Sometimes you worry about how to defend yourself.
LUN talks to other girls and makes plans with them.
Stay at home (jǐ) and drink at your place (nǐ) and drink (jiàn).
This woman has distant parents and brothers.
Ask my uncles and aunts.
Stay in dry drink, drink in words.
It's a good idea to bring the fat (Xi×) back (huán).
Chuán and zhēn are harmless to health.
I miss the eternal sigh of flying all over.
Thinking about this need, Cao Cao's heart is leisurely.
Write (xiè) on my mind by word travel.
Yi: The appearance of flowing water in spring. Qi: Wei Jing Qi water flows into the Weihe River. Youhuai: Because of nostalgia. Bi: Very nice. Zhu Ji: refers to a woman surnamed Ji who got married together.
Yan, You, Gan and Yan: They are all place names. Good: get married. Load: Send words. Grease: Grease applied to the axle. Metal keys at both ends of the axle.
Return the car: turn the car back to Weiguo. Michael: Travel far away. You are quick. Zhen: Yes. No defects: no. Or this is a word that is not without doubt.
Quanfei, Cao Xu and Cao Cao are all cities that defend the country. Fat spring, that is, the first chapter "Spring". Write: except also. Synonymous with "unloading" sound.
This is a poem about homesickness. A woman who left the motherland to defend her country and married far away, revolves around the motherland all day. It is inconvenient for her to go back to China to visit relatives, so she has butterflies in her stomach and has to "travel by car and write my thoughts" and pour out her feelings with poems.
? This poem consists of four chapters, which runs through the first thought-returning to God-returning to nothing, highlighting the contradiction between thought and reality and expressing the depressed mood. In the first chapter, the first sentence and the second sentence rise, and the endless homesickness is described by the spring running day and night. Three or four outspoken thoughts: Although I am married far away, I miss my motherland all the time. The second and third chapters use fantasy photos to recall the wedding scene and imagine what the old country looks like now. The fourth chapter returns to reality from dreams, which adds endless sadness.
Why can't she go back to her parents' house The women in Ge Tan are still excited to be back with their families. The preface to the poem says, "Spring water", keeping a woman homesick. Marry a vassal, your parents will die, but you can't think of it, pretending to be a poem. "According to the analysis of Shi Mao and Zheng Yi, generally speaking, married women have the right to return to their parents' homes as long as they are diligent in managing their families and respect the female teachers provided by their husband's family. But if it is the wife of a queen or a vassal, she can only go back to her mother's home on the premise that her parents are alive. Once her parents die, even if there are brothers at home, she will never be able to return to her mother's home. She can send her husband's doctor back to her parents' house to greet her brothers. According to the situation of drunk driving when getting married described in the poem, this woman is an Wei Hou woman rather than an ordinary person. At this point, the female parents were absent and could not return to China, hence this poem.
? Presumably, the wives of the queens and vassals in the pre-Qin dynasty were concerned about "parents are here, and life still has a home;" There is bound to be a profound understanding of the sentence "Life is just a trip when parents are gone". Now when I mention going back to my mother's house, I will think of the song "Going Back to My Mother's House", which is a song famous for its singing and dancing: a chicken in the left hand, a duck in the right hand, and a fat doll behind me. This song is full of joy of going home.
Although it has become a simple thing for most people to go back to their parents' home now, it is not easy for another kind of people: the daughter who is married far away. Because of love or work, away from home, for various reasons, I'm not sure I'll go back. I won't suffer for long, and I will regret my parenting because I can't serve my parents. Therefore, people who come over now have the warning that "parents are here, not far from marriage".
? I can't help thinking about my experience with Tina. In 2003, because of her love and my work, we left our hometown in Henan and went to Xinjiang just after graduating from college, and soon became distant married girls. There are only a handful of times to go home in seventeen years. When we met, we sighed more than once: if we can choose again, we will never marry far away. Not because the present life is unhappy and not easy, but because parents and relatives are not around, there will be too many regrets. I often dream of going back to my hometown yard, chatting with my parents, making good food, playing with my childhood friends, meeting with my young sisters to go to the town market, and washing clothes by the river with my aunt ... but now I have blocked contact thousands of miles away, and I can only console my thoughts by phone and video chat when I am homesick.
Read "Spring Water" again, and realize the sadness of far marriage again.