The idea of dating a man in his thirties is something that needs to be experienced when he is single at a certain age. Different people have different attitudes when they go on blind dates. Let's share the idea of dating a man in his thirties.
The idea of dating a man in his thirties is 1. The first one is shorter than 170, and its face value is not high. Other hardware is ok, but it is not good enough for girls to ignore the face value and height.
Many of these boys have been on blind dates many times, and they have been defeated many times. They may all be Buddhists and have no self-confidence. I thought if I could meet a girl who can accept their height and is suitable for life.
Their mentality has to be Buddhist, and they are beaten every blind date.
Nowadays, many post-90s girls are particularly concerned about the height of boys. In their eyes, height over 175 is the standard.
Therefore, it is better for these boys whose height is less than 170 to look for more in the circle of acquaintances first. Are there any girls who appreciate your other longboards and don't care much about height?
Second, boys who can't afford to buy a house in first-tier cities can't afford to buy a house themselves in a short time. Such men know that their material conditions are not good, so they simply don't go out on blind dates, stay in first-tier cities for a few years, and return to second-and third-tier cities to settle down when they can't find someone.
Their mentality is to go out on blind dates several times, understand the market situation, and simply not go out on blind dates. After staying in first-tier cities for several years, I saved enough down payment for houses in second-and third-tier cities and went back to my hometown for blind date.
It is also best for colleagues and classmates around them to dig more and have a high success rate.
Third, many boys with introverted personality and average emotional intelligence are very straight and can't provide emotional prices for girls. After several short-term unformed love affairs, they also believe in Buddhism for blind date. If they can find it, they will look for it. If they can't find it, they will concentrate on their work.
I have seen many such boys, and the hardware is ok, but there is no price. After dating for many times, they are also Buddhists in mind and simply lie flat.
Fourth, the hardware is good in all aspects, and the emotional intelligence is ok, but it is extremely picky about boys.
They can't find the most satisfactory object in all aspects, and prefer to choose several separate or short-term love relationships to solve their lonely emotions.
They are still very active in blind date, but no one is satisfied with everything and doesn't want to settle down. They will probably keep looking until they are old.
However, I think the first and second types account for the largest proportion of boys over 30 in the blind date market, poor or short, or even both.
It is really not easy for these boys who are not tall or have average income and have no helpers at home.
If the man is below 165, try to find a smart girl who doesn't mind his shortcomings and takes a fancy to his other long boards in life and work.
The idea of a blind date man in his thirties 2 How good is a blind date man?
1, considerate and meticulous blind date man
Girls like considerate boys, especially boys who are far away from family and parents, and are more sensitive to boys' concern. Girls like careful boys because they can easily find the same topic as girls. Thoughtfulness doesn't just ask you to send a bunch of flowers on her birthday, but to accompany her on her birthday; Don't ask you to do anything for her, but make her feel safe.
2. A knowledgeable blind date
Girls generally like and appreciate boys who are more knowledgeable than themselves, which stems from the primitive worship of women. This will make them want to know you more and get close to you. So improve yourself, make efforts to become knowledgeable and constantly enrich yourself. Rich knowledge can also set off your erudite side, and also leave people with a feeling of loving learning, making progress and having ideals, which is also a necessary condition for Sunshine Boy.
3. A blind date with a sense of responsibility and family care.
Sense of responsibility is one of the basic qualities of mature men, and girls will pay more attention to it. A responsible man is often very connotative, well-educated, has a good tutor, and has a good personality and can be trusted. Have a sense of responsibility for the collective and work now, and will have a sense of responsibility for the family in the future.
4. A witty, humorous and enthusiastic blind date.
Girls like humorous people, which will make her feel relaxed mentally. For example, from time to time, there are some unexpected behaviors that make sparks shine in her mind, and a few tricks can surprise her with gifts. Or you have a great activity plan.
Let her appreciate your cleverness, whether it's a group activity or a separate activity, and make her feel that you are really "talented", so that she can leave two unforgettable personal stories and keep her immersed in your thoughts.
Reliable performance of blind date men
1, will send you home safely. Think about whether your's relationship can last after the date, and whether you are the one who can accompany her to the end. It is estimated that a safe person will definitely want to drive you or call you home. This is just a polite expression, but it shows that this person is also a person who can be faithful to life. This cannot be ruled out at any time.
