In A Dream of Red Mansions, the lame Taoist sang in Song of Kindness: "You said your kindness on your birthday, and you died with others." The real relationship between husband and wife is cold: feelings are there, kindness is long, feelings are no longer there, and feelings are ungrateful.

Just like in White Deer Plain, Heiwa's emotional attitude towards Xiaoe.

When she is with little E, Heiwa is affectionate and righteous. She would rather be despised by her people, cut off the relationship between father and son, and care about Xiao E. After Xiao E's death, Heiwa turned and married Gao Yufeng, remembering all kinds of relationships with Xiao E before, which made her feel unbearable. Taking a new daughter-in-law to the ancestral temple to worship the ancestors is even more "glasses" for the people. The six pagodas and black dolls that suppressed Xiao E's ashes didn't even have the kindness to take a look.

Even if it is so thin and cold, the happiest time of Xiaoe's adult life is given by Heiwa, who gave a woman the warmest marriage face.

Heiwa 17 years old. Her father, Lucian, wants him to continue working in the White House, but he plans to go out to do odd jobs or fight adobe to make a living.

Heiwa doesn't want to. First, because of his inferiority complex, he is more afraid of his boss, Bai Jiaxuan. He just wants to escape from the White House. One is that he is filial to his father, and he is reluctant to let his father go out to carry the work, especially the hard work of beating adobe.

He cried and said to his father, "Dad, if you do well there, just do it for another two years." Don't do odd jobs. I will find a full-time job when I go out. " I saved some money to buy some land ... "

Heiwa went out, and in less than a year, she and Xiao E set themselves on fire in full swing. Heiwa was dismissed by her family, and Xiao E was sent back to her family with gongs and drums.

Feelings are mutual affection, and it is difficult to maintain feelings if one party has no intention. Guo Jujia is not only a long-term worker, but Xiao E chooses Heiwa. If Heiwa doesn't like her, the affair won't succeed.

Heiwa's yearning for Xiaoe is undeniably mixed with primitive impulses, but she also has a good emotional yearning for her. The original text reads:

He (Heiwa) feels honored that the little woman (Little E) assigned him to do this job. He wanted to water all the trees and flowers, but there was no water ... He twisted a handful of water in the urn in the kitchen and reluctantly left.

This is entirely the psychological activity of boys and girls when they were young.

After investigating their "scandal" at the place where Heiwa worked, Lu San flew into a rage: "Get rid of this puma quickly! If you can't give up on her, you are not my son, so get out at once! Never come into my door! "

In feudal society, patriarchy is the most important, and any child who knows etiquette should not go against his father's wishes. Lu San thought that Heiwa would choose filial piety and abandon Xiao 'e, but Heiwa felt that "once Xiao 'e was abandoned, she would definitely have no choice". Even if Bai Jiaxuan personally advised him that "marrying Xiao E will bring disaster", even if Bai Jiaxuan promised that "as long as she abandoned her (Xiao E), her wife was scheduled to get married by her uncle." Heiwa just looked at Bai Jiaxuan in surprise, and went to help people play adobe to earn money before dawn the next day.

If Heiwa is only a primitive impulse to Xiaoe, how can Heiwa be firm in the face of her father's persecution and Bai Jiaxuan's bait? Unless, of course, little e is someone he can't bear to leave behind.

To this end, Heiwa bought a cave in the east of the village overnight, moved out of her hometown, and took Xiaoe to live in a broken kiln full of sundries and firewood.

Heiwa made some changes to the cave: she put up a kang, repainted the walls of the cave, installed windows and knocked on the door, bought a chopping board and put an iron pot on it. When the smoke came out of the hole, two people who were coughing because of the smoke cried with joy. They finally have a "home" to live in.

Although there was no wedding ceremony, the young couple started a new life and looked forward to the future.

Heiwa loves her father dearly and won't let him do tiring adobe work, but for their lives, Heiwa makes a living by beating adobe without hesitation.

Heiwa got up early and went out in the dark to look for a job, and later went back to the cave to accompany Xiao E. When the wheat was harvested, Heiwa started a wheat merchant, picked fields with high land prices and gave all the money she earned to Xiao E. After a year, Heiwa not only supported Xiao E, but also made a considerable sum of money.

