In terms of personality, I am really deeply influenced by my mother, because my mother has a bad temper, which makes me have a bad temper, and I will get angry if I don't go my way. Sometimes when I look at the way my mom and dad get along, I feel like the way my husband and I get along is a complete carbon copy. Although I know that having a bad temper cannot solve any problems, sometimes I just can't bear it. I have to say that parents are indeed their children's first teachers, and they always influence their children's behaviors in a subtle way. I really understand this sentence, but now that I have a child, I am working hard to control my temper and try not to get angry in front of my child, so as not to accidentally affect him again, but it is really troublesome. .

In addition to having a similar temperament to her mother, her hands-on ability is also very similar. My mother especially doesn’t like to do all kinds of manual work. She feels that her hands are always clumsy and she can’t do anything well. Even cooking is a mess. I am very different from my mother in this regard. resemblance. Although I like baking, I have never been able to succeed. I like cooking, and every dish I cook is dark cuisine. To put it bluntly, I am a handicap. Although I have been trying endlessly, I am always far away from success. I really don’t understand why my recipes are so different from others for the same recipe?

Although I don’t want to admit that there are genetic factors in it, now I have to recognize this reality. Sometimes the power of genes is so powerful that it can change a person unknowingly. Although hard work the day after tomorrow is also important, if you don't have such talent innately, no matter how hard you work, you won't be much better than others. The only thing I hope for now is that bad tempers will not be passed on to children. However, each generation has different education methods. I feel that as long as parents pay more attention, children will be better off.