I have a very realistic example around me. I found a divorced woman. We have been aware of this for more than five years. A few years ago, we didn't know the relationship between love. At that time, she was very strong and wanted to buy her own house. He has a daughter who was married to her ex-husband. Usually, my daughter seldom has time to come over. After he and I were together, the house has been empty, and she will go back every ten days and a half, saying that she wants to tidy up, and so on. Personally, since we are together, we can rent the house to others and earn some rent. She didn't take my advice and suggestions. At this point, some unnecessary things happen to us. We quarreled, you followed me, I have a family. Why should we still focus on your home over there? So, I also have a headache.
I also have my own house. My father died early, and now it's just my mother and son. I think my home is very simple. My mother is a little over 60 and has a pension of 1000 this month. My son 16 years old. Vocational school.
Study and you can go to work after next year. I have my own things to do, so I feel very comfortable. Girlfriend thinks too much I pay her 1000 social security every month, and occasionally give her some pocket money. All the expenses at home are borne by me alone. For the sake of her health, I insisted that she should not go to work. But? Really can't be together, can only say goodbye.
It is normal for divorced women to have no house. If you can go back to your mother's house during the Chinese New Year, you will find someone who has a family, a stable income, is kind to you, likes you and loves you. There is no need to consider your own housing problem, but others are good to you, I hope you cherish it more. It is not easy to find a good one now, nor is it easy. Once you meet it, cherish it!
I was abandoned by a man at the age of 32, single dog. I have no job, no job and no place to go! Very sad! Finally, I went to Changzhou to work and started working, eating 80 1 month. There is no tomorrow today! Because I am the mother of four children. Worry about eating all day! I was working the night shift that day! I went out a long way and saw some aunts picking up garbage. I think I'll try, but I don't know what to sell. Learn slowly! Call in sick! Learn to pick up garbage slowly. When not on duty, I answer it all the time. When I am tired, I will have a rest. I will pick up the car after Lacedo has dinner with the children! It looks very happy. After more than 20 years, there is nothing to be miserable about. As long as I am strong and can't get through, I still have no home! Last year, I went back to my hometown to plant strawberries and spend the New Year in a greenhouse. This year, it is still the same.
Divorced women are most afraid of Chinese New Year, especially those who have no house. Others are happy in the New Year, but they may not be happy.
In our hometown in Hubei, a married woman can't stay at her parents' home for 30 nights. This custom has been going on and no one dares to break it. Her brother and sister-in-law are particularly taboo at home.
My cousin has been living at home since her divorce the year before last. Her family has a house in the county, and she works in the county, so she lives and eats with her parents. At that time, her brother and sister-in-law worked in Shenzhen, and her sister-in-law went home during the Spring Festival holiday that year. She told my aunt that a married woman can't spend the New Year at her parents' house, which is not good for her brother and sister-in-law. My aunt was very unhappy. The whole family is talking and laughing at home during the Spring Festival. I really don't want to see a girl as a parent outside for the Spring Festival. Maybe my aunt told her cousin about it. On the 27th of the twelfth lunar month, she invited several students to Xiamen to play. I believe she was unhappy when she came back on the fifth day of the Lunar New Year. Only she can understand her inner pain.
Divorced without a house, you can spend the New Year in the rented house or go out to play, at least without looking at other people's faces, especially the closest relatives.
I once read a short article about a quarrel between my daughter and her father, and the relationship was not good. My daughter's economic conditions are not good after marriage, so she occasionally goes back to her parents' house to take her children to eat a good meal! Every time dad goes out, mom calls home for dinner! Later, I met my dad in my community! But when it rained, I met it when I was hiding from the rain! Father said, go home for dinner in the future, and come if you want! You see, every time I try to avoid you, I don't know where to go!
Go home! Have a good year with your parents!
Parents are there, and life is still there;
When parents are gone, there is only one way home in life!
I was depressed when I first got divorced. I live in my mother's house. My mother cooks every day for fear that I will be hungry. Give me a full bowl, I can't eat a few mouthfuls at a time! One day at dinner, my father suddenly said, Aunt Xi, if you don't find someone to marry, I won't have enough to eat when I see you! At that time, when I was young and not sensible, I refuted my father and said,' I don't want to find it. You see I don't have enough food, so I won't come back. My father didn't talk or eat again, and went back to my room. My father never mentioned it again. But my mother left soon, and even my father left. I became a homeless orphan! Without my parents, I have no home anymore. My parents are here, my home is here, my parents are gone, my home is gone, and I really understand that sentence, my parents are here, my life still has a source, but my parents are gone, and only my way home is left in my life.
