First, praise your wife often.

The most important thing for a man is to appreciate, be good at discovering the beauty of his wife and know how to praise. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that men are not bad and women do not love them. This kind of bad does not mean cruelty and selfishness, but refers to sweet talk and knowing sweet talk. Many men may find it glib and frivolous to say love words, so they are unwilling to do it. It may be wrong to say this to others, but be glib with your wife. People often say that plain is true, and it is indecent to be married for a long time and still love each other all day. There is nothing wrong with being dull, but this dullness should be dull after passion, then passion, then dullness and waves appear alternately. As long as you really love someone, you will have passion until you die.

Give your wife a hug every day.

Pack your things every morning, and before you go out, remember to turn around and say, good wife, come and hug. When you come home from work at night, if you get home first, you must never let your wife open the door with her own key. No matter what you are doing, as long as you hear the sound of opening the door, you should run to open the door, take what your wife has and give a hug. Before going to bed at night, let her rest in your arms, hug her for a while, and then sleep separately. The hardest thing between husband and wife is communication. Many people may feel the same way, but more people ignore one thing. Communication includes language, and another is body language. Sometimes, a hug is worth a thousand words. Many men's understanding of loneliness is a physiological need. In fact, many times, women usually just need a hug and an arm.

Tell your wife I love you every day.

Before going to bed every night, remember to kiss your wife's forehead, stick it in her ear and gently say: Dear, my husband will always love you. For a woman, if she can't get satisfaction all her life, I'm afraid it's the words I love you. When you are in love, you are familiar with these three words, but after marriage, it is hard to say them anymore. This may be a common fault of men. So many women will complain. How do I know you love me if you don't tell me?

Fourth, accompany your wife to the kitchen.

My wife always says that if you want to tie a man's heart, you must tie his stomach first. For a man, if he wants to tie his wife's heart, he must first learn to accompany her to the kitchen. Every day after work, when my wife is busy in the kitchen, don't sit there watching TV alone, but stay with her in the kitchen. In fact, you don't have to do anything. Even if you peel an onion, pass a garlic, take chopsticks, set a plate, or do nothing, just make a scene there, chat with her and talk about each other's work during the day, and she will be very happy. The happiness in the kitchen is not interesting.

Step 5 comb your wife's hair

There is thrush between husband and wife, and the wife's hair is often a man's favorite, which is one of the reasons why I fell in love with you. Occasionally help my wife comb her hair, draw thrush, or put on some lipstick. At this time, the wife will be as gentle as a lamb. Women care about their looks and men's eyes. Women try their best to dress up, but smile for Bojun .. Women should also learn to dress themselves, don't use simplicity as a shield, and don't use housework as an excuse. A woman who doesn't know fashion is not a complete woman, and no man will like a yellow-faced woman. A man should never let his wife become a yellow-faced woman.

6. Insist on massaging my wife every night.

The health of the wife and children is the greatest happiness of the husband. After getting married, I insisted on massaging my wife for half an hour every night. Rub your feet, beat your legs, and rub your shoulders. Although your technique is not very professional, your wife will be comfortable and enjoy it. Take a bath for your wife before soaking your feet in hot water every night. A man who really appreciates a woman starts with his feet. It is said that men are tired, but in fact, women are not relaxed, that is, they have to work and cope with housework. No one is old or young, so they care about each other.

7. Never spend the night quarreling.

Love is a romantic story, marriage is a symphony of pots and pans, and it is inevitable that the shovel will touch the edge of the pot. At this time, we must grasp a principle that the contradiction between husband and wife is a contradiction among the people, not a struggle between ourselves and the enemy. In fact, in the final analysis, the couple's affairs are nothing more than trivial matters such as the elderly and children. The cold war is definitely not a good choice. The cold war is the most hurtful. Sometimes when people are depressed to a certain extent, they must be released. So the best way is to listen first. That's what people do. No matter how angry you are, as long as you shake off what you want to say, you will be more than half angry, and then you will deal with it calmly. As the saying goes, if the momentum is high, it will decline and the three will be exhausted. Modesty before arrogance is a good idea. If you really can't coax her, you can only use your trump card. When she was about to fall asleep, she took her away unexpectedly and bullied her. After that, the huge contradiction will disappear. In short, we can't let contradictions stay overnight.

Eight, to his wife.

I once read a sentence that has always been cited as a classic. Don't say a word to your wife, don't say anything you shouldn't, don't say it even if you die, don't tell a lie when you should tell the truth, and don't tell the truth when you should tell a lie. Many times, many men will report good news instead of bad news. When they have worries and encounter setbacks at work, they generally don't tell their wives that their motives are good, but they don't want their wives to worry, so they will choose a relatively strange opposite sex to tell them. But, you know, your wife is the one who will live with you wholeheartedly. As the saying goes, only his wife can really help you out. In the eyes of most men, women are always weak and can't stand the wind and rain. In fact, women's endurance and endurance are far behind those of men.

