How to judge whether a husband loves himself or not?
1, depending on the state at home
If a man makes out with you or helps you with housework after coming home, it means that he has you in his heart and will miss you very much if he doesn't see you for a while. But if a man comes back and just plays with his mobile phone, he will never care what you are doing. He will ignore what you say, which means he doesn't love you as much as before.
2. Look at your attention through your circle of friends.
Now that people have WeChat, will you send some messages? If you find that a man has never seen your shadow on WeChat, or has no response to what you say, it means that he has not paid attention to you, which means that his love is much less.
Husband doesn't love your performance.
Men who don't love you will become haggard and indifferent to your affairs. When two people are together, they will become more and more dull and have no enthusiasm. At this time, you will feel that the man seems to be a different person. But in the face of all kinds of performances, it can be said that my husband no longer loves you. So do you think it will be accurate to judge whether a man loves you or not through these performances? In fact, if a man encounters this situation, it is mostly because he has no feelings for you, but it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. At this time, as long as two people understand each other more and create more opportunities to get along, maybe the relationship will be eased again.
Does your husband love you? See if he has these performances.
I won't slander you in front of my friends.
After falling in love, boys and girls will become very close, have almost no secrets from each other, and know each other's advantages and disadvantages like the back of their hands. If he says you in front of his friends, he doesn't praise you, but reveals all your embarrassing things to his friends and says with relish that in his heart, he doesn't love you that much. My college classmate, a boy, talked about two girlfriends, but for various reasons, they didn't get married at last. Seeing that he is almost 30 years old, we are all anxious as friends. I mentioned my ex to him several times, but he always smiled indifferently and talked about their good things, saying that the time was wrong and there was no fate, and he never mentioned anything wrong with his ex. Once you really fall in love, even if you are separated, in his heart, the memories left by his predecessor are all beautiful. No matter now or before, if you love it, you won't slander it.
No matter what you do, you will take care of your feelings.
When a man loves you, he will always take care of your feelings. I once said in Qipa that I had heard a passage from Mr. Chen Ming, and I thought it was very reasonable. He said: It is because we love each other that I am walking on thin ice. Even a small thing will hurt our feelings and marriage, and we are not allowed to do so. Yes, because I love you, I don't want to make you suffer; Because I love you, I won't do anything that hurts your feelings and ours. Because I love you, I won't let others hurt you; Because I love you, just because I love you. I am happy if you are happy. If you are unhappy, I will find a way to make you happy. It is not the humbleness of love, but my respect for our love.
Even if there is an argument, I won't yell at you.
Whether couples or couples, there will be friction, disputes and differences. Under such circumstances, he can restrain himself from yelling at you. But when he calms down, he will take the initiative to explain to you that he really loves you. When many couples or couples have disputes, men will impatiently say that we girls are importunate, unreasonable, and even slam doors and things. These are all signs that men are immature and do not love you enough.
Fourth, grow and progress with you
Compared with girls of the same age, many boys are younger and immature. If he loves you, he will keep growing and making progress for you, just to join hands with you. We often see that some boys will quit smoking and drinking after marriage. When asked why, most of them laughed and said that their wives could not smell the smoke. He is willing to get rid of his bad habits for your health. Or in order to go skating with you, study specially, and start studying recipes in order not to let you eat takeout. These, although seemingly small and trivial things in life, all contain his love for you. If he is not good at some aspects, such as taking pictures, doing PPT, dealing with interpersonal relationships and so on. I believe you can learn a lot by his side.
Five can coordinate your relationship with your mother-in-law.
Many families will be unhappy because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law We often see that many men either stand on their mother's side or choose to escape when they encounter this kind of thing, putting you and your mother-in-law in a very embarrassing position. It is irresponsible of them to do so, which also shows that he doesn't love you so much. If I love you, when you have a conflict with your mother-in-law, I will actively coordinate and solve it, instead of standing on one side and accusing the other or avoiding it.
What warm-hearted words can save my husband?
1, I didn't mean to hurt you, but it was really my fault. Do not know how to cherish. Please give me another chance to correct it.
Although we often quarrel, don't mind what I say, because it's all angry words. I really love you in my heart.
If there is no you in this world, it will be more painful for me than any kind of punishment, and you are irreplaceable by anyone.
Sometimes a mistake can be redeemed, but for marriage, we need to be careful not to let contradictions become the cause of marriage breakdown.
We will be happy only when we miss you, but we don't grasp ourselves, so if time can go back, I won't make you sad.