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It is said that after a woman gets married, her natal family is a home she cannot go back to, especially if she has a younger brother and a sister-in-law. If she goes back and lives for a longer time, she will feel Very embarrassing.

The relationship between women is difficult to handle, whether they are mother-in-law, daughter-in-law or sister-in-law.

Generally, an only daughter does not have any psychological burden or worries when she returns to her parents' home, because there are only parents at home. No matter whether they live longer or eat more, no one can say a word.

But if you have a younger brother and sister-in-law at home, the feeling is very different. If your parents and your younger brother and sister-in-law live together, live together, and eat together, then your daughter must be very careful when she returns to her parents' home, for fear of looking at her sister-in-law's face.

Lin Zi felt what it was like to go back to her parents' home and see her sister-in-law's face during this period.

02.

After Lin Zi gave birth to her child and finished her confinement period, the custom in Lin Zi’s mother’s hometown is that when her daughter is in confinement, her mother must take her and live with her for half the period. moon.

So, Lin Zi’s mother took Lin Zi back to her parents’ home. Their home was a three-story duplex.

The bottom floor is for mom and dad, the second floor is for the younger brother and his wife, and the third floor is where Lin Zi and her husband come back and stay here occasionally.

Lin Zi takes care of the feelings of her younger siblings. She is afraid that her younger siblings will feel uncomfortable if she often goes back to live with her parents' home, so she rarely comes back. She only brings her husband back to stay for the holidays occasionally.

When Lin Zi was in confinement, her husband took a month off to take care of her. After she was in confinement, her husband rushed to work overtime non-stop, trying to make up for the leave he had taken before.

So this time only Lin Zi and Bao Bao returned to their parents' home. As soon as she came back, her mother started killing chickens, stewing chickens, and making soup for Lin Zi, so that she could have enough milk to feed her baby.

03.

Seeing that her mother-in-law was so kind to her daughter, the sister-in-law couldn't contain her thoughts. During the meal, the large cup of tonic soup was placed in front of Lin Zi. Her mother put a chicken drumstick in Lin Zi's bowl and filled a large bowl of tonic soup for Lin Zi to drink.

When the sister-in-law saw this scene, she quickly put the chicken legs and chicken in the soup into her bowl.

At that time, Lin Zi's mother looked unhappy. Lin Zi secretly shook her head and told her mother not to talk. She didn't want to make her relationship with her sister-in-law so awkward because of this incident.

Lin Zi feeds her baby and likes to sweat a lot, so she changes clothes a lot and uses the washing machine to wash clothes every day. At this time, her sister-in-law is standing next to her and says: This washing machine consumes too much power. , this month’s electricity bill will be several hundred, right?

04.

Lin Zi didn’t say anything when she heard her younger brother and sister’s words. She had heard from her mother before that this younger brother and sister were so powerful and shrewd. This was her first time to experience this. I admire her power and shrewdness.

After staying for 10 days, her siblings did not give Lin Zi a good look. Lin Zi could not live any longer, so she transferred 2,000 yuan of living expenses to her mother using WeChat, which was regarded as a living allowance for the 10-day stay.

She knew her mother didn’t want it, but she didn’t want to make it difficult for her mother to be a good person so that her younger siblings could talk about themselves.

Lin Zi made an agreement with her husband that he would drive to pick her and the child up after get off work. Lin Zi was tidying up her clothes and playing with the baby.

The younger brother and sister walked to her room wearing high heels: Are you going home?

Lin Zi nodded but did not speak, and she did not want to speak.

The younger brother and sister said: Having one more person in the family means a lot of expenses. This month’s electricity and water bills are overspending, as are living expenses. From now on, when you return to your parents' home, you will either have to spend your own money to buy groceries or pay living expenses directly. Our family cannot support a freeloader.

Lin Zi said coldly: I have transferred 2,000 yuan in living expenses to your mother-in-law, and she will give it to you when the time comes.

Lin Zi carried the child downstairs, got into the car brought by her husband, and returned to her home. Later, Lin Zi rarely took her children and husband back to her parents' home.

Sometimes she misses her parents, so she will take them out and live in her own home for a while.

Although she doesn't like her sister-in-law, as long as she respects her brother and respects her parents, she won't care.

October’s emotional message: Some people say that we must thank the one-child policy of the last era, because it gave women the best and most respected status.

Perhaps according to the secular point of view, it is believed that when a daughter gets married, she becomes a member of another family, and when a younger brother gets married, his sister-in-law becomes a member of his own family.

Generally, families with younger brothers or older brothers, whether they are older sisters or older sisters, will feel more embarrassed and uncomfortable when returning to their parents' home.

Because I am afraid that my elder brother or younger brother will quarrel because of me, or my daughter-in-law will have a problem with her mother.

In fact, sometimes we need to learn to put ourselves in someone else's shoes. No matter who a woman marries or where she marries, her natal family will always be her own home.

I also hope that no matter whether it is a sister-in-law or a younger brother or sister, when treating the sister-in-law who returns to her parents' home, she will not say to be more tolerant, but at least show basic respect.

If your aunt is reasonable and treats you well, then you don’t need to be aggressive and let your aunt see your face.

Why should a woman embarrass a woman? If both parties have more consideration, understanding and empathy, then the relationship will naturally get better and better.