Speaking of this topic, I really hurt. 20 14 divorced. At the beginning of the divorce, I thought it was also a relief. Unexpectedly, where to spend the New Year after divorce will make me so embarrassed and painful. My parents are divorced, too. They remarried and both had their own homes. Especially the stepmother, she made it clear that she didn't want me to go back for the New Year. So on New Year's Eve, four years after my divorce, I will kill a chicken, cook a table and eat it myself. Because my son also goes to his grandparents' home for dinner, I don't want my son to enjoy the lively atmosphere of the extended family because of his divorce. Eating and eating, I shed tears. I am determined to remarry when I meet the right man, and I also want to have a home of my own. Fortunately, I have met my husband now, and I am much busier and harder in the New Year, because as the eldest daughter-in-law of my husband's family, I have to shoulder many responsibilities. But I also feel happy, because my heart is full and I am no longer lonely. Life is like this. I have had it before, and I no longer envy the so-called "single and chic life". It's all empty. When you are old, your parents are old, and your brothers and sisters have their own families. You are a guest of your brothers and sisters. We women should also have our own families, which is our real destination.
In other words, I have nowhere to go during the Spring Festival.
When marriage is just to tear up the certificate, when one spends all one's time in that unrequited place, when one turns around and finds that one has nothing to take care of a toddler, when the China New Year comes. ...
Without a girlfriend, old friends have been worn away by this marriage. They even just stayed at their sister's house and didn't even have a place to rent. But the year is coming quietly, and where to go has become an increasingly difficult topic.
No money, no house, no children at home. You will be laughed at when you go back to your mother's house, and you have to spend the night at another house, otherwise it will be unlucky. I can only hope that the Chinese New Year will not be a holiday, but I can also see that the Chinese New Year will be in three or five days, and I don't want to have children, let alone think about it.
Well, if only someone could take me in next year, but this is just daydreaming.
Someone must be confused, don't want to vomit, don't want to be a dissatisfied housewife. It's just that I can't stand domestic violence. I'm scarred, and my children are even more scared. But another old man still said, if you can't die, you can't commit suicide. He also beat his wife and prevaricated. Good memories, tears, that's all.
Otherwise, during the Chinese New Year, go to the streets to find a small hotel, pack it for two days, sleep until you wake up naturally, and eat at will to avoid the embarrassment of many people. It's not bad to be wronged by yourself and get everyone's peace.
I just hope that next year will be less lonely, that the children will be stronger and braver, that the subject will be happy and healthy, that love will always come, and that hope will not be shattered.
It's too hard to be a woman. My divorced family is not your family, and neither is my husband's family. I have a relative who is divorced and can only go to the hotel every year. It's pathetic to close the door everywhere and have no place to eat during the Chinese New Year. Later, I had to be strong and work hard to build a home. Fortunately, after years of hard work, I finally have a small nest. I spent at least ten years in Guangzhou for the New Year, and went out to soak in hot springs with my father for a few days. A year has passed, and neither my sister's family nor my brother's family wants to go. Seriously, sometimes I really want to go back and spend more time with my father, but my daughter can't go on her first day in the countryside.
Divorced for quite a year, my husband gambled, sold a house and a car, and didn't have a penny of property. Many years of youth were wasted. Without a place to live, I went back to my mother's house and my brother got married. At that time, I bought a house and had no money at home. I was not married at that time, and I also paid a third of the money. My sister-in-law is a foreigner. I lived in my parents' house for a year and for a while, and paid 1000 yuan, giving them 300 yuan for living expenses every month. My mother's emotional intelligence is too low, so I can't get clear information with my sister-in-law. The result was very unpleasant. Mainly my mother. She may not want me to live here forever. So divorced, no room or rent, especially those with younger brothers and sisters. Sooner or later it will be unpleasant.
In my hometown, it is very particular for women to go home for the New Year after marriage. They want to go back and don't want to go back. Even divorced women can usually live in their parents' homes, but they still have to hide on the 30th.
Especially families with sons, whether newly married or married, are not allowed to live together, which will bring bad luck to their sons. Many parents don't want to be with their married daughters, but put their sons in a higher position. Therefore, many daughters-in-law feel that their status in the husband's family is higher than that of their sister-in-law.
The woman divorced. I don't have a house and live in my mother's house all the year round, but on the first day of the New Year's Day, I have to find a way to plan where I will spend my thirties. If I have a sister and a son, I can go to my sister's house for the New Year. If this method doesn't work, I can only ask my single friends to spend the New Year together. If I have a job, I can switch classes with my colleague, and that colleague will definitely appreciate it.
Divorced women are really hard! On New Year's Eve, I didn't have my own home, and I couldn't go back to my mother's house. Who has ever experienced the sadness of seeing others happy?