Relatives' Day is nothing more than to commemorate the dead relatives. Most rural areas in the south say that there is no memorial day for relatives. Therefore, relatives' anniversaries are not particular, and they generally don't go to the grave. As usual, there is nothing to pay attention to.
But there are customs in some places, and according to the customs of each place, the stress is different. In some places, on the anniversary of relatives, they will go to the grave to commemorate their deceased relatives. Others are on the anniversary of relatives, and banquets, drinking and various entertainment activities are prohibited.
In addition, some are the anniversaries of relatives. They will choose a good day to set up a monument for their deceased relatives, prepare some tributes, offer things they liked before they died, burn incense and toast, invite relatives and friends to participate, set off firecrackers and burn more paper money.
In fact, the anniversary of relatives is just a kind of nostalgia for the deceased relatives. During busy working hours, more and more people have no time to worry about these things, so some customs are gradually disappearing.