As the beginning of the year, people pay special attention to the Spring Festival. Various programs and unique customs make this Spring Festival colorful. On New Year's Eve, Spring Festival travel rush officially began. From setting off firecrackers to celebrating New Year's Eve, we let the whole night resound through the sky. From visiting relatives and friends to paying New Year greetings from a distance, we have kept our feelings from being diluted by distance. From grabbing red envelopes to playing mahjong, the entertainment atmosphere makes the Spring Festival no longer boring. Next, let's listen to what I like to do during the Spring Festival.
? I loved it when I was a child.
First, set off fireworks and firecrackers-"firecrackers are one year old, and the spring breeze send warm enters Tu Su." Basic introduction:
Flying into the sky, it is a colorful and gorgeous; Scratching, festive red came into view. On New Year's Day, in addition to the sun and white clouds, the stars and the moon, there are gorgeous fireworks in the sky. Whether it's firecrackers or fireworks, they are my childhood favorites. We will make an appointment with three or two friends, buy a bunch of fireworks with lucky money, find an open space and play our own new world.
? How will we play:
When I was a child, I bought some cheaper firecrackers with pocket money before the Spring Festival, such as the Monkey King and sand cannons, which cost 50 cents a box. If I am a little extravagant, I will buy a five-dollar box of celestial cannons.
The first level of play is to throw it in the open space or into the pool. Advanced gameplay, you start to blow up things, blow up bottles, or cover them with boxes. What impressed me the most was fried cow dung. Set off firecrackers in the morning and fireworks at night. There are also various types of fireworks, some of which can rotate, some can fly, some are continuous and some are intermittent. If firecrackers are for entertainment, then fireworks are for appreciation.
Reasons for love:
Setting off fireworks can be regarded as a hope for Chinese New Year when I was a child. I always look forward to when the canteen downstairs will purchase fireworks and firecrackers, and then put up a "Fireworks and firecrackers for sale" outside the door. I am looking forward to "stocking" from the grocery store one by one during the Spring Festival. Enjoying the excitement and excitement of everyone running around after setting off firecrackers, and the scene of fireworks blooming in the air.
Second, keep the New Year's Eve-"People don't sleep on New Year's Eve, and they are tired and lazy to welcome the New Year." Basic introduction:
Watching New Year's Eve, also called watching New Year's Eve, means staying up late on New Year's Eve, waiting for the arrival of the first day of the New Year. On New Year's Eve, at twelve o'clock in the evening, you will hear a series of firecrackers ringing through the sky. After setting off firecrackers, you will still find that every household is brightly lit, that is, there will be various activities on New Year's Eve. Old people can talk and children can fight. As the day dawns, the second round of firecrackers will be set off to welcome the arrival of New Year's Day.
How to keep Eve:
1, New Year's Eve: On New Year's Eve, we will have a New Year's Eve dinner first, that is, a reunion dinner to celebrate the reunion. After dinner, we began to watch the Spring Festival Gala, which is usually set at twelve o'clock. At twelve o'clock, the New Year's Eve dinner is over.
2. Mid-New Year's Eve: From spring to twelve o'clock, fireworks and firecrackers will be set off, and firecrackers and fireworks will be used instead of the countdown sound. At twelve o'clock sharp, which is also the busiest time in the sky, you will find fireworks rising in the southeast and northwest. After the fireworks, we usually children will play with small fireworks by themselves, and adults will nag, play cards and mahjong, all of which are full of energy, so the middle of New Year's Eve will pass.
? 3. Old age 30: 4 o'clock, old age 30 begins. At this time, all kinds of entertainment will stop, and children will go to their parents to pay New Year greetings and ask for red envelopes. After asking for red envelopes, the family will also start to pack things and prepare things to worship God to welcome the New Year's Day. When dawn comes, that is, when the second wave of firecrackers comes, every household will set off firecrackers louder than anyone else to support their own scene. New Year's Eve is over, and so is the celebration of New Year's Eve.
