There is a retired worker in our unit. Call him Lao Zhang for the time being. Lao Zhang has been working since he was a teenager. He has a long service time and a high retirement salary. Coupled with the continuous rise in recent years, his retirement salary is almost 7000 yuan. He has three suites in the local area and only one son is in Beijing.

His wife died of cancer in her fifties. Half a year after her death, she found a woman nearly 10 years younger than him. To tell the truth, Lao Zhang's other conditions are really bad except money. He is not good-looking and has a bad temper. He smokes, drinks, plays mahjong and has many bad habits. However, Lao Zhang also has an advantage, he can say, special. Sometimes when you come to our department to handle affairs, you will be told many stories vividly, such as his trip to Tibetan areas alone and his son taking him abroad. There are many things, and I don't know if it's true or not. Lao Zhang also showed us the photo of that woman. Honestly, it's good.

Lao Zhang lived together without marrying her. Later, three years later, he separated. It is said that he bought a car before he left. In less than a year, Lao Zhang found another object. This is the nanny who usually cooks for him. Looking for him means that he works quickly. He is not in pain. He pays, she contributes. It's good.

Lao Zhang also said that his son is very supportive of him in finding someone. As long as he wants, he can spend all his money on finding someone, and happiness is the first. Lao Zhang is almost 80 years old now. Anyway, there is no shortage of women around him, and he is willing to give up. All the money he earned was used to find someone.

Actually, Lao Zhang is not stupid at all. He only looks for someone, not talking about marriage. He often said that finding an object is to be economical and applicable. If you are kind to him, you can change it. If you treat him badly, you can change. Anyway, he is not short of money. If you get married, you have to divide his property. If this woman doesn't serve him well, the divorce can't be done at once.

Lao Zhang always said that if a man has money, he won't worry about finding someone. We also discussed it. It's not difficult to find someone. It's just a question of whether the search is good or not, so I don't mean it.

After all, living with your partner is an economic activity. You pay, she gives, you can't expect a sick person to stay and wait on you. People don't expect you to buy her a house or a car, and give her all the property in the family. Break up when you encounter difficulties.

In marriage, it is more about emotional life. When two people are together, share weal and woe, be more sincere and less calculating.

If you are Lao Zhang, would you rather find a real lover to marry or someone like him to live with?