There is only one son in my family. As soon as the daughter-in-law entered the door, she had another daughter. As long as she doesn't dislike my cooking, she can come and eat at any time.
Although my family is not rich, it is ok to live on meager food. Cooking is easy now. Just cook with an electric cooker, wash the rice and plug it in, and wait for the trip.
It is also easy to simply fry a dish, such as: persimmon scrambled eggs, pepper dried tofu, cumin beef, all of which are very simple, and you can eat them in a few minutes, and there is running water for washing dishes, which is no trouble at all.
The children don't want to do it. They can buy some steamed bread, flower rolls, pancakes, assorted vegetables and scrambled eggs. Now that life is good, the children have caught up with the good times. They have been freed from the heavy housework in the past.
When I was a child, it took me more than two hours to burn coal, chop wood, make a fire, cook, stir-fry and eat at home.
At present, cooking in electric cookers and gas stoves can basically be completed in half an hour, and cleaning up the kitchen after meals can be completed in one hour.
If you don't want to cook, you can go out to eat, stir-fry, rice, jiaozi and noodles. As long as you have money in your pocket, eating is not a problem at all.
It is no longer our responsibility that the future daughter-in-law can't cook. We don't have to worry about them. We can't be with them forever. Everything in the future needs them to deal with. They can live and eat even without their mother-in-law.
No one is born to cook, but learned it the day after tomorrow. Besides, cooking is easy. Nowadays, children are very smart, and cooking is a piece of cake for them.
If a daughter-in-law wants to learn to cook, as a mother-in-law, teach them. If the daughter-in-law doesn't want to learn, don't worry. Everything will work out in the end, okay? No one cooks, they can eat their own meals.
Daughters-in-law can get along well. If you can't get along, let your son and daughter-in-law live by themselves. Come if they want to see it. If they don't want to come, forget it. There is no need to force or be angry with them. We old people can take care of ourselves.