What's the point of celebrating New Year's Eve?
Celebrating New Year's Eve can be regarded as keeping the old year and sending it away, or as welcoming the new year and waiting for its arrival. As the intersection of the old year and the new year, New Year's Eve is full of nostalgia, regret and hope. ... night gives way to the ocean of the sun, and the old year melts in freshness. The last night faded, and a new sunrise gradually rose. The natural reason why new things replace old things can also be reflected in the defense of universities.
Reasons for love:
We were full of energy when we were young, and we became more and more excited when we stayed up late. We are usually urged to go to bed early by our parents, and finally have the freedom to stay up all night. It must be glowing. Not only that, our children will play together, and we will make an appointment to get together somewhere and set off firecrackers at dawn. When expectations and agreements are shared, who can not like them?
Third, visit relatives-"Visit relatives and friends and hurry back to their hometown to visit Tangting Society Chenpi." ? Basic introduction:
Visiting relatives, in layman's terms, means visiting relatives. During the Spring Festival, we will buy some fruits and things like that, visit relatives and friends, and go out with the whole family. One is to contact feelings and greet each other, and the other is to pay a New Year call to them. Many children will also receive more red envelopes during their visits to relatives.
What do relatives usually do:
First of all, we will definitely inform each other in advance. On New Year's Day or New Year's Eve, we will make a phone call and verbally say "Happy New Year". When will we come to your house to play? Discuss the time with the other party to avoid the embarrassing situation that the other party can't match his time.
Secondly, we will prepare some New Year greeting gifts to express our feelings. Although you often say the classic saying "What gift do you bring when you come?", China people who pay more attention to etiquette will definitely not come empty-handed. These gifts can be new year's goods or various specialties. Just express your mind appropriately.
Finally, after coming to the door, express your blessing first, and then enter the house. Then you will see the two families chatting happily together. If relatives have eaten, they will eat together before leaving. Don't be too polite to refuse.
Is there anything to pay attention to when visiting relatives?
1, the order should be clear: when visiting relatives, we have so many relatives, so we should be clear about the order. Generally speaking, we don't visit relatives in the New Year. We only visit immediate family members, for example, my father's family is going to pay a New Year call to grandparents. On the second day of the Lunar New Year, the son-in-law visited her parents-in-law. It is very important for a daughter to go back to her parents' home all the year round, so it is usually on the second day of the New Year's Day. After the third day of the lunar new year, you can start visiting relatives.
2, etiquette should be enough: etiquette here not only refers to giving gifts to relatives, but also pay attention to clothing, words and deeds. After all, we are going to be guests, so the etiquette should be in place. The clothes should be generous and decent, and the clothes should be a little festive. It's important to pay a little attention to the topic when chatting. Don't be aggressive, and don't say unlucky things that make people feel uncomfortable.
3. Always treat yourself as a guest: Although the other party will definitely say, be easy-going and make this your home. However, we still have to remember that we are guests and our priorities should be clear. Don't do anything beyond the scope of the guests. For example, you can't touch anything, you can't enter the room, you can't talk nonsense, and you can't always treat yourself as a guest. ?
Reasons for love:
I only remember that when I was a child, I liked to visit all kinds of relatives behind my parents' ass. When I don't want to go, I also have a strong belief that I can "receive red envelopes". Although a bit snobbish, it is true. After receiving the red envelope, if there are no children who can play at home, they will become restless. If there are children who can play, they will become inseparable.
Fourth, watch the Spring Festival Gala-"Laughing and laughing for the New Year, Lady Hongyan sends plum blossoms." Basic introduction:
On New Year's Eve, the family had a hot reunion dinner. In addition to our laughter, there is also the sound broadcast on TV during the Spring Festival Evening. After the news was broadcast on TV, it turned to the stage of the Spring Festival Evening. Basically, every household showed the Spring Festival Evening on TV. Although the form of the program has not changed, the content is always rich and colorful. The Spring Festival Gala will also count down from New Year's Eve to the New Year with us.
