There are indeed many infighting phenomena in the workplace. If you want to learn to be a smart person in the workplace, you must learn what to do and what not to do. Things will not change your career destiny. On the contrary, being too obsessed with details will make you offend many people and reduce the goodwill of colleagues. This article is my specially collected message about workplace personality for your reference.
1. No woman in the world is really stupid unless she is willing to pretend.
2. There are two main types of people who are least confident in the workplace: Mr. Nice guy wronged himself in order to please others; It can't be said that the young lady is walking in gossip and is seriously insecure. Is there such a person around? Or you are one of them.
Kindness is a psychological nutrient, tolerance is a psychological regulator, and optimism is a psychological panacea.
As the saying goes, many people are polite, which is not surprising. This sentence also applies to the workplace. Steady progress in the workplace, workplace etiquette is something everyone in the workplace must learn, including treating people, including their own words and deeds, then you will become a popular object.
People are willing to get along with you for the following reasons: First, you can bring practical value to others. Second, getting along with you can broaden your horizons. Third, you can listen to other people's ideas and express valuable opinions. Fourth, you can fully realize the value of others. You can bring people a happy mood. Don't tell everything you know, don't believe everything you see, and digest what you hear on the spot. Over time, the gas field became its own.
6. When we were students, we would spend 200% of our energy to create what we like, but if we are bored, we are too lazy to pay attention to it, so we'd better find a way to deal with it. At work, 80% of what you do is boring and seemingly mechanical. If you are depressed only for this reason, you will be depressed for a longer time. Knowing that your boss is worried enough about this project, do you still want him to see your face?
7. Choose a few people you think you can rely on to form a good, stable and powerful interpersonal core. The first few people can include your friends, family and people close to your career. Children form your inner circle of influence, because they can give full play to your strengths and want each other to succeed.
8. Yu: when young people first enter the workplace, they all want to get a high salary first and then work hard. They thought, why work hard when the salary is not enough? In fact, those who really win in the workplace in the end are those who work hard and make unremitting efforts regardless of personal gains and losses. Because of the difference in thinking between boss and employee, employee wants to get paid before work. The boss likes people who work hard for free first, and then he will reuse such people.
9. You should adjust your mentality and don't feel that you have nothing to say with your colleagues. In the workplace, if you want to get along well with your colleagues, you must first take the initiative to integrate into everyone's ideas, pay more attention to the concerns of colleagues around you, and lay the foundation for finding topics.
10, whoever can have a bright smile first can show his proud emotional productivity in the crisis. The advantage of doing this is to let the boss know that you are very emotional.
1 1. Although the office is a tiny place, rumors come and go, and the lethality is incredible. How to protect yourself in the office is really the most important thing. Avoid sensitive topics and don't discuss other people's year-end awards and other topics that you don't like to tell others.
12. In the workplace, some people are a little slow and their eyes are not bright. There is a saying in life that you should see with your eyes, which means you should know how to read and read. This ability is mainly enriched through usual accumulation. You can slowly try to observe as many unimportant places as possible, and your insight will certainly improve.
13, self-dazzle psychology, self-expression tendency caused by examiner's superior psychology. The psychology of showing off skills has different manifestations due to the personality differences of examiners. In addition, candidates' self-display is also easy to cause the offensive psychology of phenotypic examiners, thus hitting candidates and then quickly.
14, there is not much relaxation in adult life. Since you open your eyes and enjoy the coolness of the wind, don't complain about the tiny grains of sand in the wind. Ming professional women will know how to accept some good advice, which will make them perform better in the workplace.
15. In the workplace, we will meet all kinds of people, which makes us learn to deal with interpersonal relationships, learn to adjust things between colleagues in the workplace, and learn to cultivate mutual feelings. Only in this way can we succeed in our work and be competent in our work.
16. Many people are full of expectation and passion for their work when they just graduate. However, with the passage of time, the workplace experience is gradually accumulated, the work process and mode are gradually formed, the original freshness of the work is lost, and the passion of the work will gradually degenerate. This state can easily turn into job burnout and no sense of accomplishment.
17, the hardest thing to get along with is not at first, but after getting familiar with it; It's not easy to meet, not at first, but after getting to know each other. In order to get along, we must know how to be tolerant and learn to be tolerant. Everyone has his own personality and temperament. Knowing tolerance can tolerate his character and understand his temperament. No one is perfect. Not appreciation, but tolerance; Intersection is not care, but tolerance. Only through tolerance, communication and understanding can we have real feelings.
18. At work, you should make your boss feel that you are always fully engaged in your work, no matter how much you do or how little you do, or even volunteer to do more, instead of going to and from work every day, as long as you do your job well, which is more conducive to promotion.
19, workplace tips for you. I hope you will always remember: be clear about your goals, keep running forward, be calm in everything, do more and talk less, don't shirk questions, and remember that you are the best. Remember the last few points and wish you immediate success!
