Almost all American children don't like to eat green vegetables. Although American parents know the nutritional value of green vegetables, they will never force their children to eat them. When American children eat, they can put down their knives and forks or even leave the table as soon as they say they are full. The attitude and practice of Americans in eating embodies a core goal of American children's education: to cultivate children's independent thinking ability. When children eat, they must decide what they like and what they don't like. If he doesn't have enough to eat and doesn't eat for fun, he will starve after a while. Americans love to say that making mistakes is an indispensable learning process, and children's pedagogy pays special attention to this understanding. Children who grow up in such a living environment know from an early age that they have the ability to know what they want and what they don't want. If you don't want to eat, say you don't want to eat. Say you are full when you are full. They are full of confidence in themselves and know that their parents trust them. No matter which country, no matter adults or children, everyone should eat at least three meals a day. Therefore, the behavior of adults at the dinner table is repeated at least three times a day, which naturally leaves a deeper impression on children's body and mind than school work. Adults and children eat together, in fact, they are constantly educating their children, which should not be underestimated. People in China attach importance to eating, and food is the most important thing for the people. China's parents love their children and work hard at eating. The first is to let children eat more, indiscriminately, as hard as possible, as long as children eat more, since ancient times. China's parents breast-fed their children, chewed them in their own mouths when they were young, and then fed them to their babies. When they are older, feed them with spoons and then with chopsticks. I often see my grandmother chasing her grandson around the yard with a bowl, crying for a bite. According to the records I have read, the oldest child to feed is eleven years old, because the mother loves her son too much. At present, many government agencies in China have only one hour lunch at noon. When many parents arrive, they have to put aside major events, travel across mountains and seas, and rush home to make lunch for their children. I'm worried that children will not have enough to eat without adults. Besides eating more, we should eat well. Parents can go hungry, and children can't have less meat in their bowls. When the country is in trouble, it is difficult to buy a dime of fat. Parents absolutely don't want to enjoy themselves. They must leave it to their children. Watching him smack his lips made his parents feel as sweet as honey. Now that the national economy is good, we have everything we need. I'm tired of eating chicken, duck and fish, and the delicacies are not fresh. What else can we find for the children to eat? It is said that primary school students in China began to eat supplements such as ginseng or bird's nest, which really tastes better. I don't know if the child can bear it. American parents are also very concerned about their children's diet, but they are far less concerned than their parents in China. Americans don't force their children to eat more, let alone give them bird's nest, and American adults don't eat bird's nest. American families with high education will take the initiative to supplement calcium for their children, and they are also forbidden to drink soft drinks such as Coca-Cola and eat sugar. American children have been eating by themselves since they can hold spoons, regardless of their parents, and cover their faces with spoons. Moreover, children in the United States have lunch at school every noon since the first grade of primary school, and no parents go home to cook for their children. Poor students eat free lunch at school, and parents can't see what they want to eat. Middle-class children bring food to school, mostly just a Meiji, a bottle of juice and a dessert. Parents know nothing about how children eat and how much they throw away, and don't ask at all. The attitude and practice of Americans in eating embodies a core goal of American children's education: to cultivate children's independent thinking ability. When children eat, they must decide for themselves what they like and what they don't like. Or whether you are hungry or full. If he doesn't have enough to eat and doesn't eat for fun, he will be hungry after a while and deserve it. It was his own choice, and he got what he deserved. How painful! He won't do it again. Americans love to say that making mistakes is an indispensable learning process, and children's pedagogy pays special attention to this understanding. The basis of this concept is that American parents regard their children as equal people and respect their personal wishes. American parents believe that children's lives are their own, and children can only live their own independent lives now and in the future. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to live independently as soon as possible, so that children don't have to eat vegetables. When the child says he is full, he can stop eating with another bite. If parents in China see this, they will probably think that American parents don't care about their children's nutrition and hunger, and even abuse their children. China's parents look at this matter from another angle, thinking that their children are young, lack of life experience, and have no ability to make choices or make the right choices, so parents must make the right decisions for their children. Children don't like to eat green vegetables. This is not right. Adults must force them to eat. Children just eat a bowl of rice and say it is full of minerals. It is out of the question. He will be hungry, and adults must force them to eat more. There is an old saying in China, "Stand at thirty, but don't be confused at forty." An adult is only 30 years old, and a confused child is only 40 years old. Children understand and have their own wishes. What children want to do is not fooling around. According to them, they were all malnourished and eventually starved to death. Growing up in these two different living environments, American children may inevitably go hungry often, while China children are always full from morning till night. Because American children don't eat green vegetables, they have to rely on vitamins to supplement their nutrition. Children in China have eaten enough nutrition in rice, and all they need is bird's nest and ginseng. American children know from an early age that they have the ability to know what they want and what they don't want, whether they are hungry or full. Children in China know from an early age that adults know more than children, so they should listen to adults everywhere. American children can say whatever they want when they are young. If you don't want to eat, say you don't want to eat. Say you are full when you are full. They are full of confidence in themselves and know that their parents trust them. Children in China know from an early age that it is absolutely impossible to cheat their parents, and even if they tell the truth, they will not be trusted. Adults only ask their children according to their own standards, so they only please adults, say they don't like it, and say they will eat what American parents cook when they are full. The purpose is to train and cultivate children's independent judgment ability, cultivate children's independent thinking and will, self-confidence and self-esteem, and respect honesty and trust. Three meals a day, day after day, directly affect their physical feelings, table education is far more solid and effective than previous classes and listening to several speeches. What China's parents do when eating is to let their children know that they are young, have little life experience, don't know what they want, don't know if they are hungry, and don't need to know this for themselves. Adults care about them and arrange everything for them. As long as they are obedient, they will be hungry, well-nourished and thrive. As a result, when American children grow up, their favorite words are: I know, I will. When children in China grow up, their favorite words are: I am obedient, I am a good boy. American children are half hungry and half full, malnourished, arrogant, lonely and helpless, rampaging and bleeding, and finally they can invent new things, start big companies, be big bosses and say whatever they want. China children, with bulging bellies and rosy faces, respect the old and love the young, are modest and prudent, obey the leadership and work hard. Finally, he was selected as a model worker, outstanding citizen and people's representative, and people can say whatever they like. Although American parents don't care what their children eat, they don't care how they eat. This is called eating. American middle-class families are extremely strict and will never let go of a mistake. Children have to eat by themselves since childhood, and they have to train themselves to hold knives and forks. When Americans eat, they are not allowed to pick up plates and put them in their mouths, and they are absolutely not allowed to spit out what they put in their mouths. Meat and bones, chicken, duck, fish and shrimp. Don't take a bite in your mouth, don't put bones in it, and don't spit prickly skin. When a child uses a knife and fork, he must be trained to peel off the shrimp on the plate and fork the shrimp only at the entrance. And it is not allowed to cut out the sound on the porcelain plate. If you get a knife, your parents will stare and your child will apologize quickly. It's hard. It's hard to eat in your mouth, but you can't enjoy it. The most important rule for Americans to eat is not to make any noise. Therefore, it is absolutely not allowed to chew with your mouth open and your lips creak. It is also forbidden to suck noodles, porridge, chicken soup, tea and wine loudly one inch away from your mouth. No matter how spicy it is, it can't make a sucking sound, only pain. It is not allowed to talk while chewing a mouthful of food, which is a big taboo for Americans at the dinner table. American children will remember that from the day they are sensible, they are not allowed to talk with their mouths full. When they see adults foul, they must point out that adults must admit their mistakes.