Classic review of Spring Festival Evening:
There are always a few programs in the famous scenes of the Spring Festival Evening, which become Bai Yueguang in our hearts.
1, 1998—— 1998 Meeting: Although I haven't seen the Spring Festival Gala of 1998, I specially searched the Spring Festival Gala programs of that year, and I was deeply impressed by the chorus meeting between Faye Wong and Na Ying in 1998 that year. 1998 is the first time that Faye Wong attended the Spring Festival Gala. She wore two balls on her head and a long pink dress, which was cute and playful. Na Ying is a long skirt, generous and decent. The fusion of their voices and lyrics, like the brand of the times, makes people dream back 1998.
2.2005- Avalokitesvara with Thousand Hands: Avalokitesvara with Thousand Hands, when I first saw it, I couldn't help but burst out with a national quintessence. Avalokitesvara with a thousand hands is clean and powerful, and any action will not appear redundant. With the dance of the song, the impact it brings can be said to be shocking. I was shocked and sincerely admired when I learned that the performer was a deaf-mute actor.
3.2009-Magic Hand: In 2009, this was Liu Qian's first Spring Festival Evening, and everyone was conquered by this novel program. It is incredible that magician Liu Qian can turn Dong Qing's ring into an egg unnoticed. Although it may not be strange now, it is just a simple cover-up, but there were not many popular science programs about magic in China at that time, and it was the first time I saw a program about magic at the Spring Festival Evening, so it was unforgettable.
4.2009-"Not Bad Money": I only remember that in 2009, the name Little Shenyang and the red cropped skirt were popular all over the country. At that time, I only knew Little Shenyang. As the last sketch, "Not Bad Money" still gained a lot of jokes and won the first prize of "My Favorite Spring Festival Evening" in 2009. That year "not bad money" became a well-known mantra.
Reasons for love:
Watching the Spring Festival Gala is different from watching TV in peacetime. You will find a sense of belonging and feel that everyone is watching with you, not only the family sitting next to you, but also the audience from all over the country. After watching it, the program of the Spring Festival Evening has also become a talk among friends. It seems that if you haven't seen the Spring Festival Gala, it will become a kind of "backwardness". The family sat in front of the TV, eating melon seeds and laughing at the TV. Maybe this is what the Spring Festival Gala looks like.
? Especially when I grow up.
5. Playing mahjong-"The spirit is hidden in the chest, and luck is rooted in people's hearts." Basic introduction:
When I was a child, we also set off firecrackers, and adults played cards and mahjong there. At that time, I watched them play and how they touched the cards. I will gradually understand what touch is and what bar is, and naturally it will be easy to get started. It is also a kind of entertainment to play with relatives during the New Year. I can use my brain to create a lively atmosphere and be relaxed and happy.
How do we play?
1, mahjong rules: We usually play mahjong in Guangdong, which is different from other places. We don't eat, we can touch the energy bar. Big Hu is also different, bumping into Hu, subduing, and robbing Hu without a door. The corresponding rewards and punishments are different. There is also a big game called "bird catching". When someone is confused, they will touch a card in order and decide the punishment according to the cards touched. If it is a combination of 159, the penalty will be doubled. According to different combinations, there will be full-court punishment, family punishment and so on.
2. Clear rewards and punishments: Our punishment is generally to build a group first, and then the loser will give out red envelopes in the group, the first one will not be needed, and the other three will be given according to the situation. So the winner only grabs the red envelope, and there is no need to give it. However, it is different from ordinary red envelopes. The first person to pay can decide how many packages to send. If only one package is distributed, only the winners will be robbed, but the quantity is small. If you send three packages, the quantity will be larger and you will get it by luck.
3, entertainment first: playing mahjong is generally played with peers, and people older than us also have their own ways of playing. We also play mahjong for entertainment, so adhering to the principle of entertainment first, we usually play very little, not to make money, so we won't hurt our feelings, and there will be no situation where we don't want to play once we lose.