20. What induces newcomers in the workplace to suppress their emotions may be just a small thing in the eyes of ordinary people, but it is a hurdle for them. When you encounter these temporarily insurmountable obstacles, you might as well take a vacation for yourself. Find time and take the initiative to rest and relax.
2 1, no matter how wonderful the idea is, it is the same as not thinking about it. No one will pay attention to your brilliant idea unless you show it to others.
22, teamwork is like a person's hand, although the five fingers are big and small, long and short, thick and thin; Although they have their own duties, they work closely together and wave their hands, so they can hold a strong wind; Clench like a fist, which means tiger tiger is angry. On the contrary, if each refers to his own way, and does not understand tacit assistance, his efficiency and power will definitely be greatly reduced or damaged.
23. Your resume may be thrown into the trash when you just turn around, your business card may be used to wrap chewing gum ... Even love letters may be thrown into the wind, read in public, laughed at, ignored, thrown into the trash, and used as origami planes ... Love is one of the most precious things in human life. There are hundreds of millions of kinds of love in this world, but love is beautiful. On our planet, countless people endure the pain of leaving the people they love and getting together with the people they hate. Countless people hate each other because of love, and countless people have experienced lovelorn and divorce ... even the chances of falling in love are not high, let alone promotion and job hunting!
24. Leave necessary information. If the unit can't sign the contract on the spot, it is necessary to continue the interview or assessment, and it is necessary to leave letters of recommendation, resumes and other materials. After leaving a message, don't wait, but take the initiative to contact the unit and take the initiative to attack.
25, people can't spoil themselves too much! Learn to suffer when you should. After suffering, you become a master! Nowadays, many people are always picky about their work, just like eating. A picky eater will never grow up. Only those who can take on more other jobs on the basis of doing their own jobs will grow faster.
26. No matter in life or in the workplace, people must be enterprising, and if they are not satisfied, they will have motivation. However, every time you are eager to try, you might as well calm down and make a risk assessment of another life, and then find the path that suits you best.
27. White-collar workers who have worked hard in the workplace for several years are obviously far away from the classroom and no longer have to worry about exams. However, they often dream of going back to school and sitting in the examination room again. They often answer blank papers in their dreams. This is the most common dream encountered by white-collar dream patients.
28. We should also have such bold and innovative thinking in our work. 2 1 century What is the most expensive? Creativity! Even if it is a moment at work, we must seize it. Who knows if your whimsy will become a way for the company to get out of trouble or further develop its creativity! Dare to challenge our own thinking limitations. Once we find the right direction, a steady stream of wisdom will push us to success.
29. Just as no one is perfect, no enterprise is perfect. Every enterprise has its own advantages and disadvantages, and every colleague has unique advantages and disadvantages. For college students who are new to the workplace, it is necessary to look at what the enterprise can give you and what the enterprise and colleagues around you can learn, so that they will be full of enthusiasm. Learn to do as the Romans do and adapt to the new environment.
30. People in the workplace are more or less in a sub-health state. When I am busy at work, I can't take care of drinking a glass of water all day, which leads to symptoms such as dry mouth and excessive internal heat. A cup of tea in spring.
3 1, people in the workplace will inevitably participate in social interaction, and the scope of social interaction has a great relationship with everyone's occupation, hobbies, lifestyle and geographical location. In real life, some people can't make friends in social life, or all their friends who have made friends for a long time have left him, and they usually have a bad relationship with their colleagues. The reason is that the bad psychological state in social communication hinders the normal development of interpersonal relationship.
32. In the workplace, we should do things with goals every day and have a place to learn, so that we can make progress, because besides making money, the workplace is also a place for us to improve ourselves, enrich ourselves and give play to our self-worth. If you have a smart boss, it is also an intangible asset in the workplace, because you can learn a lot of valuable advantages and experiences from him. You should approach and learn as much as possible.
33. Many people in the workplace have had this mentality. No matter how hard I try, I can't get a good development in this unit. Psychologically, this is called learned helplessness, which means that you feel powerless to change your situation from your own experience. Some people will blame the outside world for their inability to change their situation, instead of looking for reasons from themselves, thus falling into a vicious circle.
About half of start-ups will close down within five years, so you must face the financial risks brought by starting a business realistically-and realize that you are likely to lose a considerable part of the net asset value.
35. In the workplace, don't be smarter than others and don't be more high-profile. The winner is nothing but a quick death.
36. Always say good things, but be sure to be competent for the job.
37. A whale died on the grassland in East Yorkshire, 800 meters from the nearest coastline! Presumably, it hoped to run aground and roll back to the sea, but unfortunately it rolled in the wrong direction. Please be kind to every road idiot around you.
38. I don't know.
39. Do you envy those peers who have a good family, study well and everything seems to be going well?
40, the world is a job, no matter where you are, don't feel inferior, don't be arrogant, no matter how others treat you, don't look down on others. Everyone has his own way of life. An ordinary productive woman, with an income of several hundred yuan each, may not bring less wealth to her family in rural areas than those with a monthly salary of several thousand or tens of thousands.