I like to cool down with melancholy music in hot summer, just as I like to keep warm with explosive music in cold winter. Libra, I am always used to balancing everything inadvertently.
It's a little out of balance recently!
I used to think that I was very calm, neither bad nor bad, without wind or waves, and my heart was at ease. In this impetuous society, this should be regarded as the best living condition.
At home in your spare time, brush your mobile phone, look at your circle of friends, bask in the scenery, catch up with hot dramas, flip through books, go to a friend's house on weekends, or take your baby to switch between various beaches, parks, playgrounds and shopping malls at will.
I feel that my life is full, but I always feel that something is wrong. This strange feeling lasted for quite a while.
Finally found the circle and realized that I had drawn a prison for myself.
Everyone has his own circle.
The circle I want to talk about is not the wealth circle, but the thinking circle.
Your life determines most of your habitual thinking.
For example, the scene in my mind is usually switching from home to kindergarten and then to the supermarket. The daily inventory in my mind is usually the menu of three meals, the children's bedtime stories, whether to buy a watermelon on a hot night today and so on.
Under normal circumstances, there will never be scenes of office buildings, university campuses, construction sites, hospitals and so on in my mind. There will be no stock market, contract data, pathological files, postgraduate entrance examination content and so on in the daily inventory in my mind.
90% of the human brain is undeveloped. Even Einstein, who is recognized as the smartest person, developed 1/3. Such a brain with great potential, but I use it to think about whether to buy a watermelon tonight, and the frequency of thinking about this problem is still very high all summer. I am speechless when I think about it.
This may be the reason why I feel strange, from the desire for the unknown and anxiety about ignorance.
The unchangeable circulation and the cultivation of habitual thinking hinder the development of brain. Thinking inertia makes change particularly important.
Now I feel that the more I am in a circle, the more I can't calm down!
Of course, changing circles doesn't mean that you really transferred to those circles that have nothing to do with yourself. After all, life experience is limited. Instead, try to make adjustments within your own ability and innovate and expand as much as possible in the circle.
You can't change the circle easily, but you can make it expand. The expansion of the thinking circle can make your brain accept more challenges.
When you feel comfortable, that is, when your thinking circle needs to be expanded, it is like upgrading to fight monsters, fighting level by level. What you think of as comfort and peace is only a short victory, representing the end of a level. There is a wider circle that you have never seen before. A proud life is to stay calm in a deeper circle of thinking.
Break away from the inherent thinking circle, open up new circles, experience calmness, and then break away from calmness, thus constantly gaining new heights and activating brain thinking.
The question is coming, how to open up new thinking circles and stimulate thinking?
Try to break the rhythm in the inherent circle, and everyone can make appropriate adjustments according to their own living habits and preferences. As soon as life is adjusted, thinking will inevitably respond to strange habits, time and so on. In order to stimulate its activities.
Let me give you an example. I get up at half past seven every day. What would it be like if I got up two hours earlier? I have tried, besides feeling that the days are getting longer and there are more things to do, there is also a strange feeling that the brain reacts to breaking daily habits.
In addition to getting up early and going to bed late, you can also try different eating habits from yourself. For example, if you are as sweet as life, you can have a cup of lemon juice without sugar, which will make your brain cells tremble!
Also, make some unsociable friends, and you will find the bright spots in them. Remember, the more special you are, the more you can activate your brain cells.
Of course, the last point is the most important one. Reading high-quality books and reading as widely as possible will help you broaden your mind.
Life is more refreshing than tossing, so make some changes in your life without affecting your health.