Are the sisters still trying to be a good wife and mother at home, cleaning, cooking and washing dishes, taking care of the children and letting their husbands read the newspaper at ease? You are angry, but no matter how you yell, his ass still sticks to the sofa and can't move! Emotional experts believe that housework is the common obligation of a family. . Women should do housework, so should men. Doing more and better requires wisdom ... If you master the following points, congratulations, you can be an "idle wife and mother"!
1, imperceptibly, change him ideologically.
A good husband should be cultivated slowly. From the beginning, we should establish his family culture concept and let him understand that a good man should do housework. For example, he often takes him to a friend's house as a model husband, so that he can witness with his own eyes how handsome men are when they do housework; Always brainwash him and tell him that what is popular now is a good man at home; You can even rise to a certain height and tell him, "If you don't sweep a house, why should you sweep the world ..."
2. Combine kindness with kindness and bind him with rules and regulations.
As soon as you get married, even when you are in love, you should let him know that your wife is to be distressed and spoiled, and loving your wife is to love housework!
Keep reminding him, "Don't you love me and my family?" What is it to do some housework? "What's more, at the wedding, please ask the officiating person to ask," Would you like to marry her and take the initiative to undertake the housework? "Hey, hey, will he say no?
3, rhetoric, "forced" him on the grounds of rest.
A man is still a child at heart If you make him happy, he will be willing to do anything.
For example, he plays computer all day on weekends. You can press his shoulder and say, "Cervical vertebra hurts. It's not good to face the computer all day. Stand up and move, raise your head and stretch your arms. Just wipe the dust off the tables and bookcases. " With such warm care, he will still do it.
4, caring, let him realize the benefits of doing housework
If you just watch TV for fun while he is doing housework, be careful. I guess he won't do this again next time, because he will be a little unbalanced. So remember, you can't be idle when he does housework. You should follow him before and after running and care about him: honey, are you tired? Drink some water and wipe your sweat! "If you follow closely like a small footman, he will feel that doing housework turned out to be something to be proud of, and he will take the initiative to do it without you calling him later.
5, vigorously promote, let him become more brave in the good name.
Having a good husband who does housework is something to be proud of, so we should seize every opportunity to publicize it. Housework is a trivial matter, and it is important to let everyone know. People on earth know that he is a good husband who can do housework and will praise him as a model as soon as they meet. Do you think he can personally destroy his glorious image under such honor and aura? You must try your best to maintain it. At that time, you can enjoy yourself!
6, coquetry weakness, with a man's sense of responsibility "command" him.
If you have been working hard and quietly packing things, men can't see it, let alone appreciate your efforts. Over time, housework will become your "patent". So sometimes, you have to learn to pass the housework on to him. For example, "honey, I'm not feeling well these days." I can't touch cold water Would you please help me wash those clothes? " Do you think he has the courage not to wash? For that kind of super lazy man, you can take risks. For example, when you mop the floor and suddenly your waist flashes, he quickly tells you to have a rest and stop doing it. Then you say anxiously, "That's no good, you've been dragging it for a week anyway ..." It's estimated that he grabbed the mop and mopped the floor before you finished saying this.