays as much as the author's sister. Although I am in my fourth year, I am not worried that my birthday will make me one year older. On the contrary, I am looking forward to it, because I will receive many friends' blessings, childhood playmates and friends I haven't seen for years. I thought everyone was busy with their own lives, but on that day, they would tell me in this way that they were always there and never far away. There will also be meals carefully prepared by menstruation's parents and a big table, all of which I love to eat. They clearly remember my preferences, and no matter how busy they are, they will be free to accompany me to dinner that day. In other words, what I like is not my birthday, but the feeling of being cared for by my friends and family.
? I like reading books. After reading it, I will have a feeling of reading, extract some sentences that move me more, and even "doodle" my book. Seeing a word or sentence may remind me of some memories or opinions in an instant, so I will write it down casually. This is the most intolerable thing for Comrade Fan Silly. "Big room, how can you graffiti in the book? ! "But I think this is a respect for the books I have read. Of course, the premise is my own book. If I lose my painting in Fan Silly's book, I will be punished by all kinds of torture, haha. ...
Every afternoon, colleagues in the English office will go to exercise together, climb mountains, run and even do aerobics together, in order to relax and keep fit. I think this is actually a sense of ritual.
In our ordinary life, if there is a sense of ceremony in our hearts, it is like meeting an oasis in the desert. Say good morning and good night every day, go to work together, say an encouraging word to yourself, smile at strangers, remind each other to take an umbrella when it rains, pay attention to safety when traveling, take photos and share with him immediately when you see the beautiful scenery, show him funny content, eat delicious food, and think about packing it and taking it home to share with your family. These are all ceremonial feelings in life.
Life is not easy. There are always people in this world who live harder than you, live positively and optimistically, live up to themselves, live up to life and live up to every blooming flower. May you have an extraordinary and wonderful life in this ordinary world!