Reasons for love:
When I was a child, I felt that I had touched a square mahjong, and then I touched it from time to time. I am more curious about what I don't understand and always want to try it. I don't know how to touch myself slowly, but I can see all kinds of beards at a glance. Playing mahjong brings a sense of excitement, which makes people play harder and harder, no matter when touching cards or playing Hu.
Sixth, grab the red envelope-"how much money is happiness when you receive joy and love." Basic introduction:
Grab a red envelope is grab a red envelope online. Now basically everyone has several family WeChat groups. On holidays, in addition to the expression packs of seven aunts and eight aunts, there are many red envelopes bombarded. Generally, they are active in the group, basically responsible for grabbing red envelopes, but they are not very active. They can always see him on a red envelope. A person sends a lot of people to rob, some people get some people, some people are more than others. This is the fun of grabbing red envelopes.
The correct way to open a red envelope:
1, find the right time: when we grab the red envelope, we must find the right time. Don't let the red envelope rain everywhere, only to find that clicking in is "the red envelope was robbed." Family groups often grab red envelopes in waves. On holidays, we should look at the movements in the family group from time to time to see if there are any red envelopes. If so, pay special attention. If not, see if there are any words and words to send red envelopes, find the right time, and don't miss a red envelope.
2. Change the network: grabbing the red envelope is not only a test of your opponent's speed, but also a great challenge to the network speed. If it is fast, it will be gone in a second or two. Sometimes someone else has grabbed it, and your red envelope just popped up, so we can't lag behind in the network speed. We need to know how to switch networks at any time. For example, if the wifi used at home is slow, we need to switch our 4g5g. Or there is no signal in the place where you go, depending on whether there is a wifi connection.
3, learn to thank: while we are grabbing red envelopes, we should not all be red envelopes issued by others, but also learn to thank, regardless of the size of the red envelope, just put our hearts in place, and our thanks should also be in place. Thank you for typing or sending a small expression pack, both of which are good.
4. Rejection is just grabbing a red envelope: grabbing a red envelope is good, but it can't just be robbed. People who send red envelopes are tired and tired. Just grabbing them will make people feel that you are a little stingy and don't want to send one. You can also be lucky, so that it won't cause a person to post all the time or no one to post. It doesn't have to be big to send a red envelope, just send a few meanings appropriately.
Reasons for love:
1, create a lively atmosphere: Although we are grabbing red envelopes from a distance, the lively atmosphere in the group will not be reduced at all. Adults in the family will make fun of everyone because their hands are not fast enough, and children will be well dealt with because they robbed them. They will sell nice, all kinds of voices and playful expression packs. Even though you are separated from Wan Li, you can feel the lively atmosphere in a group.
2. Break through the traditional pattern: When we were young, we all had paper red envelopes and distributed our wallets to children in red envelopes. Nowadays, with the development of science and technology, online red packets have broken through the traditional red packet mode, and people can send red packets from a distance and grab them. It is not only limited to paper red envelopes, but also more convenient to send red envelopes in the distance.
3. Nervousness and excitement: What I like best is the feeling of nervousness and excitement when grabbing red envelopes. Keep your eyes on the screen when you grab it, for fear of missing one, and you will be quick-eyed and quick-footed. When you open a red envelope, opening it is also a kind of excitement. The amount of the red envelope determines the degree of excitement after grabbing it. You can also see who is good and who is bad when getting along with others. This tense and exciting feeling is very exciting.
? Seven, online New Year greetings-"Gankun Sun and Moon are still the same, there were similarities and differences last night." Basic introduction:
I prefer to visit relatives online now than when I was a child. Online New Year greetings can be given not only to elders, but also to friends and classmates. "Congratulations on getting rich and bringing a red envelope" is hard to say in the eyes of people who are afraid of society. In fact, we only rely on Nuo Nuo, and we attack on the Internet. We will not be embarrassed or speechless when we worship each other.
