① Park: Visiting the park is one of the most common ways for young couples to fall in love. But you shouldn't just sit on a chair in the park. Instead, you should wander around or sit on the swing and let your body move, so that both sides can get rid of the tension.
Walking: It's also a good idea to walk in the moonlight, but it's important for you to let her walk on the other side of the sidewalk and keep pace with her as much as possible. The initial distance between them is 20 cm.
Dancing: We have read about the disadvantages of dancing on the first date, but if the other person is keen on it, you have to follow your heart, and you can eliminate each other's barriers in the fierce beating.
Exercise: You can increase your enthusiasm by shouting, but you can't be worse than her.
⑤ Movie: You must know that the plot is suitable for the first love couple. Don't be sad, or he will think it is a bad omen. Don't just tease, or she will think that your taste is not high. And you can't talk while watching movies, which is its shortcoming.
6 restaurant: pay attention to finding a corner position, so as to avoid people's eyes and reduce the psychological tension of the first love girlfriend. Moreover, you should ask her to sit back to the door, so that her sight will be centered on you, and at the same time you can see the whole restaurant yourself and guide the conversation in a calm atmosphere. But if it is not particularly interesting or necessary, don't find a topic in the crowd in the restaurant.
⑦ Museum: If your girlfriend is elegant and quiet, you can consider going to the museum with her, which may create a good atmosphere unexpectedly. But you can't know nothing or know very little about what is displayed in the museum. If your girlfriend tells you, it's not good for you.
⑧ Competition or performance: Let the girl watch sports competitions or acrobatic performances, let her know the world she is not familiar with, and at the same time, you can express your views while watching and deepen her impression of you.
Pet-name ruby Playground: It's easy to make people excited, create a frank and open atmosphere, and the body will naturally approach, but don't have the idea of "seizing the opportunity to disrupt", otherwise you will screw up the good thing yourself as soon as the woman is alert.
Attending the choice of restaurants: girls will like elegant and neat small restaurants, exotic western restaurants, or go to restaurants on the top floor of high-rise buildings to enjoy the night of the city while eating.
Precautions when eating:
A. Take the initiative to invite her to dinner, because most girls don't want to say that they are hungry.
B. Ask her what she wants to eat first. If she doesn't comment, you can decide the menu yourself. Don't push it around, because you think being polite to each other will actually embarrass them. Be careful not to touch your teeth when ordering, because it will spoil the atmosphere.
C. Try not to make any noise while eating. You should talk to your heart while eating.
D. You can eat as much as you want. Girls usually like boys with big appetites.
Precautions for drinking:
A. Never force your girlfriend to drink on the first date, which will make her unhappy. She can also refuse to date you again on the pretext that you force her to drink.
B. whether you can or not, don't pretend to be massive.
C. If she drinks it and her face turns red, you should praise her.
If you are late for an appointment:
I rushed to the appointment place, gasped and sincerely apologized to the other party, and then naturally made an excuse, such as "Zhongshan Road was caught in traffic, so I jumped out of the car and ran there, out of breath." Or: "I want to find you a gift that you like, so that I can't catch up with the time ..." In short, be reasonable and don't let her know that you are late because of your carelessness, which has nothing to do with any car or gift. This kind of commitment helps to dispel his girlfriend's dissatisfaction, and the motive is good, so it can't be regarded as malicious deception. However, this kind of thing must not happen again. If you tell too many lies, the stuffing will eventually come out.
Farewell skills
It's best to say goodbye to her at the right station, wait with her until the bus comes, and then leave after she gets on the bus. So that women won't feel that you are not tightly entangled. If she is willing to let you take her home, it means that she has a little mutual affinity for you. At this time, the time must be separated, that is to say, the first date should end when the girl still wants to get along with you. This is the trick to make her look forward to her next date. At the same time, you should use the following invitation skills. For example, while waiting for the bus, you ask her, "Today is the summer solstice. Do you know what the summer solstice means? " She said she didn't know, and then the car came. You said, "Well, I'll tell you on our next date." Repeat the next time and place, and then send her to the car. Or, when she was about to break up, she said, "I am very happy with you." You must stop at once and say, "Great. I will make you happier next time. " Then repeat the time and place of the next appointment as appropriate.
The success of dating has a lot to do with your charm.
First of all, the most important thing is that instead of talking about yourself, it is better to listen to each other enthusiastically, while staring at each other's eyes and mouth, and show interest in each other's words, especially when the other person talks about something he is very proud of. You should show that you are also interested and make him realize this.
