No one knows that as long as Xiaotian is not at home, as long as others are not present, her attitude towards me is completely different. She watches TV, plays cards, goes shopping and ignores me. I have to take care of the children and do housework. Sometimes I can't help calling her for help. She said that you were born in the countryside. Why are you so delicate?
More importantly, she has a particularly "strong" concept of time, and basically sets her working hours at the end of Xiaotian. Xiaotian saw her washing diapers, mopping the floor and cooking as soon as she came in. She was so tired that she was sweating profusely. She thought I was lazy and asked me to help her, but she said rationally, "Watch your TV. I'm alone. Housework can't kill me. " Makes me laugh and cry.
My mother-in-law's behavior not only left a bad impression on my neighbors, but also seriously affected my relationship with Xiaotian.
Once I took a bath for my child, I took off my clothes and found that the water was a little cold. I asked my mother-in-law to help me scoop some hot water. Mother-in-law reluctantly poured some water, poured it into the basin from a height and spilled it all over the floor.
The child was scared to cry. When I was in a hurry, I said to her, "What's the matter with you?" She slammed the door and ran out. After a while, Grandpa Yang, an old teacher who retired at home, rang my doorbell and told me that my mother-in-law was crying badly sitting on the stone bench in the community. Let her say nothing, and she will ask me if I quarreled with me.
I was so angry that I went to her with my child in my arms, and several grandmothers were trying to persuade her. Seeing me coming, an old woman immediately gave me a lesson, saying that young students should be kind to the elderly, so that children can be kind to themselves in the future. I know my mother-in-law deliberately made people angry and turned to leave.
I was putting the child to bed when Xiaotian came in. He pulled me up and asked me, "Where's my mother?" I know the neighbors have described it in detail in front of him. It doesn't make sense for me to repeat it, so I said, "I won't lose it." Many people are protecting it. "Words haven't say that finish, I was a heavy slap in the face.
I thought about divorcing Xiaotian. However, the child is only 7 months old. Can I let her live in a broken family since childhood? Don't! Even if I want a divorce, I can't stand the reputation of a bad wife. I decided to fight back against my mother-in-law.
The opportunity has finally come. In order to finish a project, Xiaotian worked all night for four consecutive days. The boss gave him three days off to have a good rest at home. I didn't mean to tell my mother-in-law I said, "Xiaotian, you didn't tell my mother that you were at home these three days. You can see how wronged I am by observing her every move. "
The next afternoon, Xiaotian was surfing the Internet in the study, and her mother-in-law was sitting in the living room watching TV. I slept in the bedroom with the children for a while. Suddenly, the child pooped, and my clothes and hers were dirty. She will wipe the quilt if she moves a little. I quickly called my mother-in-law "Mom, help me, Yuanyuan took a shit."
She ignored me. I raised my voice and shouted twice, but she still pretended not to hear me. I had to grab a pillow towel, wrap it around the child's ass, and then run to the bathroom. Xiaotian stood at the door of the living room and asked his mother, "Mom, Sang Zi (a pseudonym) called you. Why didn't you say anything? " Her mother-in-law quickly said, "Oh, I'm confused by watching TV. I didn't hear it! By the way, why did Sang Zi call me? "
Xiaotian said angrily, "I heard it all in the study." My mother-in-law quickly laughed at herself: "I am an old man. How can an old man's ears be as good as your young people's? "
On the third morning, my mother-in-law thought that Xiaotian had gone to work, so she began to challenge me the day before: "You want Xiaotian to stand by and take your side and play the devil's advocate with me. Are you ready to deal with me together? I tell you, don't think that Xiaotian's body is full of my blood. He won't regard me as an enemy like you. "
I ignored him. I know that Xiaotian is in the study, and he can clearly hear what his mother is saying.
My mother-in-law went out angrily and didn't come back until evening. Pull a face, carrying a bag of vegetables into the door, see Xiaotian here, immediately smiled. "Why did you come back so early today?" Xiaotian said, "I didn't go to work today, so I rested at home." Mother-in-law's face was embarrassed, so she quickly mopped the floor. Xiaotian said, "The floor has just been dragged." When my mother-in-law entered the kitchen, she turned around and gave me a bad look. "Mom, why did she do this?" In the evening, Xiaotian said with a frown.
That day, when my mother-in-law and I were nursing, I said to my mother-in-law, "Mom, do you know Mr. and Mrs. Xiao Zhao in the yard? I heard that they got divorced. It is the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. "
My mother-in-law looked at me in surprise. "I don't usually listen to what her mother-in-law says about her. It seems that the relationship is quite good. " I said, "You can't look at appearances. Some people don't want to expose their scandals in public. They like to keep everything in their hearts. "
Looking at my mother-in-law's thoughtful look, I jokingly asked, "Mom, doesn't every mother-in-law want a good relationship between her son and daughter-in-law?" Xiao Zhao told me that her mother-in-law was always jealous of her. She thinks that after her son marries a daughter-in-law, there is only a daughter-in-law and there is no mother. So there was trouble everywhere, and the young couple were at odds. Tell me the truth, do you sometimes want me to divorce Xiaotian? "
"What are you talking about? What parents don't want their children to live in harmony? " My mother-in-law almost jumped.
"But I always feel that you want Xiaotian to be rude to me. You were very kind to me when he was here. When he is away, you are against me, which often makes him misunderstand me, and others misunderstand me, which makes it difficult for me to argue. I am not an internal or external person. The relationship between husband and wife is very fragile. Once it is broken, it is difficult to repair. " "I ruined your relationship."
My mother-in-law flushed with anger. "I am a 35-year-old widow. Xiaotian is my hope. For him, I have suffered all the hardships that no one else has ever suffered. After marriage, the first thing he walks in every day is to look for children, and then he asks his wife, where is my mother in her eyes? You don't have to worry about anything when you marry into our family. When you were pregnant, I waited on you everywhere, but did you see mine? "
I said, "Mom, aren't you usually dissatisfied with what I bought for you?" We have to give you money to choose. ""I don't say you won't consider it? I'm just too lazy to spend that time. " My mother-in-law is still angry, but there is less gunpowder in her tone.
I knew that my mother-in-law likes to eat fish best since I was a child, so I bought a cookbook and learned how to fish from her mother-in-law every day. In the process of mutual cooperation, my mother-in-law and I have enhanced our feelings. On my mother-in-law's birthday, I stopped giving her money to buy her own gifts, but took her to the mall to help her choose.
When you bring delicious food back from outside, call your mother-in-law first and try it. Report to your mother-in-law as soon as you hear that there are discounts on clothes and shoes. When you go out, don't forget to say, "Mom, I'm going out for a while and I'll be back soon." Say hello to me as soon as you enter the door: "Mom, I'm back!" " "
This is actually very simple, but the gains are not small. My mother-in-law felt that she was taken seriously and no longer regarded me as an aggressor. Our relationship is getting more and more harmonious.
My mother-in-law seldom goes out to play cards. She often pesters me to do housework and take care of the children, and often tells me the romantic past with my father-in-law when I was a child, which makes me laugh. As soon as Xiaotian entered the door, he either saw us discussing our parenting experience, or made cold dishes, milk tofu and chopped peppers according to the recipe, or studied the purchasing plan with an advertisement stuffed in front of the supermarket.
"The war is finally over, great!" Xiao Tianchang heaved a sigh of relief.