2. See if the other party has made some preparations in advance at the appointed place and time. A person who really wants to get along with you will definitely go to the meeting first and keep everything in order. Such a person will feel at ease when you are with each other in the future, and can always plan ahead. You will definitely feel happier with each other.
How to see the character of a blind date man?
1, depending on the location chosen by the other party.
The location of the blind date doesn't need to be too high-end, but it can't be one of those cheap food stalls or something. Choosing a boy in this place is, in the final analysis, a deduction. You can choose such a casual place for such an important thing as meeting for the first time, so don't continue.
2, fidgeting when dating, eyes wandering.
Such a boy is either insincere or belongs to the kind of person who can't calm down. To put it bluntly, you are either not interested in you or a person who can't even control his own behavior. Girls should also think carefully.
3. Favorite sports
Men who like running, swimming and other solo sports like independence, which means that they are often alone. Men who like team sports such as football, basketball, baseball, etc. like to compete, whether on the sports field or in all aspects of life, and like to compete with people around them anytime and anywhere.
4. His way of communication
It is very important for two people to get along and communicate. If you are a talkative person who completely ignores the feelings of the audience, you are generally a person who usually has no chance to express his views loudly, and the reliability of his speech is generally not high. If it involves material conditions, it is generally not credible.
5. His driving habits
If he often drives in traffic jams, or follows the car in front of him and gloats at the driver in front of him, Dr. Leon James, a psychologist at the University of Hawaii and author of "Road Arguments and Angry Driving", said: "Obviously, he has impulsive problems." Although being competitive will make him stand out in his work, this guy is hard to get along with others. "
6. Hotel orders
Before two people formally start eating, ordering food can reflect a person's personality.
If you decide the menu without authorization when ordering, it shows that this person is a certain degree of male chauvinism and can be said to be a certain self. If he asks about your taste, but decides the menu because it is not good for your health, it means that he will take care of you but is very controlling.
How to tell a good man on a blind date?
1. People who smile when they speak. This type of man is kind-hearted, easy-going and good at communicating with others. Self-confident, good acting skills, not easy to fall into love difficulties.
2. People who speak loudly. This type of man has a strong self-esteem. He works hard for his career and love.
3. People who always keep calm. In the process of conversation and interaction, the other party has always remained calm, reflecting that he is more reliable and has certain cultural literacy.
4. People with exaggerated behaviors and postures. When speaking, the other person has many gestures and exaggerated behaviors. Such people are more approachable and sincere in heart.
Dialogue is a person who often closes his eyes. This type of man is smarter. He often closes his eyes because he can think, think twice and speak carefully. Generally speaking, they will be more honest, and they will do what they say. If they can't do it, they will not easily promise others. This trustworthy person.
6. Easy-going people. Speak slowly and gently. Such people are kind and approachable at heart. Falling in love with this kind of person is sometimes boring, but it is very long, and it is a flowing type.
The idea of dating a man in his thirties Three common skills of dating a man: playing hard to get.
1. Being cold and hot for you is not completely snubbing you.
At first, blind date men will often contact you. When you talked about the best time, he suddenly stopped contacting you. At this time, the woman's heart will be very curious, and she will always think of the blind date, making you want to know how the other person feels about you.
At that time, the blind date will suddenly contact you, and then your hanging heart will be put down. At this time, the purpose of blind date was achieved.
I am hot and cold to you, but I will send you a gift.
Blind date men don't just try to get close to you through intermittent contact. Sometimes he will spend money to buy you a small gift. Sometimes you ask her anything, and she will answer you. In a word, he is generous to you, and he will give you anything you want.
Of course, the prerequisite for a blind date to play hard to get is that he knows that you are already interested in him, otherwise the average boy is afraid to play hard to get.
Playing hard to get is also a kind of knowledge, not only a kind of knowledge, but also a profound knowledge, including the control of human nature, the understanding of emotions, and the ability to send and receive your feelings freely and properly.
You should respect each other's feelings and leave room for feelings, so playing hard to get won't make you lose each other completely.
If you don't have this ability, you might as well communicate frankly with each other without enthusiasm, but do less and cherish more, and don't realize that you have gone too far when the other party has lost enthusiasm.