At this time, son and daughter should not be separated, okay? It is certainly one thing for children to honor their parents. Both men and women in Tomb-Sweeping Day should pay homage to their parents. Even if you are far away from home, you should pay homage to your parents in your own way, because it is not easy for your parents to raise you. In the past, many people preferred boys to girls and thought that boys could carry on the family line. Therefore, if there is a daughter at home, the daughter will definitely be unhappy, so the water spilled by the married daughter will no longer care about the parents' lives. I don't think so. Even in the patriarchal era, even if parents didn't pay so much attention to you and share more love with you, at least they didn't abandon you. Because of them, you can live well now. Therefore, after the death of parents, both men and women should pay homage to their parents.

In modern society, everyone is equal, and the concept of son preference has basically disappeared. Sometimes even some families prefer to have a daughter. It is said that daughters are parents' intimate little cotton-padded jackets, and many people prefer daughters, so all children in Tomb-Sweeping Day should pay homage to their parents. Not only for their filial piety, but also for children to set an example.

I have heard a saying that you have no right to choose your parents, but you can choose your own life. It is your choice whether to be a filial person or not, but in my opinion, you should do your duty to pay homage to your parents after their death, regardless of whether they are filial or not, and give the deceased the minimum respect. Some families don't have the tradition of Tomb-Sweeping Day, such as ours, so Tomb-Sweeping Day is no different for our family, but it is another matter to burn incense to the deceased elders every Spring Festival.

For parents, there is no difference between a son and a daughter. They are all their own children. There is no reason not to love them, not to mention that some parents have only one child. Since there is no difference between parents, why should there be a difference when it comes to children? So I think children should honor their parents.