Many treasure mothers face the same problem after maternity leave-taking the baby or going to work. I am one of them. Before having children, I was a professional woman and had my own career. But after giving birth, I was faced with a dilemma. Taking care of the baby at home will make the family lose an income and the career will no longer exist. I'm a little reluctant, but if I insist on going to work and the baby is unattended, I'm not at ease. It's really annoying

After maternity leave, do you choose to take care of the baby at home or go to work? Let's listen to Ma Bao's thoughts:

Lei Lei's mother: I will choose to take care of the children at home. After all, children only grow up once. If they miss it, there will be nothing, and the money can be earned again. So I decided to stay at home to take care of the baby and accompany the child to grow up.

Jun Jun's mother: I will choose to work, not that I don't love children. The main reason is that the husband is the only one who earns money at home, and the family pressure is too great. Moreover, if my husband is the only one, it is a problem that I can't even keep my child's milk powder money, let alone the child's growth.

In fact, no matter how Ma Bao chooses, it is good for the family and the baby. But when Ma Bao makes a choice, Ma Bao must understand what she will face and what difficulties she will encounter.

Families with work subsidies

Children can't grow up without their parents' company. If Ma Bao chooses to work, she will spend less time with her children. Therefore, it is easy to be absent during the child's growth. She can't maintain deep feelings with the child, and even in the education of the child, she will have differences with her husband, leading to family conflicts.

But at work, Ma Bao can make money to supplement his family and improve his family life, and Ma Bao has also realized his life value at work.

Grow up with the baby

Ma Bao chooses to take care of the baby at home, so the financial pressure of the family is on her husband. Taking care of the baby for a long time can easily narrow Ma Bao's vision and circle of friends. Ma Bao is easily divorced from society. Sometimes she feels lonely and wants to lose her temper.

The accompanying children in Ma Bao can give them a good enlightenment education, enhance their feelings with them, accompany them, form a cheerful and kind character and promote their healthy growth.

Both options have advantages and disadvantages. Ma Bao should make choices according to its own situation, so as to promote the healthy growth of children and make the family more harmonious.

If it were you, would you choose to take care of the children or go to work?