1, distracted:
Many blind date people frequently look through their mobile phones in the process of blind date, paying no attention to each other's conversation, and the preface is inconsistent. Especially for girls with delicate minds, such behavior shows that the other party does not respect themselves enough and has little interest. At the blind date table, both parties should concentrate on each other. When the other party speaks, they should focus on each other's faces, showing self-confidence and generosity, which is more helpful to gain the other party's goodwill.
2. Ask personal questions regardless of occasion:
Blind date is the process of establishing contact between two strangers. It is human nature to resist strangers, and both sides will have some self-protection, so we should look for relaxed common topics and avoid asking personal questions abruptly. For example, many bold men will ask about women's previous emotional experiences, even sexual experiences, which will arouse women's disgust and even terminate the dialogue.
3, language exaggeration:
Sincerity is the first place in interpersonal communication. Some people like to exaggerate their skills on the blind date table, such as bragging about their house "200 square meters". The two people on blind date are not working customers, but want to get married. It is important to know each other's real situation correctly. Lies will always be exposed, and sincere blind date can gain trust and goodwill.
4. In a hurry:
Some blind date people have a poor sense of time and come in a hurry. They always look at the time when they sit down, urge the waiter to serve quickly, and remind each other of the time before the end of the other topic. Such blind date is undoubtedly disrespectful to each other. Blind date is a serious matter, even if it is to cope with the elders, it should not be too perfunctory. The most important thing in adult communication is mutual respect. If you come in a hurry and leave in a hurry, you don't have to attend a blind date.
5, stingy:
The concept of money is a very important aspect to judge character. In order to save money, some blind date objects forcibly restrict the range of ordering food. AA system and thrift are virtues, but thrift regardless of occasion and object will give people the impression of being petty, which is not conducive to subsequent exchanges. Adult men and women should establish a good concept of money, and they should not waste money on unnecessary services or save money everywhere. They should think twice about spending a penny. The role of money is to improve the quality of life and never put the cart before the horse.