When you speak, your expression should be cheerful, your speech should be clear, and your answers to each other's questions should be simple and clear.
It is also important to prepare questions in advance. If you know what the other person is interested in, then prepare more conversation topics related to this topic.
Secondly, moderately praising each other is also the secret of success. But fawning on others is too obvious. As for the other person's appearance and figure, it is best to avoid compliments on the first date. If you are a man, praise the other person's unusual hairstyle, dress and temperament. If you are a woman, praise the other person's knowledge and technology, or the extraordinary taste of brand-name lighters and ties used on you.
The topics that should be avoided when dating are showing injustice or dissatisfaction with anything, speaking ill of others or criticizing others. These topics will not only ruin the happy atmosphere when dating, but also make the other party doubt your character.
Secondly, my answer to the question whether it is appropriate to say "like" on the first date is "it is best not to". Because it's only the first date, I don't know much about each other's thoughts. If I ask this kind of question rashly, it will shock the other person and make them at a loss, and there may be no second date. Just know that the other person is willing to keep the appointment, don't hate yourself. Don't forget that "love" is not unilateral wishful thinking, but must be cultivated naturally through dating again and again. Even if you don't say "like", as long as you can feel the other person's friendly attitude towards you, this is the performance of "like" As long as you don't say "like" in particular, the other party should have a great chance to accept the second date happily. Besides, saying "I love you" is likely to backfire.
Let me talk about a young man who thinks about what he should say. One day, he made an appointment with the woman he liked to go to the movies together. The day before the appointment, he came to the station he had agreed with the other party, and then walked from the station to the cinema. As he walked, he counted the steps and calculated the time needed to walk this road. Then, during the walk with her, think about what to say and practice again and again.
If you want love to succeed, you must have this level of enthusiasm. Ordinary people do not make special plans. In the limited few minutes, everything is specially prepared. However, just trying once and practicing speaking often should produce unexpected results.
When taking the entrance examination or employment examination, everyone will prepare carefully, but I think it is a bit too cautious to spend so much effort to prepare a speech on a date. I feel very strange about this. Of course, there is no need to make it too difficult, but especially on the first date, you must be as careful as possible and try to be prepared.
Don't be too glib, just try to convey your sincerity to each other.
Sincere, generous, show your best side,
It's yours, and it will be yours in the end. We must firmly believe that many people are looking for her, and suddenly look back, that person is in the dim light.
First of all, there must be a concept. It is impossible to completely lock other people's hearts at once.
Then let's talk slowly.
When we meet for the first time, the key is of course the image.
Including dress, talk and behavior. And affinity.
Contact time should be short.
You should introduce yourself. Ask her a few questions by the way.
Ask nature, of course.
The answers to these questions are the basis for you to decide where to go all day.
I don't know if you have collected data before, if not,
Call your references and ask some questions.
A girl's personality, hobbies. Have you ever talked about boyfriends before?
Of course, you can ask these questions directly to girls.
However, there may be water in the answer.
And your questioning skills are hard to control.
If your brain is smart,
Should be able to understand the number of girls.
Then I will show myself well.
Of course, there are many ways.
I think you're smart,
What I think is not as good as what you think.
Now imagine yourself successful.
Practice your mouth muscles in front of the mirror before going out tomorrow morning.
Then say loudly, you are mine.
You can't leave my Wuzhishan.
Let me give you happiness.
I'll pull. . . . . . .
You are my idol, so you will succeed.
Don't forget to tell us when it's finished.
Waiting for your good news.
Ten reasons why mcdonald's met mm.
1, the price will not be too high and the grade will not be too low.
2. Since it is a fast food, you can pack up and leave immediately when you meet a dinosaur, and you can eat slowly when you meet a girl!
3, the taste is global and unified, and it will not be uncomfortable.
4. Hygiene is OK, and there will be no embarrassing scenes such as eating flies, cockroaches and mice.
5. There are many people. When the dinosaur wants to escape, it can gracefully say, "Let's go and give up our position to others!" "
6, absolutely no one will drink and make trouble, at most children will make trouble, which is easy to protect girls, especially for thin GG, which is a good choice.
7. The landmark buildings belonging to a place are easy to find, especially for girls with poor sense of direction. Meeting in M is a good choice.
8. Being poisoned by "first intimate contact" is too deep!
9. Don't spend a lot of time studying what to eat.
10, in case of a dispute, no one will die. A coke at most will drench your feet from head to foot. You may fly a knife when eating western food, and a pair of chopsticks may be inserted into your eyes when eating Chinese food, if you can't dodge ...)