Online New Year greetings in two states:
1. Pay New Year greetings to elders: Generally speaking, it must be appropriate to pay New Year greetings to elders who are not together during the New Year. After the Happy New Year, there will be many four-character idioms that elders like to listen to, and you can also deliberately search for some long sentences that you usually send. In short, they said exactly what they wanted. Say something nice and you will be happy to give a red envelope.
2. Pay New Year greetings to peers: generally speaking, pay New Year greetings to classmates and friends, and do whatever you want, without being so formal. Put your hand on your face and you'll know if there is one. The appellation is also very casual, no matter what dog eggs, children are smashed, and how they are damaged. Paying New Year greetings to peers is generally for winning the lottery and greeting each other, not for red envelopes. It would be great if there were unexpected gains.
Reasons for love:
1, Gospel of Social Fear: For people who are afraid of social interaction, online New Year greetings are simply gospel. Once upon a time, I scratched the ground in the face of unknown toes, once upon a time, I was speechless. Paying New Year's greetings online not only eliminates the oppressive feeling in reality, but also provides a buffer for speech, passing through the brain at the exit.
2. Break through geographical restrictions: For people who celebrate the New Year, whether they are relatives or friends, there is a geographical restriction, and online New Year greetings can break through this geographical restriction. No matter where we are, we can send our blessings, and most importantly, we can also receive red envelopes from relatives who are not around.
Eight, living alone-"There is wine today, drunk today, and worried tomorrow." Basic introduction:
With the growth of my age, I have been a little afraid of celebrating the Spring Festival since I was a child. This fear does not come from the festival itself, but from the behavior of various relatives, which makes people shudder. Therefore, when I grow up, I like to spend the Spring Festival alone without external interference. It seems simple to do whatever you want, but it seems to be a luxury during the Spring Festival.
All kinds of chilling relatives' behaviors:
1, seven aunts and eight aunts asked, "Are you seeing someone?" "What's your salary?" "When are you going to get married?" Most young people have a kind of resonance and physical reflexivity, which makes people want to escape. When you are questioned by seven aunts and eight aunts online, you will find that many people feel the same way. Talented netizens also sang: "I am most afraid that my loved ones will suddenly care." Some netizens listed the top ten questions that Chinese New Year relatives love to ask. It is conceivable that many people have had the fear of being dominated by their loved ones. Therefore, the inquiries of the seven aunts and eight aunts are chilling. Ten favorite questions asked by relatives during Chinese New Year.
2. Let you perform a talent: When relatives get together for a reunion dinner, at this time, you are faced with the fear of being dominated by your parents, that is, let you perform a talent, and you will hear: "My daughter/son has learned xxx, let her/him show you something." The truth is, you can't do anything. You just watched a few videos. I didn't see a typical gourd, so I asked you to draw a gourd. Therefore, being performed by cue is chilling.
3, Xiong Haizi's troubles: relatives come to your home to pay New Year's greetings, in addition to facing various problems, there is also an ultimate boss, that is, its children. Xiong Haizi's strength lies in his ignorance, but you have to be sensible. You can't compete with him. Xiong Haizi is divided into three levels.
A, Simple: Xiong Haizi came to ask you, brother/sister, do you have any games on your mobile phone? You are clamoring to play with your mobile phone. This is a simple and difficult boss.
B. Difficulties: Xiong Haizi smashed your Lego directly, smashed your lipstick and ruined your beloved things as music. At this time, you should be on your guard, and you will meet a difficult boss.
C. Ultimate: When it comes to the above two things, bosses with simple difficulty and difficult difficulty will know to stop loss in time, but bosses with ultimate difficulty are different. Who can he call, who can he call and how? Alas, he cried, crying louder and louder. This is the power of the ultimate boss. You can't resist You can't argue It snows in June, and you are more wronged than Dou E.
