Going through the door is engagement. After the woman's father (or mother) goes to the man's house to "look at the house" and agrees to this marriage, the matchmaker will soon show the future son-in-law to the woman's house with meat, wine, candy, clothes and bride price according to the engagement procedure. After the reception, the woman will also send two bowls, two pairs of chopsticks, a pair of Chinese cabbage with roots and green onions. You can also give some "happy money" if the conditions are good. Bowls, chopsticks and vegetables mean that men and women are in pairs, eating and drinking, and love has roots and leaves, lasting forever.

Customs vary from place to place, at least be polite. Prepare a 40% discount gift, which is four things. For example, the woman's family, especially her father, smokes and drinks, and alcohol and tobacco are indispensable. Add another piece of meat, and some places say that children are the hearts of parents. When someone else's daughter is married, cut a piece of "mother's meat" for her parents. Besides, when summer comes, add a box of juice drinks or something.

But in some places, in order to show that other people's daughters will not be wronged (referring to material aspects), 60%, 10% and 10% are prepared. There is no 20% discount, because the wedding event should be smooth, and the fourth refers to the homophonic everything goes well; Let's not talk about six, nine, everlasting, ten perfect. Besides, the eight tones, the media and the matchmaker have all been stripped away. What are you kissing? Therefore, it is forbidden to have the homonym of steak when getting married and building a house. What a lucky photo!

As for the deposit, it depends on the agreement between the two families before the engagement. Now the living conditions are better, and there are fewer sisters, not as before. Raising a daughter is like raising a bank. How much is the same meaning. If you are an only child, when your parents are old, how much you take will still be yours. If the economic conditions are good, the woman's family will not do anything in this regard. If the conditions are not good, make it clear to your girlfriend that you have borrowed money to send a deposit. After marriage, the money is paid by both husband and wife. Isn't it a burden for marriage?

I got married in 2003, because we were not far away and grew up together, so I won the lottery with 100 1 yuan. Then I bought a gold ring with my meager salary at that time, which made my girlfriend very moved and got engaged.

The above information is for reference only. I wish you an early success!