Heiwa bought land to expand the industry, Xiaoe raised pigs and chickens at home and planted various trees in front of the kiln. Inside and outside the cave, it's like a vibrant weather.

Just as Zhao Peng instigated Heiwa to attend the agricultural lecture hall, Heiwa refused Zhao Peng. He said that although he and Xiao E could not enter the ancestral temple, he wanted to work hard with his head covered for the next few years. In the future, owning a doll is the right thing.

Heiwa seldom goes out to hang out. When she doesn't have a job, she stays at home with Xiao E, watching her make clothes with shoes, or doing some housework that she usually doesn't have time to do.

Heiwa's love and care for Xiaoe. There is a touching adaptation in the TV series: Little E traded one of Heiwa's earrings for a hen. When Little E cooked egg noodles for Heiwa, Heiwa was so excited that she picked up all the eggs for Little E to taste. She took a careful sip, and happiness suddenly overflowed.

You know, in that age when men were superior to women and women were like clothes, it was extremely rare for Heiwa to love and take care of Xiaoe equally.

After seeing Bai Xiaowen's abject poverty, Lu San moved his heart and stabbed Tian Xiaoe with his ancestral spear.

At this time, Heiwa is a gangster on the mountain, accompanied by two black and white peonies.

Like many literary friends, Heiwa feels selfish. For her own enjoyment, instead of taking Xiao E to take care of her, she indulged in Black and White Peony, which led to Xiao E's helplessness in life, committing herself to Lu Zilin, seducing Bai Xiaowen, and finally going beyond redemption.

In fact, Heiwa also has his concerns about not picking up Xiao E.

Black and white peony, one is bought and the other is robbed. Their value is very sad: let mountain thieves enjoy it equally by lottery. As soon as Heiwa went up the mountain, she was done her homework by the bandit's "thumb". "Bandits enjoy this blessing. What are you worried about? "

In the face of bandits who "destroy the three views", how can Heiwa, as the second in command, rest assured to take little E with him? Especially under the ethical concept that chastity is more important than life, Heiwa's practice is to some extent the protection of Xiao E and deep love. Of course, he didn't realize the harshness and ruthlessness of feudal clan law and the terrible human nature. For example, Lu Zilin, a seemingly approachable elder, is full of thieves and prostitutes at heart.

In the famine year, Heiwa once again grabbed food and gave it to Xiaoe. When he saw that the cave was covered with loess, he learned that Xiao E had been killed. When he decided that the "murderer" was Bai Jiaxuan, he took revenge for Xiao E, completely ignoring Bai Jiaxuan's kindness to himself and wishing he could not kill him.

Lu San is a long-term worker with feelings and righteousness. No one knows about his killing of Xiao E. If he doesn't say anything, Bai Jiaxuan's character would rather bear the consequences for others.

When Lu Sanyi said, "Son of a bitch, I killed that puma", Heiwa's expression was painful. He lowered his head, picked up the tattered cloth with spear blades on the ground, stuffed it into his waist and said, "Big! I'll call you one last time. It's over. From today on, I don't know you ... "Say that finish, turn over and get on the horse, go back to the cave, put three shots into the air, and be silent for a moment, sighing in my heart that" I will never enter Bailu Village ". Gunfire and silence are silent guilt and farewell to Xiao E, and that sigh is a decisive step to sever the relationship between father and son.

Later, Heiwa took the right path, married and worshipped the sage Zhu as a teacher. Heiwa, who is "learning to be a good person" more and more, regards Xiaoe as her shame and is the "femme fatale" of her first half of absurdity. But it is undeniable that when Xiao E and Heiwa are together, being loved and respected is the happiest time for her as a woman. Heiwa provoked the burden of life for her, regardless of fame and wealth. For her, for her, she would rather be unfilial and tolerate her "indulgence" in the future.

Heiwa is the man who loves Xiaoe the most.

Little e got the true love of Heiwa.

But women should take a warning.

Whenever feelings are strongly opposed by the elders of both sides, it will definitely affect the perfection of the ending. Love will eventually enter marriage, which involves two families. Relatively speaking, a blessed marriage will have a beginning and an end, and it will be a positive result.