30 years old, still a diaosi. I have no money, no house, no car, no woman, and I don't even have the courage to change myself
The 30-year-old leftover woman is still a small white-collar worker who goes in and out of high-end office buildings and eats roadside shops.
At the age of 30, I have become a parent before I can catch the tail of youth, and I am sad in the world where bottles and diapers are flying all over the sky.
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At the age of 30, we have many disappointments and want to really start to change ourselves. Julie in the movie Julie and Julia is experiencing such a state, but later she became a well-known blogger and best-selling author. How did such a counterattack happen?
For detailed stories, you can go to the movies. There are many warm bridges about love, food and friendship. These can't be said, but today we only talk about writing, which is the most concerned writing problem for friends all over the world.
Julie is the movie version of Peng Xiaoliu, yes, she is the slash youth 10 years ago, and a successful online celebrity. How did she achieve all this through writing? Listen to me slowly:
As a small clerk, Julie's life is extremely difficult. She answered all kinds of difficult phone calls every day and was scolded inexplicably. At the age of 30, I watched my good friends start to flourish one by one, some became famous writers, and some talked about hundreds of millions of projects.
Fortunately, Julie, who is in a desperate situation, still has a heart that loves food. She vented her dissatisfaction with life to the kitchen, and she actually developed a good cooking skill. Writing is Julie's inner desire. She once wrote half a novel and was thrown into the dustbin. But she still dreams of becoming a writer.
It is her love of food and writing that makes Julie find the motivation to change her life.
So think about it, whether writing is your passion or a dream you are willing to pursue all your life.
At that time, it was still the era of blogs, and the platform Julie chose was blogs. The threshold is not high, just register an account and you can write.
There are many platforms for writing now, whether it is the official account of WeChat or a professional writing platform like this, it can be the starting point for writing. Since the bonus period of WeChat official account has passed, if passers-by open a public account, they will often be very lonely and have little reading at first. Therefore, choosing this platform will be more suitable for grassroots, with a group of like-minded friends and a suitable mechanism to ensure that excellent articles are seen by more people. Of course, if you are energetic and have a strong interest in social media, you can also choose the main position, taking into account platforms such as Weibo, WeChat, Zhihu and Douban, just like our founder Xiao Qiushui. This really requires a lot of energy input, and we should manage according to our own time and do what we can.
Julie chose Julia as her benchmark. Who is Julia? A famous American gourmet is the idol of many famous chefs. Julia is several decades older than Julie. After getting married at the age of 40, she came to France with her husband. After trying all kinds of things, she finally turned her love of food and cooking into her lifelong career. She wrote a thick book about the recipes and detailed process of making all kinds of French dinners, which took eight years to be published and became the most popular cooking bestseller.
Julia's story inspires Julie who is struggling in reality. Two people are experiencing the same dilemma in the crisscross of time and space. Julie studies every detail of Julia's life and often imagines herself as an idol, even imitating her wearing a pearl necklace and learning her French pronunciation.
Learning begins with imitation. If you happen to have such idols, such as Sister Qiu Shui, Uncle Ye Qiu and Xiao Liu, you can try to start with what they do every day and arm yourself with their methodology and way of thinking. Of course, if we can communicate directly with this deity, we will make rapid progress. In short, find someone you admire and motivate yourself with ta's experience.
Julie's initial goal is to cook 524 recipes in 365 days, which means that she has to cook more than one dish every day and publish an article every day. The day shift is definitely an ascetic life, and Julie is almost counting day by day. Buy ingredients after work every day, cook delicious food in the middle of the night and write it in my blog.
At first, it was like writing in an empty world. I don't know who will read it and who will pay attention. But after writing, there are more and more fans and more motivation to write. After writing for more than 300 days, the new york Times reporter became interested in Julie, and she finally became popular.
In this process, in addition to Julie's persistence, there is also her concentration. Writing in a certain field every day, just like serializing novels, has become the reading habit of others and accumulated enough popularity. Speaking of this, we have to say that the great gods we admire all have their own emphases, such as Qiu Shui's knowledge management and Ye Qiu's PPT.
Julie meets many difficulties in the process of writing every day. Sometimes she feels depressed and can't do anything well, even a chicken. When cooking fails, she will lie on the floor of the small kitchen and cry. The quarrel with her husband makes her doubt herself more.
Who hasn't collapsed? Then, I dried my tears and went on working.
Chatting with a friend that day, he said, "When you feel unbearable and about to collapse, just bear it again." Is that really the case? It's the right crap again. But when you really know how to persist, your mentality will change, and you won't feel how painful it is to endure.
Well, that's it. Remember to break down and cry, but still insist.
Learn to write from Julie and cook from Julia. This film is worth seeing.