Many women are in the same situation as this waitress. Because they are old, especially after the age of 30, their relatives, friends and classmates are getting married and having children one after another, and they are still single, so they will naturally be anxious, but they can't find someone, so they cry. The main reasons why they are older and single are as follows:
First, these women are not beautiful, have bad bodies and are not gentle. The vast majority of men's mate selection is still very superficial, that is, they like to find a young and beautiful woman to go home and warm the kang, so that men can face up. They want to be strong in front of women, and they want women to do what they say, so they also want to find a gentle and kind woman. However, many women are overbearing and strong, and want to keep men's salary cards, but they don't want to be good wives and mothers, and they are not good-looking, so these women are not the targets of men's pursuit. As they get older, these women are less and less likely to get divorced.
Second, these women are too demanding. Many women have average conditions, no face value, no figure, no education and no money, but the man is required to be an aboriginal in a big city, with a height of 1.8 meters, an annual income of one million, a master's degree, a house and a car. They firmly believe that they will find Prince Charming, marry into a rich family, and fly to the branches like the heroine in Korean dramas, but men are not stupid, and they don't want to be charitable, so they will hide when they meet these women with high requirements for mate selection. These women are single to over 30 years old and want to find a partner, but they still don't give up. They still insist on their own mate selection criteria and refuse to lower them. So their blind date often fails, and no one asks them to marry.