Reasons for love:
Why do you like a person? I don't think so. It's kind of like being forced. A person, free and happy, stays in his own small room and avoids unnecessary "troubles". In the face of seven aunts and eight aunts, young people can't talk about the scene and naturally avoid it. In the face of Xiong Haizi, young people should think independently and naturally avoid the heavy.
I like different things in different periods. When I was a child, I liked to ride a rocking car, and the car model was a toy that I couldn't put down. When I grow up, I like to play yo-yo, and I am a little disgusted with rocking cars. When you grow up, you have left your yo-yo in a corner. You like to pick up the camera and shoot everywhere. When you see a rocking car, you won't be disgusted, but you will envy the children sitting on it.
? Facing the Spring Festival, when I was a child, I felt different from when I grew up, and my favorite things also changed.
9. Why do you like different things during the Spring Festival when you are a child and when you grow up? ? Subjective:
1, the change of mentality: a period of time, a mentality, as the saying goes, people will change, and their mentality will change. When we were young, we liked visiting relatives very much. That's because when we were young, we were lively and liked to wander around. When we grow up, we can only think of countless nagging and unstoppable Xiong Haizi telling their loved ones. So when we grow up, I prefer to live alone rather than visit relatives, so as to be quiet. This change of mentality is also the embodiment of our growth, just like our feelings for rocking cars, from like to dislike to envy.
? 2, there is a sense of gap: what is a sense of gap, the reality does not match your imagination, the disappointment caused by this gap. Facing the Spring Festival, when we were young, we were carefree. We spent this Spring Festival "mercilessly" and looked forward to it for a few days every day. When we grow up, we will still look forward to it, looking forward to being as carefree as when we were young, but the reality will be "hitting the face." We can't just sit there like we did when we were young, posing as if we were irrelevant and hanging high. We are slowly joining the ranks of adults, and the pressure is gradually increasing. Invisibly, the imagination and reality of the Spring Festival have formed a sense of gap.
Goal:
3. New things replace old things: "... now the night gives way to the ocean of the sun, and the old year melts into new things", and the natural interest of new things replacing old things is also one of the reasons. My favorite rocking car as a child, but it can't always be the top 1 in in my heart. That's because when I was growing up, I made something more interesting than rocking a car. With yo-yos and cameras, rocking cars will only be forgotten. So is the Spring Festival. When I was a child, I liked to fry things with firecrackers and cow dung, but when I grew up, I became more obsessed with playing mahjong. This is the substitution of new things for old things, and this is also the difference between childhood and adulthood.
4. The result of objective factors: Besides the substitution of new things for old things, there are many objective factors that have led to this change.
A. Policy restrictions: Nowadays, fireworks are not as ubiquitous as when I was a child, because fireworks are prohibited in many places, and fireworks can be set off freely in some areas. Because of this policy, we can't set off fireworks at will, so I have to let nature take its course and find another way to have fun.
B. popularity of social software: with the development of the times, the popularity of social software has become more and more extensive. Maybe my parents don't know what WeChat is, and now they play more than us. It is also good evidence that scanning code payment is everywhere. Because of social software, we don't have to travel all the way to our relatives' homes just to say happy new year. Social software can also make two people who are far apart feel close at hand, and heaven is still our neighbor. With social software, we can also grab red envelopes from a distance, and even the cold chat window becomes lively.
? "Conclusion", whether it's celebrating the New Year's Eve when I was a child or grabbing red envelopes when I grew up, they can become our favorite because they met special us at a special time and gave us special spiritual comfort.
? Things are dead and people are alive. Taken separately, he was just an ordinary night. It is because of our staying up late that it becomes meaningful. Besides red envelopes, cold chat rooms are places where people chat with each other. It is precisely because we keep sending red envelopes and messages that the screen is full of red envelopes and words, and the cold chat room has become particularly warm.
? Many times, it's not what we particularly like, but what we do that will make us particularly comfortable. Just like the flavor of the year, it actually does not represent "material richness", but represents "spiritual richness". In the new era, things are different because we will grow, so we should follow the development of the times and follow our own hearts.