The long summer vacation has always been an excellent opportunity for children to achieve "overtaking in corners". Many parents will try their best to enroll their children in various extracurricular remedial classes and strive to make a blockbuster in the new semester. For example, like this—

(pictured above) This is only a part of the first ten days. In fact, A4 paper has four pages, basically two or one page. Every plan is accurate to how many minutes it took, and it is well arranged, and it will not fall behind for a day. "In the storm, the schedule is waiting for you", which means shivering after reading it.

The above picture should be a schedule that many normal parents will do under the current education model. Although some may not be so exaggerated, most of them should still be learned. However, some time ago, this mother made a "special" summer vacation plan for her son, which became popular on the Internet. People call it "the clean stream of parents' meeting". The children expressed their envy after reading it, but other parents thought that the baby was going to be "destroyed".

(Pictured above) I looked at it. It's a recipe, which has nothing to do with study, but it's really a summer vacation schedule arranged by my mother for my son. This may confuse many parents, and most of their reasons should be like this:

1, children should still focus on learning. If they don't study hard in the summer vacation, what fancy things will they do? Can they do something after cooking?

2. Boys should learn to cook! This is what girls should do!

Regarding these parents' problems, Ma Bao thinks her timetable is particularly perfect. Before that, her mother also asked her children to make a "daily breakfast plan", hoping to exercise their self-care ability through these. Not only that, but in normal times, she will also let her children learn to wash clothes and paint walls, and help their parents do what they can. Blindly indulging them will only make them "waste their lives". Her son has been a mother since childhood.

Letting children share housework will promote their learning progress.

Many parents think that "letting children do housework will actually affect their studies". In fact, the study found that learning to do housework and share the heavy responsibilities of the family will not only affect their study, but also promote their study.

There is a passage in the story of a teenager: a boy complained that his mother often forced him to do housework, thinking that he was just a child, but he was often asked to do all the housework at home. He is tired after finishing his homework every day, and there are a lot of pots and pans waiting for him.

As a result, the child was speechless by what his mother said next. "Life is also a part of learning, and the ability of housework can exercise your practical ability." "Your other half will be spoiled in the future. Why should she be wronged with you and take on all the housework? Now you will have a sense of responsibility in doing housework. "

In fact, many parents have ignored these words of my mother, especially those with sons. We can learn two things from them: first, the time spent doing housework will not affect learning, but can help children love life and learning; Second, men and women are equal, and there is no gender difference in housework. Both men and women should share it, which is conducive to family harmony.

Is it really ruined if you don't study hard during the summer vacation?

It is the wish of many parents to "hope their children succeed and their daughters succeed", so they tend to keep a close eye on their children's studies. Even on hard-won weekends and winter and summer vacations, children can't rest assured to play, so sometimes pushing too hard will bring side effects.

Last year, there was a hit Korean drama "City in the Sky", in which several families forced their children to keep learning in order to let them enter the top of society and become masters in the future. What is the final result?

What impressed me the most was that Mingzhu, a stay-at-home mother, was bent on getting her son admitted to Seoul Medical University and attached great importance to her study. Her son was extremely distorted under his mother's tyranny. He regarded her as "hell" and resisted with all his heart. As a result, she failed every time. Under the provocation of her tutor, she learned to take revenge and finally drove her to the wall.

During the summer vacation, it is actually the time for children to relax. As parents, there is no need to be too reluctant. Let them study moderately, but at the same time pay attention to rest. The above mother's practice is actually another interesting parenting model. Perhaps under their guidance, these children can adapt to society better and faster in the future. Therefore, there is no need for parents to attack or insist that other people's practices are wrong, and their children will be "destroyed" in the future. (lyj)