1, keep the appointment on time, and call when you are near the other party's home to prevent rudeness.
2. Communicate with each other's father and help each other's mother.
3, door etiquette: make an appointment in advance, don't rush to the door.
After the appointed time, it is best not to arrive early or be late.
If you don't come to your home at the appointed time, you will come to someone else's home early, giving the interviewer a surprise, and both sides will be embarrassed.
6, late, or due to special circumstances can't arrive on time, be sure to call each other, explain the reason for being late.
7. When you visit, you can bring some small gifts to your door.
8. If this is your first visit, you can bring some small gifts to your host.
9. In China, most people are used to bringing fruit to the interviewees.
10, in addition, you can send flowers, a box of exquisite fruit candy, a bottle of good wine, a best seller, a good music disc, and so on.
12. Press it first (some doorbells will ring several times in a row). If there is no response in the room, press it again.
13, the way to hold down the doorbell and let the bell ring continuously suggests urging, which is not standardized.
14. Now there is a "cat's eye" on the door. After ringing the doorbell, you should adjust your body position from the perspective of the door opener and stand in front of the "cat's eye" so that the owner in the house can see the visitor's face through the "cat's eye".
16. Use your forefinger and middle finger three times at a time. If there is no response in the room, knock three times in a row.
17. Never knock on the door and shout to open the door. This is impolite.
19, take off your shoes when you go to someone else's house.
20. Don't wear shoes and bring dust into the soles of your shoes. The soles of women's high heels may also damage the floor of the owner's house.
2 1. So if you take off your shoes and socks, they will be exposed. Make sure the socks are clean, intact and tasteless.
General process of proposing marriage at home
1. Parents discuss the meeting time through their children. After the time is determined, the man's parents will take their families to visit the woman's house. According to the ancient saying, there are many such etiquette, which are simplified now. The man's family only needs to bring some gifts to express their greetings.
2. After meeting, the man's family proposed this marriage and waited for the woman's family's response. In fact, as we all know, if we don't agree to this marriage, we won't meet each other. These words just say that we will follow the tradition and make the problem more clear.
After greeting, I began to elaborate on how to deal with this marriage, what the two families think, and so on. At this meeting, all the problems were dealt with clearly. Just do things in the following order. For example, the man's family should explain to the woman's family the current preparations of his family, such as how to deal with the house, decoration and catering, and the woman's family should clearly raise any dissatisfaction after listening.
After reaching a consensus, we began to talk about trifles such as bride price and dowry involved in marriage.
4. After all the dust settles, plan the wedding date according to the renovation progress of the new house. Whether the two families set the wedding date on the spot or go home to study and discuss, and find someone to measure the eight characters before setting the wedding date, that is another story. Anyway, both sides agreed. If the date is arranged earlier, the better to book a hotel.