This problem is generally based on local customs, but in fact, most parts of our country have this special concern. Generally, the woman will give a red envelope when she goes to the man's house for the first time. If the woman receives a red envelope at the man's house for the first time, it means that the man's parents still like the woman, and agreeing that you two are together represents a kind of attention. If you are satisfied, you may have decided that you are their daughter-in-law from the bottom of your heart. Because giving a red envelope for the first time is generally called giving a gift, which is also human nature. If the woman can go to the man's house, it certainly doesn't just mean that she is still in the stage of falling in love. It is certain that two people have a good relationship. Maybe she will choose to take the girl home to her parents for understanding and formal introduction, so usually the man's parents will give her a red envelope. As for the amount of money in the red envelope, it depends on the actual situation. Of course it's a gift. You'd better accept it. Thank you! As for the latter, it still depends on the actual situation. After all, nothing can be decided by a red envelope. But if the man's parents don't give him a red envelope, you don't have to feel that they don't agree or anything. They should also refer to other aspects, such as hospitality. This is another problem of local conditions and customs, so it depends on the actual situation to solve the field problem!