Nine, give your wife enough face outside.

Men are generally male chauvinism, good face. When socializing with relatives and friends outside, they usually act overbearing and always look like the head of the family. As everyone knows, face is given by others and lost by yourself. Women also have vanity, and it is not shameful to bow to their wives. Zhao Benshan once said that only love can make them afraid. You give me a foot, I give you a foot. Make your wife happy, and she won't care if you run amok outside.

Ten, insist on shopping with your wife.

Shopping with his wife may be a kind of torture for most men. I can't bear to do it even once. In the end, you are unhappy, you are tired, and you are not likable. Holding my wife's hand, walking in the streets, looking at a wide range of goods, feeling the fashion trends, clothing styles, popular colors, and even store names, is a very good feeling. Rather than saying that women like shopping, it is a nature for women to keep up with fashion. What does it matter if they go shopping all day? Don't worry about their wives' shopping spree. Women usually go crazy only when they are angry. Just venting loudly. Tired of shopping, it is very comfortable to find a small shop, have a cup of coffee, eat some snacks and enjoy the men and women on the street and the cars coming and going.

Give your wife some space and time.

Every weekend, when there is no arrangement, take the initiative to take the children out to play, play football and fly kites, and give his wife some space and time to enjoy a comfortable and leisurely life. Furthermore, it also enhances the feelings between oneself and children. Children's more contact with their fathers, whether it is personality or IQ, is good for their growth. Women are emotional, easily moved and easily satisfied. A chocolate bar on her birthday, a bunch of roses on Valentine's Day and a blessing on her wedding anniversary will also make her happy for a long time. Therefore, for marriage, a woman is a good woman, and the key lies in how men grasp it. When you are still complaining about marriage, you might as well look back and think about what you have done to your marriage and your wife. Maybe many men disdain to do these so-called little things, but you may not refuse to do it with a woman other than your wife.

What women should do.

"The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you until we are too old to go anywhere, and you still regard me as a treasure in your hand." I can always hear women humming these lyrics from time to time. That's right. What woman doesn't want him to love herself all his life? However, if you want the man you love to spoil you, you must learn the art of love first. ...

Condition 1: Be a wife like a lover.

It is not difficult to be a good wife and lover, but it really takes a little effort to make a wife as good as a lover and make him miss and infatuate.

Condition 2: Always tender as water.

No man can escape from a woman's gentle arms. But don't just be gentle. When he is well, you must tell him what you have recently, or what you need recently, and ask at this moment. In this way, men will never refuse. Tell him you want to eat ice cream ... but you should also remember to go to his study to pour him a cup of hot tea and send him a bowl of noodles and a poached egg when he works overtime. This is more effective than any housework you do.

Condition 3: How many good dishes are there for him to learn?

What I want to talk about here is not ordinary food. You don't have to make tomato and egg soup, but you must make braised pork that your husband likes. You don't need to cook delicacies, but you must cook some home-cooked dishes that your husband likes. In this way, when he goes out, he will say that this is not as good as my wife's, and he will want to come back to you as soon as possible, that is, the way you learn recipes, and he will remember you.

Condition 4: eternal love for beauty.

Ugliness has nothing to do with beauty, but you should accompany him as a beautiful woman. Remember that no matter how old you are, you should dress yourself in front of the mirror, and you should know the rules of dressing and his style of dressing. You should pay more attention to your pajamas and underwear, because the coat is for others, and pajamas and underwear are for your husband!

Condition 5: Be the husband's only personal assistant

You don't have to cover all the clothes at home, no matter how big or small. You can ask the nanny or someone else to wash other clothes, but you must wash your husband's underwear and smelly socks, no matter how dirty or smelly. Make sure he changes his socks clean every day. Don't let him wear them out. Wash every pair of leather shoes. Make sure the underwear he wants to wear smells like your treatment.

Condition six: satisfy his desire to conquer.

There is a lot of learning about two people. It is almost true that men want their wives to be ladies outside and sluts in bed. To understand his nature of pursuing novelty and let him study you all his life, you can always give him the feeling of conquest, so that he will think you are an attractive woman and he is a real man.

Condition 7: Give him a reason to love you.

There is no woman who does not long for a man's love all his life, and there is no woman who does not long for her family to be beautiful and happy forever. But the years will always get old, and there will always be women younger than you, especially your man, who is mature, elegant and gentle. Many women will inevitably pounce like butterflies. Let a man love you all his life, you must always give him a reason to love you, right? Even if you are joking with SMS, you must have temperament if you are not beautiful, talent if you are not, good character if you are not talented, and kindness if you are not good ... In short, you must have a "brand" that will make your husband infatuated with you forever.